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    Default I give up. I quit.

    There's nothing I can do that will work and I barely even like looking at them or talking to them.

    But shear biology means that I will wake up thinking about them.

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    Default Re: I give up. I quit.

    May be stop arguing against the advice instead of taking it.

    PS: This is the last advice your gonna get from me anyways.

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    Default Re: I give up. I quit.

    I listened to Pimpin

    .....

    ...

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    Default Re: I give up. I quit.

    Dude, you seem to constantly be negative about the whole situation. Nearly every post I have read from you, you sound like you don't want to put in any work and just expect women to come to you. It's a very bad mentality to have when it comes to pick-up game, especially because we are biologically programmed to pick up on other people's body language and vibes. If you don't work on your attitude and start just going out to have fun with friends and meet new people, rather than sitting at the bar wondering why nothing is going your way, then they never will. You'd be surprised what wonders this does for your success rate.

    For instance, I have been reading up on plenty of material again lately because I decided I wanted to let my "no worries, I just want to have fun" side of my personality out again and improve my game. I actually call that side of me "give no faks Dave" and say its my alter ego to be funny, and it is. I can tell you that as soon as I got my head in the right place for the weekend, I made out with two girls, danced with four (of which one grabbed me off the dance floor), called the bluff on an "I have a boyfriend" shit-test, had one more strike up conversation with me while in line for food, and had two other girls who were good friends both ask me for my number. This was all over the course of Friday and Saturday night, and the best part of it was that I really just went out to have fun and didn't put much effort into any of it.

    So you see, you just have to be willing to fail and not care whether you win or lose. Honestly, you can never fail because each time you learn a little more about how to do things right. The last thing I am going to say is that I think you need to do some soul-searching and figure out how you can improve, and then fully commit to it.

    I hope this helps you out redstar. It is all just a game after all, so treat it like one.

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    Default Re: I give up. I quit.

    How is it a game if we're talking about reproduction and entire people's lives that they spend every waking hour building?

    If I impregnated a low value girl, it would ruin my life.

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    Default Re: I give up. I quit.

    Pickup is a game. Impregnating women is not. This forum is to share tips on game, improving yourself, and getting women, not populating the Earth. Life is most definitely a game. There is a start, a finish, and you can move your piece down any path on the board. It's a game, because how you play your way through determines everything. If you draw the "go to jail card," which it sounds like you have, there is more to come after. Even if you lose everything you have, there are always new routes to take. There are no definitive answers in life because the parameters are constantly shifting, and the sooner you realize this and give up your quest for all of the answers in exchange for some of them, the better off and happier you will be.
    And not to be a schmuck, since you seem to have a handle on that, but you aren't going to lead very valuable a life viewing others as so beneath you and being this critical of them. A life whose experiences are not shared is not much of a life at all, and I am willing to bet that saying things such as "impregnated a low value girl" is not the type of honey that attracts flies.
    Riddle me this please, how would accidentally impregnating a "high value" girl not change your life? You can't ruin your life, only make changes to it. Sure some may be mistakes, and others successes, but in the end they will all have been in the past and merely exist to help you build your future.

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    Default Re: I give up. I quit.

    But there will be a day when I am laying on my death bed. I choose not to view everything as a game.

    Would you rather impregnate a supermodel or someone that lives in a trailer park? There is a difference and a reason why I go downtown where all the hot girls are rather than the local dive bars where even the bartenders are missing teeth.

    I don't give up. I just went out today and I think I could have gotten a hot 19 year old bartenders number if I had better conversation skills.

    Plus, I'm beginning to think I have something called Asperger's Syndrome, so going out and SMILING and going out on dance floors seems a long way away.

    Did you fuck any of that girls that you mentioned?

    Do you go out alone? With guy friends? With female friends? A mixed group?

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    Default Re: I give up. I quit.

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Plus, I'm beginning to think I have something called Asperger's Syndrome, so going out and SMILING and going out on dance floors seems a long way away.
    If you suspect of something like this, go get diagnosed. Thinking you have that does not count. Many people think they have OCD because they like to be tidy and ordered, but in reality they are just normal people who are trying to draw attention because suddenly having a syndrome makes you somehow different and important.

    We are just regular people sharing our experiences to help each other. We can't "cure" a syndrome, there are professionals for that.

    But ultimately it boils down to the stuff the guys above said. If you think you can't do it, you can't do it anyway. That's why we occasionally say "fake it till you make it".

    And try to look at this from the bright side. You might not be successful yet but you are taking steps and you're beginning to see your limits, the obstacles in front of you to have a better life. Whether if you want to push beyond those limits or not, is completely up to you.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: I give up. I quit.

    On Redstar. So should every other poster on this forum.

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    Default Re: I give up. I quit.

    What's your current situation? Can you go out and bring a girl home every time? Show us all the hot girls you're banging right now.


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