It has become perfectly clear that this is where my value lies. I am about to build and sell a home that will net me over $100,000... and I will be doing this many times.
I am not extremely ugly. I am not fat, but I should join a gym. I could (and do) dress nice.... but without this, it's nothing.
Other than that, I should work on my personality and be a little more empathetic to people..... but I'm not going to lie and claim that I'm not after sex. And I'm not going to mislead someone into thinking that I'm after monogamy when I'm not. I am not going to spend 3 months trying to get in a girls pants, when her pussy is no different from anyone else's.... and I would probably "cheat" on her (or not lead her into believing I am seeking monogamy) anyway....
Other than that, I need to work on my social difficulties that have, at this point, caused me to believe that I may have "high-functioning autism," which is also sometimes used interchangeably with Asperger's. There were some people that worked together talking in a group today and their conversation was so comfortable and flowed so easily that it overwhelmed me. If I were to take part in it... the sheer sensory input from such a conversation would drive me crazy. It's like I can't interpret that much information at once.... I would just go back to thinking about my business. This can get boring and lead to an endless cycle of thoughts. Not sure what to do about this.
I hope I didn't ruin my reputation too much on this forum by listening to Pimpin'. I liked what he had to say. I asked "how do I get a 10," he replied "YOU are the 10," and that a man should be above a woman in a relationship. But that's not what we're talking about here, anyway..... I still haven't done his mission of 50 daytime approaches.
As far as the difference between muscles and money.... Pimpin' showed my pictures to some girls he knew and they said.... if I joined a gym, I'd be a little more attractive, and if I made $1,000,000 I'd be 1000x more attractive.