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Thread: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

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    Default A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    After having read many of your posts, I realise why a lot of you are shit in pick up. You see approaches as either winning or losing. You are mentally conditioned to see failure as someone taking a big shit on your ugly ass head. You don't want to fail and it eats away at you until you accept an approach of ONLY taking the least amount of risks to get the most amount of success. That is why a lot of noobs here think saying 'hello' to a girl is a success or even waving to her on the street. For those I say, "YOU ARE A FUCKING LOSER. STOP WASTING YOUR TIME". Enough with your bullshit excuses.

    Before you even start gaming you need to know the fundamentals. Once you have this down in 1-2 weeks you will achieve everything quickly in the game.

    1. Say hello to everyone. Primarily start saying hello to guys. Once you are comfortable go to step
    2. start asking for directions from guys and stopping them at times on the street. Once you are comfortable go to step 3.
    3. Star transition from asking directions to guys to complementing them on their look and ask them a question about their fashion. Once you are comfortable go to step 4.
    4. Apply the 3 level process to guys and girls.
    5. And finally Apply 1-3 level process to only girls.

    After doing all of this, you will be a social butterfly. You will not be a conversationally fluid person, but you have fundamentally learnt how to become one. At this point -- you should start properly gaming. Most of you are not ready to game.

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    Default Re: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    Quote Originally Posted by ThePhilosopher View Post
    After having read many of your posts, I realise why a lot of you are shit in pick up. You see approaches as either winning or losing. You are mentally conditioned to see failure as someone taking a big shit on your ugly ass head. You don't want to fail and it eats away at you until you accept an approach of ONLY taking the least amount of risks to get the most amount of success. That is why a lot of noobs here think saying 'hello' to a girl is a success or even waving to her on the street. For those I say, "YOU ARE A FUCKING LOSER. STOP WASTING YOUR TIME". Enough with your bullshit excuses.

    Before you even start gaming you need to know the fundamentals. Once you have this down in 1-2 weeks you will achieve everything quickly in the game.

    1. Say hello to everyone. Primarily start saying hello to guys. Once you are comfortable go to step
    2. start asking for directions from guys and stopping them at times on the street. Once you are comfortable go to step 3.
    3. Star transition from asking directions to guys to complementing them on their look and ask them a question about their fashion. Once you are comfortable go to step 4.
    4. Apply the 3 level process to guys and girls.
    5. And finally Apply 1-3 level process to only girls.

    After doing all of this, you will be a social butterfly. You will not be a conversationally fluid person, but you have fundamentally learnt how to become one. At this point -- you should start properly gaming. Most of you are not ready to game.
    I agree. It's just about making progress, not matter how small, so I wouldn't call saying 'hello' to a girl a failure. To some, it's stepping outside their comfort zone just a little to get comfortable with simply acknowledging their existence before they take it a step further. I wouldn't call your 5-step method the necessarily the right or best approach for everyone. You won't necessarily be a social butterfly because you've only learned how to say hi to people and start small conversations from asking casual questions. It will help, and a person's social skills will improve, but it takes more than that. I mean, you literally have to try to take every opportunity you can to practice. It's all about practice, and I think the most improvement will come from the building of your inner-game and confidence in yourself which will allow you to free your mind and body to express yourself fully as who you really are and how you want to. The rest is building social intelligence and just knowing how to start and keep conversations going and making them natural, comfortable, and fun for you and the other person.

    See, I want to get to that point where I know who I am and I know and am 100% confident in expressing myself as who I am 100% of the time. If I can walk through life doing that, I won't need to go out of my way to meet a wonderful woman. She'll come to me. Problem is I'm living in too much fear and worry to express who I really am. I'm not showing others who I really am inside. There's a gem inside all of us.

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    Default Re: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    Somebody, aren't you a virgin?

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    Default Re: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Somebody, aren't you a virgin?
    Yes, I am a 23-year-old virgin. I'm not too disappointed about that. I'm disappointed that I never really had the skills to have the option to lose my virginity. I never was in the position where I could choose to do it or not.

    I'm not the kind of guy though who would want to lose it just to lose it. I want to lose it to somebody I have real feelings for and who I'm physically attracted to.

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    Default Re: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Somebody, aren't you a virgin?
    Errrm, why is calling out his virginity necessary? Not cool dude, not cool.
    You will never do ANYTHING in this world without COURAGE. - Aristotle

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    Default Re: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    Cause he said it on another post.

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    Default Re: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Cause he said it on another post.
    Ok but it has no relevance to what he's saying. Just be mindful that it takes guts to talk about this kind of stuff and to be humble enough to ask questions/advice for oneself. Lets respect that.
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    Default Re: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    Well I'm not taking advice from a virgin.

    Go get a prostitute.

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    Default Re: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Well I'm not taking advice from a virgin.

    Go get a prostitute.
    Ok. I see your point. It does have merit if you are looking to get laid only.
    You will never do ANYTHING in this world without COURAGE. - Aristotle

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    Default Re: A lot of guys here need to stop gaming and learn the fundamentals.

    So does a prostitute.

    To me, there is no "gray area," between sex and baby.

    "Relationship" is a meaningless concept to me.


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