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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Not right away. I didn't have my logistics figured out that night. For a while, things were perfect, too perfect. I should have figured it out earlier. She was fantastic in bed, knew all the right things to do and say. I still didn't see it, being the love-lorn fool that I was but it was my friend ( a fellow pua) who mentioned that she was depicting all the tell tale signs of being a player.

    I investigated her and found out that she was dating two other guys as well. The whole situation made me feel sick to the stomach. Confronted her and she denied everything. Accused me of spying on her instead. Stated that I was too insecure and suspicious. Grabbed her phone and the texts were there. She held me responsible for her being a cheat. Since I happened to be a pua, was insecure and not emotionally available for her.

    I didn't abuse her. Did not resort to physical violence. Even though, I wanted to push her in front of a running train. For the girl that I once loved, never existed to begin with and she was just putting on an act. She had done this before.

    So I just went incommunicado and deleted her frm fb, blocked her on whatsapp and my phone as well as any other forms of communication. It's been months and there has been no contact between us since then. I have not made any attempts and she has tried contacting me a few times.

    When I think back to this incident, being my fourth failed relationship, it makes me realise that you can never ever get complacent. And monogamy is an exercise in futility. Women, as well as men, can and do cheat. With women being especially discreet since they have opportunities in abundance. A hot girl feels entitled to do what she feels like. That is precisely the power that I never want to give and hence I am focussing on pure indirect with no fem-pedestalising nonsence.







    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Did you fuck that girl from the nightclub?

    What happened in the "playette" relationship?


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    Did you fuck that girl from the nightclub?

    What happened in the "playette" relationship?

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by ryuzaki21 View Post
    Since I happened to be a pua, was insecure and not emotionally available for her.
    The fact that you investigated her and grabbed her phone says it otherwise. You WERE insecure. See its your ACTIONS not the words which matter and women can pick on these easily, no matter what you say.

    Quote Originally Posted by ryuzaki21 View Post
    I didn't abuse her. Did not resort to physical violence. Even though, I wanted to push her in front of a running train. For the girl that I once loved, never existed to begin with and she was just putting on an act.
    That was extreme. You shouldn't even be thinking like this at all!.
    No body owes you anything. For the woman YOU loved?? And yet you wanted to push her in front of the train? Sorry and no offence, but I can't understand your Alien logics.

    Understand that nobody owes you anything. Every one looks for a better opportunity. If you don't like anything about some one, be a MAN and be wiling to step away, instead of thinking of "pushing her in front of a train" or "physically abusing her". That's pathetic and the act of p ****y.

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    The fact that you investigated her and grabbed her phone says it otherwise. You WERE insecure. See its your ACTIONS not the words which matter and women can pick on these easily, no matter what you say.

    That was extreme. You shouldn't even be thinking like this at all!.
    No body owes you anything. For the woman YOU loved?? And yet you wanted to push her in front of the train? Sorry and no offence, but I can't understand your Alien logics.

    Understand that nobody owes you anything. Every one looks for a better opportunity. If you don't like anything about some one, be a MAN and be wiling to step away, instead of thinking of "pushing her in front of a train" or "physically abusing her". That's pathetic and the act of p ****y.
    She had an existing boyfriend and was dating other people apart from me. The only thing that I asked of her is honesty.

    If I were to shoot you in the head then you would be dead...and yet there are people who have survived being shot in the head. Nothing is ever a finality.

    Do keep in mind that there are no absolutes.

    Is the lead pencil that you see in front of really solid?

    That what is right and true are vague ideas if you will. Everyone leads their lives based on what they consider as being right and true. However, that may very well turn out to be an illusion.

    As human beings we are an ignorant species. We know little and understand little. Even so, we have the audacity to slap labels on someone else. Such people must be dragged to the street, kicking and screaming before hacked to pieces by a chainsaw.

    Human beings are akin to that of a scourge in a sense. Since we are evolution's most efficient killing machines.

    I create my own reality, my own hell and my own happiness. I, and no one else is responsible. I also choose who it it is that I keep in my reality. So if I wanted to push her in front of a running train then I would...not because I deem it as being just but because I can. Instead, I deleted her from my reality.

    It is a cruel world that we live in. Cruel and yet beautiful.

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by ryuzaki21 View Post
    She had an existing boyfriend and was dating other people apart from me. The only thing that I asked of her is honesty.

    Do keep in mind that there are no absolutes.

    Is the lead pencil that you see in front of really solid?

    If I were to shoot you in the head then you might die or perhaps not...

    That what is right and true are vague ideas if you will. Everyone leads their lives based on what they consider as being right and true. However, that may very well turn out to be an illusion.

    As human beings we are an ignorant species. We know little and understand little. Even so, we have the audacity to slap labels on someone else. Such people must be dragged to the street, kicking and screaming before hacked to pieces by a chainsaw.

    Human beings are akin to that of a scourge in a sense. We are evolution's most efficient killing machines. So if I wanted to push her in front of a running train then I would...not because I deem it as being just but because I can. It is a cruel world that we live in. Cruel and yet beautiful.
    Dude. The wishy washy philosophy you're spinning is making you sound like a Doco obsessed sci fi psycho killer.

    People may be the most efficient killing machines but we are not animals. This is a pick up forum. Harness and utilise your anger for your benefit (gym work outs, etc) or artistic license (making music, painting, sculpture, etc)
    You will never do ANYTHING in this world without COURAGE. - Aristotle

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Pick up advocates sociopathic behaviour. I am not sure if I am a sociopath or not. Either way, we have no business slapping labels on one another.

    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    Dude. The wishy washy philosophy you're spinning is making you sound like a Doco obsessed sci fi psycho killer.

    People may be the most efficient killing machines but we are not animals. This is a pick up forum. Harness and utilise your anger for your benefit (gym work outs, etc) or artistic license (making music, painting, sculpture, etc)

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    From what I've seen, "pickup" encourages a bunch of dorks to do stupid things.

    I keep posting in the hopes that I'll get something out of this, but the majority of the posts I see on here are terrible.

    Have you ever actually looked at Neil Strauss? He is not someone I envy. He's phony and he describes the whole thing as "hollow." Look at the famous PUA's. None of them are people I would envy.

    The only ones that are okay are La Ruina and Mystery, but they both have their holes. La Ruina suggests in his book to open conversation by sticking your tongue out at a girl. Come on, now.

    If you've ever seen Mystery in field on YouTube, he thinks and speaks so fast I can barely keep up, but he also says a bunch of dumb fake crap, like to push a girl off you when she is making an advance. What the fuck is that?

    I'm hoping that some of the REAL PEOPLE on this forum have advice that's better than the books can take me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ryuzaki21 View Post
    Pick up advocates sociopathic behaviour. I am not sure if I am a sociopath or not. Either way, we have no business slapping labels on one another.
    Talk of murder is a long way from pickup... Just sayin.

    My bad attempt at 'labeling' was a half hearted joke I hoped you would actually take note of, and have a good think about.
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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    I am not overtly obsessed with killing her and nor have I attempted contact...friendly or otherwise. My goals are to live better, eat better and workout better while finding a hotter girlfriend. Shit happens.


    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    Talk of murder is a long way from pickup... Just sayin.

    My bad attempt at 'labeling' was a half hearted joke I hoped you would actually take note of, and have a good think about.

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    If your thoughts were AT ALL on killing her, you should rightfully be put in jail

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by ryuzaki21 View Post
    I am not overtly obsessed with killing her and nor have I attempted contact...friendly or otherwise. My goals are to live better, eat better and workout better while finding a hotter girlfriend. Shit happens.
    Good to hear. I like your other thread better.
    You will never do ANYTHING in this world without COURAGE. - Aristotle


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