Not right away. I didn't have my logistics figured out that night. For a while, things were perfect, too perfect. I should have figured it out earlier. She was fantastic in bed, knew all the right things to do and say. I still didn't see it, being the love-lorn fool that I was but it was my friend ( a fellow pua) who mentioned that she was depicting all the tell tale signs of being a player.
I investigated her and found out that she was dating two other guys as well. The whole situation made me feel sick to the stomach. Confronted her and she denied everything. Accused me of spying on her instead. Stated that I was too insecure and suspicious. Grabbed her phone and the texts were there. She held me responsible for her being a cheat. Since I happened to be a pua, was insecure and not emotionally available for her.
I didn't abuse her. Did not resort to physical violence. Even though, I wanted to push her in front of a running train. For the girl that I once loved, never existed to begin with and she was just putting on an act. She had done this before.
So I just went incommunicado and deleted her frm fb, blocked her on whatsapp and my phone as well as any other forms of communication. It's been months and there has been no contact between us since then. I have not made any attempts and she has tried contacting me a few times.
When I think back to this incident, being my fourth failed relationship, it makes me realise that you can never ever get complacent. And monogamy is an exercise in futility. Women, as well as men, can and do cheat. With women being especially discreet since they have opportunities in abundance. A hot girl feels entitled to do what she feels like. That is precisely the power that I never want to give and hence I am focussing on pure indirect with no fem-pedestalising nonsence.