Do the people on here smoke weed? I don't. How does this affect or not affect your relationships with girls?
Some stoner girls love it if you can have em over and smoke, you're pretty much in. Especially if you can hold your shit when stoned. Other girls get weird and giggly and awkward when their stoned, and it doesn't work out. I used to use it to get girls over to chill we'd match but then I stopped cause it was ruining my productivity. That being said, I sometimes do when I am hammered.
She still comes back to this day and asks if we can get back.
I think the best way to combat it is to ignore it, but also ignore your relationship and treat her just as a friend with once in a while doing something a friend and a friend wouldn't do. She will chase you back, if you have built a deep connection and you have molded her life to some extent.
How do you deal with the fact that you are going to die some day? No girl is going to make you happy. And it's all about reproduction at it's deepest sense.
How do you make such a difference? What do you do? I think this could be my problem. I'm very selfish.
That is the best gift a man can give to a woman, his time, presence, care and to some extent his leadership. With the mindset of expecting nothing in return, you automatically become a different person and she will immediately sense that. And since your not there all the time, she will automatically see you as a savior, a very high value and sometimes even as a god (I appeared as god to her and absolutely love it).