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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    Agreed. You just reopened a dead thread. (Y)



    Excused.

    And Please don't bother yourself again.
    It was relevant to me so I re-opened it, plus this is an ongoing problem with you dick heads. Finding every reason to bring someone down. Good day

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by damoneyman View Post
    It was relevant to me so I re-opened it, plus this is an ongoing problem with you dick heads. Finding every reason to bring someone down. Good day
    And you concluded this by just reading one thread? Read my other posts before jumping to conclusions you idiot.

    And if you can't do that, then stop quoting me and get the fuck out of my posts.

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Random question...

    Do the people on here smoke weed? I don't. How does this affect or not affect your relationships with girls?

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Some stoner girls love it if you can have em over and smoke, you're pretty much in. Especially if you can hold your shit when stoned. Other girls get weird and giggly and awkward when their stoned, and it doesn't work out. I used to use it to get girls over to chill we'd match but then I stopped cause it was ruining my productivity. That being said, I sometimes do when I am hammered.
    Started game in 2012. Professionally coaching for 2+ years. Strong believer in good karma, if you'd like me to give you a call/skype/email for some quick tips please reach out. Happy to help. It's cool if you're weird, I am too. Just don't be super fucking weird alright? learnrealseduction . com

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by ryuzaki21 View Post
    Not right away. I didn't have my logistics figured out that night. For a while, things were perfect, too perfect. I should have figured it out earlier. She was fantastic in bed, knew all the right things to do and say. I still didn't see it, being the love-lorn fool that I was but it was my friend ( a fellow pua) who mentioned that she was depicting all the tell tale signs of being a player.

    I investigated her and found out that she was dating two other guys as well. The whole situation made me feel sick to the stomach. Confronted her and she denied everything. Accused me of spying on her instead. Stated that I was too insecure and suspicious. Grabbed her phone and the texts were there. She held me responsible for her being a cheat. Since I happened to be a pua, was insecure and not emotionally available for her.

    I didn't abuse her. Did not resort to physical violence. Even though, I wanted to push her in front of a running train. For the girl that I once loved, never existed to begin with and she was just putting on an act. She had done this before.

    So I just went incommunicado and deleted her frm fb, blocked her on whatsapp and my phone as well as any other forms of communication. It's been months and there has been no contact between us since then. I have not made any attempts and she has tried contacting me a few times.

    When I think back to this incident, being my fourth failed relationship, it makes me realise that you can never ever get complacent. And monogamy is an exercise in futility. Women, as well as men, can and do cheat. With women being especially discreet since they have opportunities in abundance. A hot girl feels entitled to do what she feels like. That is precisely the power that I never want to give and hence I am focussing on pure indirect with no fem-pedestalising nonsence.
    I have gone through the exact same thing. Stings like a b!tch doesn't it. But I think what you did was right, I did the exact same thing except blocking her and I was still nice to her. She came back that exact night and begged for forgiveness, I said no and lets see how it goes.
    She still comes back to this day and asks if we can get back.
    I think the best way to combat it is to ignore it, but also ignore your relationship and treat her just as a friend with once in a while doing something a friend and a friend wouldn't do. She will chase you back, if you have built a deep connection and you have molded her life to some extent.

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    How do you deal with the fact that you are going to die some day? No girl is going to make you happy. And it's all about reproduction at it's deepest sense.

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    How do you deal with the fact that you are going to die some day? No girl is going to make you happy. And it's all about reproduction at it's deepest sense.
    I don't, I just accept it but I will die happily knowing that I have made a difference to these girls life's and if she never forgets me, my name or the times we had together.

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    How do you make such a difference? What do you do? I think this could be my problem. I'm very selfish.

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    She hooked up with some producer guy who is somewhat good looking as well. No contact in months. Although I have a new situation: Check help getting a gf.``
    Quote Originally Posted by xlosmuertosx View Post
    I have gone through the exact same thing. Stings like a b!tch doesn't it. But I think what you did was right, I did the exact same thing except blocking her and I was still nice to her. She came back that exact night and begged for forgiveness, I said no and lets see how it goes.
    She still comes back to this day and asks if we can get back.
    I think the best way to combat it is to ignore it, but also ignore your relationship and treat her just as a friend with once in a while doing something a friend and a friend wouldn't do. She will chase you back, if you have built a deep connection and you have molded her life to some extent.

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    Default Re: Practise, Failures (must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    How do you make such a difference? What do you do? I think this could be my problem. I'm very selfish.
    Well its actually quite simple, the main idea is to give her your time and your presence (To some extent only, it should be given to her scarcely if you aren't dating). In return you gain some pleasure out of helping her, but it shouldn't be thought as an investment (Don't expect nothing in return, because your expectations will never be met by her).

    That is the best gift a man can give to a woman, his time, presence, care and to some extent his leadership. With the mindset of expecting nothing in return, you automatically become a different person and she will immediately sense that. And since your not there all the time, she will automatically see you as a savior, a very high value and sometimes even as a god (I appeared as god to her and absolutely love it).


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