Hey guys need some advice on what to do next.
Situation: Girl in school. We've met each other in september. Last Friday we finally had sex at her place. Over the next seven days we flirt, talk and I make her laugh quite a few times. I saw/talked to her most of the week (5 days out of 7). Tonight I was expecting us to hangout. **We did not make any plans for us to hang out we just both expected it to happen*** Earlier today she says her friend just arrived in town and that she needs to clean her place up/ make a few phone calls to gather a group of friends to go downtown. I walk her home from class and at the door the conversation basically came down to "Thanks for walking me home" *make out for a few seconds* turns around to go into her house. (Kissing her was terrible, I tried closing the distance then stepped back then she kept asking me what I was thinking to which I kept replying with "nothing." Finally she just leaned in herself kissed me then walked to her door)
I stand there for a second because I was waiting all week to hang with this girl. I couldn't believe at the moment she was ditching me.... (and I am kinda tipsy because I had a few beers earlier.) I say "Do you have to make those phone calls now?!" and "You really have to phone your friend??" Basically communicated with her that I wanted to stay and kiss her and potentially have sex with her before she started her night out with her friends... She said "yes I have to!"
As I was about to leave she said "Its okay I'll see you this weekend" to which I desperately replied "But I probably won't be here this weekend!" (thinking that its now or never) to which she said "Then... I'll just see you monday..." We both said good bye then I walked to the bus stop and headed home to write this post...
Problem: I feel as though I just made a fatal mistake and badly over reached. I communicated that I really desired her but she wouldn't even change or alter her plans for me. (We both didn't make any plans with each other so its completely fair...) Furthermore I fell as though I acted way too desperate. Which was realllllllly stupid on my part.
Question: What should I do next with this girl... I feel that I need to give her space or that I need to show her that I am also seeking other women. She didn't seem uncomfortable because of me our trying to "get away from me" but still I acted way too desperate.
Any advice helps!