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Thread: I need some advices for starting being PUA

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    Talking I need some advices for starting being PUA

    First of all, I am not a native speaker so I want to say sorry if this article is hard to understand.

    I would like to give some of my informations first so it would be easier for you guys to give me advices
    *I am Thai( I want to mention that I live in asian culture)
    *My look and ability to work is little bit better than average man but not super perfect
    *I only want to attract someone that is around me so I have no willing to do night game or that kind of stuff

    The first question: What book should I start with? I have heard of Double your Dating,Models(Mark Manson),The Game,Art of Seduction,Mystery Method a lot. If possible, I want books that is easy to follow and realistic(the entire book doesn't need to be perfect but mostly)

    Do women normally want to be approached? And how do we test if they want to be approached or not.

    How do I start to practice?

    Do girls usually talk about their feeling to men

    What is specific techniques of using eyes contact?



    Recently, I am trying to attract one girl and I just have made only our of attraction without much intensity.(but we did have conversation and knew each other before) She is quite a friendly girl and usually does soft smile and small giggling(rarely to do loud giggling). She sometimes completely faced to me during conversation and also did this sometimes even there's no conversation. I did some little little touches on her finger when I got chances(so I did not touch her without any idea) and,fortunately, she didn't pull off her finger or hand. Sometimes during conversation, I didn't look at her eyes but her neck instead and she sometimes tried to glance at my eyes. I want to know that how much she is interested in me? And how to deal with friendly girls?

    Sorry if my article is hard to understand again

    Thanks, guys.

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    Default Re: I need some advices for starting being PUA

    Quote Originally Posted by hamcheese View Post
    *I only want to attract someone that is around me so I have no willing to do night game or that kind of stuff
    If you are inexperienced or new to this, your social circle is the last place you would want to do this.

    Quote Originally Posted by hamcheese View Post
    The first question: What book should I start with? I have heard of Double your Dating,Models(Mark Manson),The Game,Art of Seduction,Mystery Method a lot. If possible, I want books that is easy to follow and realistic(the entire book doesn't need to be perfect but mostly)
    1. Models (the best book btw). for Inner Game

    2. Mystery Method. For outer game and social dynamics.

    Quote Originally Posted by hamcheese View Post
    Do women normally want to be approached? And how do we test if they want to be approached or not.
    Yes they do. There are subtle signs that they give but you pick them up up when you get experienced. Generally, you should just ASSUME that all girls want to get approached and approach anyway. Then once you approach you can calibrate depending on her response.

    Quote Originally Posted by hamcheese View Post
    How do I start to practice?
    REMEMBER: You never practise this in your social circle, for various reasons. Whether you want to do night game or day game, just make sure its out of your social circle. Once you get good with girls, then you can try on social circle as well, but as for PRACTICE, avoid it at any cost.

    Quote Originally Posted by hamcheese View Post
    Do girls usually talk about their feeling to men
    Yes. And if by feeling you mean her problems, then YES but not necessarily to men they find sexually attractive. In fact, most of the times they discuss it with Nice Guys, who are just like their female friend (and whom they'll never date).

    Quote Originally Posted by hamcheese View Post
    What is specific techniques of using eyes contact?
    Just be confident and look them straight in the eye while talking. That's most of the "Technique" of using eye contact.

    Quote Originally Posted by hamcheese View Post
    Recently, I am trying to attract one girl and I just have made only our of attraction without much intensity.(but we did have conversation and knew each other before) She is quite a friendly girl and usually does soft smile and small giggling(rarely to do loud giggling). She sometimes completely faced to me during conversation and also did this sometimes even there's no conversation. I did some little little touches on her finger when I got chances(so I did not touch her without any idea) and,fortunately, she didn't pull off her finger or hand. Sometimes during conversation, I didn't look at her eyes but her neck instead and she sometimes tried to glance at my eyes. I want to know that how much she is interested in me? And how to deal with friendly girls?
    That's over analysis. Don't go in that much detail. Have some conversations with her and ask her out. If she's interested, she'll go out with you.

    And Again, Keep your practice outside of your Social Circle.

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    Default Re: I need some advices for starting being PUA

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    If you are inexperienced or new to this, your social circle is the last place you would want to do this.


    1. Models (the best book btw). for Inner Game

    2. Mystery Method. For outer game and social dynamics.


    Yes they do. There are subtle signs that they give but you pick them up up when you get experienced. Generally, you should just ASSUME that all girls want to get approached and approach anyway. Then once you approach you can calibrate depending on her response.


    REMEMBER: You never practise this in your social circle, for various reasons. Whether you want to do night game or day game, just make sure its out of your social circle. Once you get good with girls, then you can try on social circle as well, but as for PRACTICE, avoid it at any cost.


    Yes. And if by feeling you mean her problems, then YES but not necessarily to men they find sexually attractive. In fact, most of the times they discuss it with Nice Guys, who are just like their female friend (and whom they'll never date).


    Just be confident and look them straight in the eye while talking. That's most of the "Technique" of using eye contact.


    That's over analysis. Don't go in that much detail. Have some conversations with her and ask her out. If she's interested, she'll go out with you.

    And Again, Keep your practice outside of your Social Circle.
    thanks!! This will help me a lot

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    Default Re: I need some advices for starting being PUA

    Personally I think social circle game is the easiest game there is! If you want to pick up women who you see on a regular basis read "Be relentless" by David X. You can find it on the internet for free. It doesn't give you lines or routines. It's just a good book for increasing confidence and doing what you want. This is the best for social circle game. You definitely don't want to run routines on women you know!

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    Default Re: I need some advices for starting being PUA

    The book is interesting! Thanks you

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    Default Re: I need some advices for starting being PUA

    You can run routines with girls you know BUT only if you do them as a joke and they know you are joking ...... I've had a lot of fun with that
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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