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    Default Need some advice on bar tender 20 and woman 43

    I have just joined the forum and need some advice....I have been generally doing very well lately, using a lot of Johnny Berba stuff in field on the streets of London. But i have 2 problem women.

    By the way I am 41 and look younger and no kids...just to set the scene!

    Girl 1) Barmaid (tender) in local pub who is an history uni student. She's my first stab at gaming a much younger girl. I walked into the pub on own, chatted to her about all kinds of stuff and mentioned about a local trendy theatre that has just opened (seeding). Any way as I was leaving I handed her my phone and told her to put her number in...which she did with a smile and I said we shall go to the theatre one evening.........text her after a few days...no reply.....went in local pub again and she was a bit shy and made the 'I was busy/been away excuse'....so left it a few days and left a voicemail for her saying how I was really busy going abroad with my work and won't be able to meet for a week....still no contact in any way..... WHAT do I do now to rescue the situation if anything????


    Girl2) Met her in a pub while out with a friend...she is 43 and a has 2 kids and is just about to finalise her divorce. Done the getting her to put her number in my phone after chatting for a long while, which she gladly did........about 10 texts each way and we meet during the day. I made the foolish mistake of texting her later that day.....no reply...left it a couple of days and left same voicemail as above...still no reply....how can a save situation?....anothe r text?


    HELP!

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    Sam981 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need some advice on bar tender 20 and woman 43

    Quote Originally Posted by seasideboy View Post
    text her after a few days...no reply.....
    I guess this is your mistake. Why texted "After a few days"? Why not the same day? You lost any attraction you had due to this. As for what you do to rescue. Nothing. Move on.

    Quote Originally Posted by seasideboy View Post
    Girl2) Met her in a pub while out with a friend...she is 43 and a has 2 kids and is just about to finalise her divorce. Done the getting her to put her number in my phone after chatting for a long while, which she gladly did........about 10 texts each way and we meet during the day. I made the foolish mistake of texting her later that day.....no reply...left it a couple of days and left same voicemail as above...still no reply....how can a save situation?....anothe r text?
    Think of why this situation is arising in the first place, instead of trying to "Save the situation". And for that, I think you are not developing enough attraction before the number close. Talk some time more to the girl, be playful and funny, make her laugh and do a little bit of physical touching (not much), like a handshake or high five (or even both).

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    seasideboy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need some advice on bar tender 20 and woman 43

    Texted them both before you replied...girl 1 ...no reply...and girl 2 replied with a blow out text.

    Going have to avoid the pub where girl 1 works for a bit!

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    Sam981 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need some advice on bar tender 20 and woman 43

    Quote Originally Posted by seasideboy View Post
    Texted them both before you replied...girl 1 ...no reply...and girl 2 replied with a blow out text.

    Going have to avoid the pub where girl 1 works for a bit!
    Sorry but I was waiting for someone with greater credentials than me to reply. Anyways, you seem pretty obsessed with it. Better to move one and remember that the world is a sea and girls are like fish. You lost 2, but still there's whole sea out there, full of fish.
    (can still try with girl-1 in person)

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    Default Re: Need some advice on bar tender 20 and woman 43

    Thanks. Since I have been doing the PUA thing properly...the failures are rare...but tend to prey on my mind more!


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