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    Default How to deal with insecurities about height?

    So I'm 6'8 tall and I literally feel like a giant. Yesterday I was talking to some chick in a club and she kept on saying things about my height, we still kissed but I actually never feel like approaching outside of a club because I just know that my height will be brought up. Any guys here experiencing the same or know some tips?

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    Default Re: How to deal with insecurities about height?

    Lol and I thought people have insecurities about being short. That's an advantage imo @OP. If some one brings it up, own it. You can't change what you are, nor you should want to. It only becomes awkward when you make it... and it usually starts in your own head.

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    Default Re: How to deal with insecurities about height?

    I think being tall is a pretty big advantage, if you can make her relaxed and attracted to you, then believe me she'll think of you as her protector, not some "giant"

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    Default Re: How to deal with insecurities about height?

    Quote Originally Posted by Alergy View Post
    I think being tall is a pretty big advantage, if you can make her relaxed and attracted to you, then believe me she'll think of you as her protector, not some "giant"
    Yeah when I'm pretty drunk I get very confident and 9/10 times I hook up with a woman. But I just got no confidence about my height when I'm sober..

    Edit: I'm 18 btw

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    Default Re: How to deal with insecurities about height?

    minimize the drinking, drink 80% you'd normally would to feel confident, when you're used to that, drink 60%, minimize it to a minimum in the long-run. Or try crash-n-burn, because eventually you WILL have to go out of your comfort zone about your height with a sober night, so embrace it "don't be so shy, I'm a good giant"

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    Default Re: How to deal with insecurities about height?

    Quote Originally Posted by Alergy View Post
    minimize the drinking, drink 80% you'd normally would to feel confident, when you're used to that, drink 60%, minimize it to a minimum in the long-run. Or try crash-n-burn, because eventually you WILL have to go out of your comfort zone about your height with a sober night, so embrace it "don't be so shy, I'm a good giant"
    Well yesterday I was pretty sober and hooked(only kissing) up with a very cute girl, got her on fb but here is the confidence problem. Don't have the guts to send something and I wouldn't even know what to send. I hated it when she told me "but you're so tall" 1000 times last night.

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    Default Re: How to deal with insecurities about height?

    say "thanks", you're definitely over-thinking, just send her a message, check text-game on these forums (can't give you any advice on that since I'm not very good at it), the worst thing that can happen is she rejecting you, it's not going to cause you physical pain..

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    Default Re: How to deal with insecurities about height?

    There are guys who are 5'2" and wish they had your problem. There are also guys with 2" dicks. It's not that big of a deal.

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    Default Re: How to deal with insecurities about height?

    Accept and embrace what you cannot change. Accept the inevitable because fighting it only causes negative feelings and thoughts. For example, my ears are sort of big. They angle outwards more than what you typically see, and that has long been a source of insecurity. It's only because I didn't choose to accept and embrace my looks. I really don't want to even think about my looks other than when I'm getting ready grooming myself to go out. After that, there's no point in even thinking about your looks for a second.


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