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    hamcheese is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Talking Some questions from beginner :p

    1. How do you deal the girl who considers herself to be really high-value girl and doesn't really open their mind?

    2.Questions about escalation:
    How would you guys do escalation when you think that you have received enough iois?

    What would be the great way to approach those who already seem to be interested in you little bit?

    By the way, when you realize that the girl is starting to be receptive to you, what would be the best choice to continue the game?

    3. How do you guys make deep connection with your target? What would be the best topic to talk about to turn her on?

    4. Does teasing most of the time gives us positive result? Do we need to do it so often? When should we do it the most?

    5. What are good solutions to create pre-selection



    some questions might seem to be rediculous but I really want to know

    I want to say sorry if my english is bad

    Thanks for answering,guys.

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    Default Re: Some questions from beginner :p

    1. If you're aware of Mystery method, then great, if the girl thinks that you're beneath her, neg (false disqualify her). But honestly, behave like you're unimpressed by her. "What makes you so special?" is probably the best little neg to make her bitch-shield go down without sounding too rude and to actually make her try chase you and get qualified by you. If she has shown you 0 reasons why she has high value, then she doesn't, not until she demonstrates that value.

    2.
    Probably the simplest way to explain how to escalate - test out her comfort levels, if she's not comfortable with holding hands, then you should probably work on your attraction & comfort building before you try to escalate to hugging, kissing, if she's okay with holding hands - great, you can escalate further. There's not a lot I can tell you about WHEN to escalate, since it depends mostly on situations and I don't use one-liners for a chance to kino escalate, don't over think it, escalate when you think she's attracted to you, when you think the time is right or just when you want to. Literally 50% of my escalations to kissing go with me saying something like "I'm gonna do something stupid right now".

    3. Don't focus on factual stuff, she tells you that she's a nurse, cool, most guys would ask more random stuff they don't even care about since their main motive is to get "lucky", but that's not you. Ask why/how questions, why she does what she does, how does that make her feel, this will not only get her to reveal details about her self, but will also separate you from the other 90% of guys who don't do this. Yet here's a tip - if she reveals some details about herself, either appreciate it or leave her. If you talk bad about what drives her in this world, then you'll get no where, just imagine- you're a girl, some guy hates everything you do, yet is still hanging out with you - he wants something - your body.

    4. Teasing is great, again - don't overthink when to be playful, as long as you're not doing it while she's talking about her dead cat or any other negative topic - you're good. (also avoid negativity at all costs in the first interaction)

    5. Social value, being well groomed, walking into the room/club/bar and knowing people, showing that you're fun to be around with (actually having fun, people will notice that), being confident, being the alpha male of your social group. I highly recommend you not to rely on pre-selection too much, if a guy is getting laid only because he's pre-selected, then it's not game and if you're new to this then your main objective should be ONLY to improve your game.

    - Alergy

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    Default Re: Some questions from beginner :p

    Quote Originally Posted by Alergy View Post
    1. If you're aware of Mystery method, then great, if the girl thinks that you're beneath her, neg (false disqualify her). But honestly, behave like you're unimpressed by her. "What makes you so special?" is probably the best little neg to make her bitch-shield go down without sounding too rude and to actually make her try chase you and get qualified by you. If she has shown you 0 reasons why she has high value, then she doesn't, not until she demonstrates that value.




    2.
    Probably the simplest way to explain how to escalate - test out her comfort levels, if she's not comfortable with holding hands, then you should probably work on your attraction & comfort building before you try to escalate to hugging, kissing, if she's okay with holding hands - great, you can escalate further. There's not a lot I can tell you about WHEN to escalate, since it depends mostly on situations and I don't use one-liners for a chance to kino escalate, don't over think it, escalate when you think she's attracted to you, when you think the time is right or just when you want to. Literally 50% of my escalations to kissing go with me saying something like "I'm gonna do something stupid right now".

    3. Don't focus on factual stuff, she tells you that she's a nurse, cool, most guys would ask more random stuff they don't even care about since their main motive is to get "lucky", but that's not you. Ask why/how questions, why she does what she does, how does that make her feel, this will not only get her to reveal details about her self, but will also separate you from the other 90% of guys who don't do this. Yet here's a tip - if she reveals some details about herself, either appreciate it or leave her. If you talk bad about what drives her in this world, then you'll get no where, just imagine- you're a girl, some guy hates everything you do, yet is still hanging out with you - he wants something - your body.

    4. Teasing is great, again - don't overthink when to be playful, as long as you're not doing it while she's talking about her dead cat or any other negative topic - you're good. (also avoid negativity at all costs in the first interaction)

    5. Social value, being well groomed, walking into the room/club/bar and knowing people, showing that you're fun to be around with (actually having fun, people will notice that), being confident, being the alpha male of your social group. I highly recommend you not to rely on pre-selection too much, if a guy is getting laid only because he's pre-selected, then it's not game and if you're new to this then your main objective should be ONLY to improve your game.

    - Alergy
    Thanks!!
    Your answer is very useful. I will try to improve my game

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    Default Re: Some questions from beginner :p

    Also read "Mystery Method" book. I know it's hard to read a book but it's really detailed and helpful and it will solve most of your problems. You can even refer to one particular topic. So e.g if you are having problems regarding escalation just skip to that part.

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    Default Re: Some questions from beginner :p

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    Also read "Mystery Method" book. I know it's hard to read a book but it's really detailed and helpful and it will solve most of your problems. You can even refer to one particular topic. So e.g if you are having problems regarding escalation just skip to that part.
    Just got pdf version in internet. Thanks for your rep!!

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    Default Re: Some questions from beginner :p

    Hamcheese,

    Try these, great for beginners, require low confidence too and help build it:

    https://www.puaforums.com/approachin...ua-easier.html
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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