Re: Kiss-closed and brought colleague home. She now needs time to "think".
Good post I like everything you said here. I am working on this chick on facebook who I don't know. Things progressed and added her on Snapchat. Starting to like her. I like how you put things. We feel a great big urge to tell them every 5 min we like them but what you are saying here is to hold back and for big reason since it is a huge turn off for most women.
Originally Posted by Alergy
While guys were blowing her up on her facebook wall and tagging her wall I was laying back and doing nothing to not be too needy and she was snapping me on her on while she was drunk. This is a great thing because I got an email if they don't text you while drunk you're screwed and then it happened later that night.
Now currently she is getting blown up from every angle (a new guy posting on her wall everyday) but it comes with the territory since she is a 10.
In other words OP you are making a bigger deal out of this than it really is. She senses the pressure and pulled back taking back the power. It is a power struggle and right now I am trying to master always having the power.
In a word you got Oneitis bro and it scares chicks off the fastest. With this other chick yeah I was mad at first but dayum she is a 10 of course she is going to have a million guys after her. She has more guys hitting on her than my EX so obvisouly I got an upgrade.
I haven't hooked up with her yet but I did make an attempt. Either way I am more of waiting for the right time, watching from a distance, and allowing her to pursue ME. A 10 pursue me I know a wild thought but so far it has kinda worked since she initiated me on Snap. either way I have no investment in this chick "after all we don't know each other" like me and like most guys OP you are making this into a bigger deal than it actually is.
Just go out meet chicks and have fun. That is the best strategy. Getting serious too soon always leads to displeasure in the arms of women. I am learning still sure but I am playing the 10 this way and granted she is probably playing me more but I won't lose my power.
That's all that matters as long as you don't lose your emotions it doesn't matter how hot she is. Don't lower your value for her.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.