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    Default text game with a cold girl

    I need advice with this:

    Met this girl about 2 weeks ago, we went on a date on Monday. K-close at the end of the day.

    Now from the 2 weeks we have been texting I realize that she is the kind of girl who really engages while we are texting (she seems to be very interested), but she has never initiated contact.

    I don't want to look like I am constantly chasing after her... I had this issue previously with another girl where I said ok I'll wait and see if she initiates contact and after some days it backfired because she assumed I was not interested in her and moved on.

    I read some info on the net about the waiting double the time to reply, etc... but nowadays with whatsapp it seems pretty stupid because you can already see when the other person read the message and you can also see when the other person is online. Plus, it is kind of difficult to engage in conversation when you are taking 15 to 30 minutes between replies hah.

    any ideas or suggestions?

    thanks!

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    Default Re: text game with a cold girl

    Quote Originally Posted by nickfury View Post
    I need advice with this:

    Met this girl about 2 weeks ago, we went on a date on Monday. K-close at the end of the day.

    Now from the 2 weeks we have been texting I realize that she is the kind of girl who really engages while we are texting (she seems to be very interested), but she has never initiated contact.

    I don't want to look like I am constantly chasing after her... I had this issue previously with another girl where I said ok I'll wait and see if she initiates contact and after some days it backfired because she assumed I was not interested in her and moved on.

    I read some info on the net about the waiting double the time to reply, etc... but nowadays with whatsapp it seems pretty stupid because you can already see when the other person read the message and you can also see when the other person is online. Plus, it is kind of difficult to engage in conversation when you are taking 15 to 30 minutes between replies hah.

    any ideas or suggestions?

    thanks!
    Yeah she has all the power, you're not playing the game very well and you're locked into a bait and switch method of attack only.

    My plan of attack or strategy is ever changing. But as far as response time sure when I started out I worried. Now I text back according to what I feel. Whether weeks, days, minutes, hours it is all according to how I feel. Acting according to how I feel generally generates the best results.

    I used to respond to everything instantly and constantly but now I spread out my response time to reflect according to what I feel about the girl.


    That's what I realize. My ultimate goal is to spend time with them that is the goal since that will give you the most validation. Also though play the game. You get better at it. Now I don't worry about cold fish, no responses, etc.


    I only worry when it gets really really bad. But I have seen things turn around in the worst of the worst situations so many times I just hold on until I am no longer willing to invest.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: text game with a cold girl

    Ask her on another date, fuck the texting.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: text game with a cold girl

    You guys are right! Thanks a lot

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    Default Re: text game with a cold girl

    Yeah asking for another date is the best, texting is not very cool for building up 99% of the time. IMO texting has it's implications with specific girls, such as really shy ones who tend to really open up if you do it right through text, and then when you hang out she can really be herself (I love making shy girls come out of their shell, they're so weird and it's... sexy for some reason lol). Don't be afraid to mainly text her first though. It's cool. Girls have a lot of stigma about being "crazy" and "desperate" and they fear if they put themselves out there they will get rejected.. much harder then when a guy gets rejected. You're in the game


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