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Thread: Dealing with busy or overstressed girls

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    Default Dealing with busy or overstressed girls

    Have you ever dealt with this kind of girls?

    You text them on Wednesday and you are like, any plans for the Friday? Let's go out. and they go: I don't know yet, I am kind of tired from work, we'll see on Friday.

    I feel like it shows some sort of desperation if you say: "Ok let's talk on Friday" and then on Friday you say so are we going out?. It gives her the power and it makes you look like you've been waiting all week for her to make up her mind as to whether she wants to go out with you or not.

    my initial reaction would be to go oh well you are missing it, have a good weekend, but if she really doesn't know if she can go out or not, it can come out wrong.

    2nd choice would be to text these girls directly on the same day. Problem is that if I do that and she says sorry I can't today then I end up without the bread and without the cake...

    3rd choice would be to run away from busy girls... haha

    Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Dealing with busy or overstressed girls

    I recommend the 1st one, if that doesn't help, switch to 3rd

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    Default Re: Dealing with busy or overstressed girls

    This scenario is extremely easy to handle. All you need to do is this:

    You: I'm going out on Friday. You should join me.
    Her: I don't know yet.
    You: Okay

    Then you don't text her again. You go out on Friday with your friends and have a good time regardless of what she does. If she texts you Friday and says I can't make it blah blah blah. You say "no worries " and still go out. If she's friends with you on facebook she'll see photos of you and your friends having a good time. If she says she can go you say "Great, I'm going to xxx meet me there at (this time)" or "Great, I'll pick you up at (this time)".

    If she seems a little flaky I prefer the first option, since if she flakes at the last minute it doesn't matter to you since she was meeting you there. Also, if she's meeting you and your friends at the place don't text her "where are you?" and crap like that. Just have a good time. She'll text YOU if she plans to flake to which you respond "no worries. Have a good night! "

    If it's a date your setting up and she says she's not sure or "maybe" then read this thread I wrote https://www.puaforums.com/approachin...dle-maybe.html

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    Default Re: Dealing with busy or overstressed girls

    Very useful information! Thanks a lot.

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    Default Re: Dealing with busy or overstressed girls

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    This scenario is extremely easy to handle. All you need to do is this:

    You: I'm going out on Friday. You should join me.
    Her: I don't know yet.
    You: Okay

    Then you don't text her again. You go out on Friday with your friends and have a good time regardless of what she does. If she texts you Friday and says I can't make it blah blah blah. You say "no worries " and still go out. If she's friends with you on facebook she'll see photos of you and your friends having a good time. If she says she can go you say "Great, I'm going to xxx meet me there at (this time)" or "Great, I'll pick you up at (this time)".

    If she seems a little flaky I prefer the first option, since if she flakes at the last minute it doesn't matter to you since she was meeting you there. Also, if she's meeting you and your friends at the place don't text her "where are you?" and crap like that. Just have a good time. She'll text YOU if she plans to flake to which you respond "no worries. Have a good night! "

    If it's a date your setting up and she says she's not sure or "maybe" then read this thread I wrote https://www.puaforums.com/approachin...dle-maybe.html
    Awesome bruh much needed post for a much needed time.

    I am gaming a HB10 on facebook and am building intrigue through her friend (who's like married) by going to this event at her bestie's house. I am hoping target sees the plans on bestire's wall and naturally gives consent but may text her tomorrow to confirm she is going and this stuff really helped.
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