I recently experienced something that has convinced me that I need to change a number of things in my life. I sat down and wrote out my goals; one of them was to become a man that most (90%) men want to follow/feel the need to please and that most (90%) of women are attracted too. I know these are very ambitious goals but I have met men who are this way who are in no way inherently superior to me (physically attractive, intelligent, etc), and I have concluded that it all comes down the persona that one cultivates. This is something that can be learned and I have endeavored to master it.
I don't want to rely on routines or any sort of canned lines which are only situationally relevant, I want to develop the confidence and skills with interactions that is part of me and is relevant in every situation, with women I want and men, whether I want them as friends, followers or threats rendered impotent.
I need suggestions on where to start, I know I need to come off as confident, funny, intelligent, etc but I'm looking for a guide or system to break it down into manageable pieces and possibly a community to provide support. I realize this is a very ambitious goal but I am committed to putting in the effort and time to achieve it, whatever is required.