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Thread: When you know she wants to kiss you but she's telling herself not to?

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    Default When you know she wants to kiss you but she's telling herself not to?

    Hi all,

    I've got a girl I used to semi-date a few months back, however things never properly got off the ground cause her ex showed up after a few weeks. Long story.

    But we still catch the train together, text and email all the time and aim to have a day each week where we hang out 1 on 1.

    The thing is: Almost every time we'll be sitting together talking, she'll do this thing where she's rapidly alternating her gaze between my eyes and my lips. Like she's having an epileptic fit. She says it's an involuntary thing, because my lips were "luscious" to kiss.

    I then tried this thing as a joke, where I bit my lip in a seductive way and slowly stared her body up from her legs to her lips. She had to cover her eyes with her hands. When I asked her if it worked she said "you know it works". And later "who knows what would've happened" if she'd kept her eyes open.

    Anyway, question is: Given her vow not to get intimate with me, what's the best way to initiate a kiss she won't turn down? I wanna escalate this to friends with benefits or even a relationship and feel there's no way to do this without kissing her (and therefore making her cheat and adding a layer of complexity to her relationship - the dude's a dork and lives in another city, don't worry).

    I'm thinking when we're alone together and I spot the whole eye fluttering thing, I simply say "I really wanna kiss you too", put my hands on both her cheeks so she can't move her head and go in for the kiss.

    Would be really interested to hear your thoughts though!

    Cheers guys

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    Default Re: When you know she wants to kiss you but she's telling herself not to?

    1. Just kiss her for Christ sake.

    2.get her to kiss your cheek and when she is close turn your head so your lips touch and say "guess your vows over" with a cheeky smile.

    2 options ^^^
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    Default Re: When you know she wants to kiss you but she's telling herself not to?

    Exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks Tyrone

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    Default Re: When you know she wants to kiss you but she's telling herself not to?

    I would start escalating the kino first... go for as many touches as you can, and make her laugh... she'll start giving you the "ok kiss me" look. Although if she is still will the dude her first reaction will be to pull back and say: hey, we can't this is wrong... You can start the first few dates with little kisses on the cheek once the "date" is over so she doesn't feel that it is going too fast.

    from my own experience, instead of arguing with the girl or trying to convince her why it is ok to kiss... what worked best was to counter with: Yes this is very wrong... and keep pushing forward.

    long distance relationships rarely work, humans need physical contact. Ask her out but keep things light and fun, so that she doesn't think it is too serious or that you are trying to date (which could make her feel bad), keep escalating and eventually she will fall.

    good luck man!

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    Default Re: When you know she wants to kiss you but she's telling herself not to?

    if your waiting for the ök kiss me look"she is running the game, Just take control.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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