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    Default Re: Speed Dating

    Ok, one more thing for now. Do you guys suggest that I not write any names down? If I did and she did it's a match and you get to contact each other. Or should I just treat it strictly as practice only and go a few times before writing any names down?

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    Default Re: Speed Dating

    Not sure if this is good advice, but here's my 2 cents.

    Get the best of both worlds.

    Memorize the names, do not write it down in front of anybody. Later, after the event, you get to anonymously submit names for a match. Who knows, you might've already hit it off or your practice so far may have been good.

    while you're at it, keep the practice part going on continuously.

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    Default Re: Speed Dating

    I believe you submit the name or names on a sheet of paper to someone at a table but that's just a guess since I've never actually been to one before.

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    Default Re: Speed Dating

    Because if I become attached to the idea of having to date one of them I will probably come across as needy(like almost every other guy who goes to them)and that will kill attraction? So it's best to just play it cool and be detached?
    the reason to be unattached is so you can have fun with it regardless of whether any girls there actually match with you for future dates. if you're not there to enjoy yourself, then speed dating will be agonizing. use it as an opportunity to be more ballsy than usual. push the envelope a little.

    view the five minutes with each one of them as a practice round rather than an actual opportunity to make a relationship with one of these girls. its like the difference between playing paintball vs having a gun handed to you and being told there are people outside who want to kill you.

    speed dating should be taken much less seriously than real world dating. (even though imo dating shouldn't be such a serious ordeal)

    [QUOTE][Ok, one more thing for now. Do you guys suggest that I not write any names down? If I did and she did it's a match and you get to contact each other. Or should I just treat it strictly as practice only and go a few times before writing any names down?/QUOTE]

    consider it "fun practice"
    play this speed dating game:
    1. write down every girls name.
    2 if you don't get any matches who cares. its just a game.
    3 if you do get matches your challenge is to take every last one of them on a date, no matter how ugly or grotesque they are. (this is for fun, not anything serious. no you don't have to sleep with any of them or even touch them, just milk your matches for practice)

    now stop thinking about it so much and go have fun with it. maybe even bring a guy friend along so that afterward you guys can laugh about some of the girls you met.

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    Default Re: Speed Dating

    Actually I've decided I'm not going to write any names down at least for the first few times.

    What do you mean by being more ballsy though? Exactly what should I do to "push the envelope?" Could you please give me some examples?


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