I just started going to this pub and the hot ass bartender suggested I come by again on another day she works. She told me which day she definitely works every week and said she wasn't sure what her schedule would be next week. The day she told me this and the day of her next "for sure" day are only 3 days apart. Is it a bad idea to show up that day? I certainly want to but also want to avoid looking like a desperate fool. So should I come on that day the following week?
On a side note, the first time she saw me was a day I was there with my laptop getting some work done. I paid no attention to her. She apparently remembered me from this previous visit. I do seem to get a lot more attention from hot bartenders/waitresses when I just post up and get work done and ignore them. The problem is I'm rarely able to advance from here (when I do start to pay them attention, I'm not sure how to advance beyond casual conversation). Also, these are generally pubs full of knuckledraggers. So by comparison, I probably do seem like a real Sheldon Cooper.
Lastly, I was not born yesterday and realize she could just want another tip that day. But I'm willing to risk playing into that if it increases my chances of moving forward somehow.
Any advice would be much appreciated.