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    Default Hot Bartender at Local Pub

    Hi guys,


    I just started going to this pub and the hot ass bartender suggested I come by again on another day she works. She told me which day she definitely works every week and said she wasn't sure what her schedule would be next week. The day she told me this and the day of her next "for sure" day are only 3 days apart. Is it a bad idea to show up that day? I certainly want to but also want to avoid looking like a desperate fool. So should I come on that day the following week?


    On a side note, the first time she saw me was a day I was there with my laptop getting some work done. I paid no attention to her. She apparently remembered me from this previous visit. I do seem to get a lot more attention from hot bartenders/waitresses when I just post up and get work done and ignore them. The problem is I'm rarely able to advance from here (when I do start to pay them attention, I'm not sure how to advance beyond casual conversation). Also, these are generally pubs full of knuckledraggers. So by comparison, I probably do seem like a real Sheldon Cooper.


    Lastly, I was not born yesterday and realize she could just want another tip that day. But I'm willing to risk playing into that if it increases my chances of moving forward somehow.


    Any advice would be much appreciated.

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    Default Re: Hot Bartender at Local Pub

    It sounds to me like it could go either way. In other words she could be baiting you into going so you become one of her loyal customers or she could be genuinely interested. Or it could be a combination of the two which is quite possible. However, I would suggest waiting a while and not showing up for a while.

    I met a hb8 blonde at the laundromat once that seemed to be interested in me. It turns out she was a bartender and maybe a week later I showed up at her bar. This was a bad move on my part. I should have just gotten her number at the laundromat. When I went to the bar I became just another faceless Joe at the bar and that killed any potential there might have been. You learn from your mistakes. There was another time when I was interested in another woman who worked at a bar but somehow that didn't work out even though she too(another hb8)was probably interested.

    The best advice I can give you in this situation is to show up at the bar with another woman. The bartender will obviously notice and if you ever go there by yourself you can see if she asks you any questions about the other woman.

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    Default Re: Hot Bartender at Local Pub

    Just Say "give me your number" Daddy her
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Hot Bartender at Local Pub

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Just Say "give me your number" Daddy her

    Interesting, I didn't even know there was such a thing. But it makes sense. It's clear I've been too "passive and polite."


    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post
    The best advice I can give you in this situation is to show up at the bar with another woman. The bartender will obviously notice and if you ever go there by yourself you can see if she asks you any questions about the other woman.

    Wow I'd been in a relationship so long I forgot the value of a female wingman! Fortunately I kept in touch and on good terms with my female friends.


    Thanks guys!


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