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    Default Help typing and closing hot tinder girl

    Hey guys, so i'm typing this out pretty quickly here before studying so if anything doesn't make much sense or I forget some details, just ask. So I miraculously matched with an HB9 girl on tinder this morning, so I waited to say anything until I saw that she had recently been on so that I wasn't insta-messaging like most guys probably do with her. I figured because of how attractive she is, that it's probably a better strategy to play the friendly and upbeat personality card at first instead of going right in for the flirting and trying to close for sex. She pretty likely gets that a lot, right? So I asked some questions, made a few inferences and jokes, and she rapid-fired responses to just about everything i sent. (I did not however for almost any of my responses since I am pretty busy). She hasn't seemed to bite much at the comments about her being cute or anything like that so far and just kind of glosses over them, merely responding to the statement and not the flirty side. I hadn't said anything overly exciting, just things like:

    (after asking what she's doing)
    HER: just ta;lking to you and doing some school work lol
    HER: You? (:
    ME: Exciting haha. I was expecting you to say racing a cheetah or base jumping off the towers though!
    HER: Why's that?? Haha
    ME: It's just a feeling I get from you.
    HER: Haha well I hope that's a good thing!!
    ME: I guess you'll just have to find out

    I was trying to be a bit aloof here and let her imagination fill in my answer if that makes sense. I then ended up telling her i rock climb and she said she'd love to go. I number closed and then we continued in text. I have been trying to type her so that I know how I should be talking to her. The constant super fast responses has made me feel a little uneasy about the situation though, because even when I asked her what her "hobbies, passions, and dirty talents" were, she pretty quickly responded with two long texts. In the dead center of those however, I got her first piece of sexual-based information: that she doesn't have a gag reflex. I have a feeling she is a Cinderella type or NJR for those of you who know what that is, but I am not sure at all. She could also be a TDR. Either way, the more I talk to her, the cooler and deeper of a person I think she is. She's a physics grad student and told me about how she loves "science and the unknown." I have a feeling she is a pretty complex girl who knows what she wants and is career driven. I need help figuring out how to maintain this conversation and moving forward with her, because now I have definitely become genuinely interested in getting to know her. I still have this voice in the back of my head saying she's a tester though.

    Can you guys give me any pointers, comments, or strategies for escalating things with her? I figure I have until finals or at max, the start of winter break in two weeks to make something happen with her. Please help!

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    Default Re: Help typing and closing hot tinder girl

    Hey man I hear you, Tinder can be hard to calibrate to because you can't really show a lot of confidence behind a phone, just that you aren't needy and weird like 99.99% of tinder guys are. You are doing it right man. Keep the convo going the same way it has been. What do you usually do to pull girls? My favorite thing if it's day time I have them park at my house and we walk together to get coffee a few buildings down, chill there, I show her I'm social and friendly to people, we walk back and I invite them inside. Just one example.

    My biggest advice, get the hangout man. Keep the text going but get her in person asap. Even if it is super quick and casual if you don't have time between finals to pull, show her that awesome personality of yours and she won't forget you like she does all the other tinder guys.

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    Default Re: Help typing and closing hot tinder girl

    Alright, so should I just go with the climbing date thing? campus transportation is super easy and since I also work at the climbing gym here, I always know people and can look very social (plus being a good climber and showing off a little doesn't hurt either). Also in my experience, it breaks up talking a bit so it is easy to eliminate slow points by focussing on climbing. what are your thoughts?

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    Default Re: Help typing and closing hot tinder girl

    And about what I usually do, I have certain sets of lines I like to run, which change up depending on the situation. I usually do fairly well but since I easily lose interest while on tinder, I don't meet up with the girls too often. I usually get pretty ballsy and go full on playful flirt.

    Also, something which I forgot to mention about the hot girl is that although she responds very quickly, they have only recently begun to be "full" responses since I have delved into some deeper questions. The other thing that makes me uneasy is that she doesn't give me a lot of return questions or anything, so I feel like I have to really drive the conversation.

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    Default Re: Help typing and closing hot tinder girl

    Speaking to the texting thing, no man you are totally fine here. She is investing, and probably waiting by her phone to respond to you. As the man you will have to drive the conversation that is totally cool, if she is responding quickly and long texts you are 99% sure you're in dude. Huge hookpoint when she isn't replying small sentences and is actually replying with paragraphs.

    What you do is up to you, if you want to pull her that day? Hmm maybe rock climbing, if you can get the transportation back to your house that would be cool probably. If it were me? I would more than likely keep it a little more simple than that, and go for food and then tell her about something interesting at your house like dogs or guitar etc

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    Default Re: Help typing and closing hot tinder girl

    Do you guys have any experience with catfish? My friend wanted to look her up today and we found her facebook, which only had a couple pictures that we could see, and pretty much all of her (183?) friends are guys, which makes this seem very catfish-esque. That's on top of the fact that she already seems way too good to be true, because she would easily be the total package.

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    Default Re: Help typing and closing hot tinder girl

    Aw man.. sound suspicious. I had a catfish attempt once and caught it... no joke the guy was on MTV catfish about a year later I shit my pants. The dude tried to get our entire dorm to send him dick pics, about 5 of my friends fell prey to him. Fuckin weird lmao

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    Default Re: Help typing and closing hot tinder girl

    Exactly. the only thing I'm confused about is when I asked "her" earlier today what she was doing around 5-ish tomorrow, she said she'll be getting ready to tutor. I would think a catfish would try to set something up

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    Default Re: Help typing and closing hot tinder girl

    I would disagree. Most catfish aren't looking to meet up and see you and try to convince you to still see them. It's more than likely a guy for one, trying to get dick pics. That's how catfish operate these days. They're pretty dodgy.


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