Hey guys, so i'm typing this out pretty quickly here before studying so if anything doesn't make much sense or I forget some details, just ask. So I miraculously matched with an HB9 girl on tinder this morning, so I waited to say anything until I saw that she had recently been on so that I wasn't insta-messaging like most guys probably do with her. I figured because of how attractive she is, that it's probably a better strategy to play the friendly and upbeat personality card at first instead of going right in for the flirting and trying to close for sex. She pretty likely gets that a lot, right? So I asked some questions, made a few inferences and jokes, and she rapid-fired responses to just about everything i sent. (I did not however for almost any of my responses since I am pretty busy). She hasn't seemed to bite much at the comments about her being cute or anything like that so far and just kind of glosses over them, merely responding to the statement and not the flirty side. I hadn't said anything overly exciting, just things like:
(after asking what she's doing)
HER: just ta;lking to you and doing some school work lol
HER: You? (:
ME: Exciting haha. I was expecting you to say racing a cheetah or base jumping off the towers though!
HER: Why's that?? Haha
ME: It's just a feeling I get from you.
HER: Haha well I hope that's a good thing!!
ME: I guess you'll just have to find out
I was trying to be a bit aloof here and let her imagination fill in my answer if that makes sense. I then ended up telling her i rock climb and she said she'd love to go. I number closed and then we continued in text. I have been trying to type her so that I know how I should be talking to her. The constant super fast responses has made me feel a little uneasy about the situation though, because even when I asked her what her "hobbies, passions, and dirty talents" were, she pretty quickly responded with two long texts. In the dead center of those however, I got her first piece of sexual-based information: that she doesn't have a gag reflex. I have a feeling she is a Cinderella type or NJR for those of you who know what that is, but I am not sure at all. She could also be a TDR. Either way, the more I talk to her, the cooler and deeper of a person I think she is. She's a physics grad student and told me about how she loves "science and the unknown." I have a feeling she is a pretty complex girl who knows what she wants and is career driven. I need help figuring out how to maintain this conversation and moving forward with her, because now I have definitely become genuinely interested in getting to know her. I still have this voice in the back of my head saying she's a tester though.
Can you guys give me any pointers, comments, or strategies for escalating things with her? I figure I have until finals or at max, the start of winter break in two weeks to make something happen with her. Please help!