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    Default When a girl says you are being selfish

    So I invited this girl yesterday to my place. Made some dinner, prepared a few drinks. Made out, had sex. It was kind of late when we started making out so she started complaining wait I have to go it's late... I said come on just a bit.

    I made the huuuuge mistake of cuming before she did... so she got up and said ok look what time it is now I really have to leave. I tried to get her to stay a little longer unsuccessfully...

    Today I tried sending her a good reminder text, her reaction was super cold...

    - Hey how are you?
    - Very tired, trying to work.
    - Oh well, did you make it safe last night?
    - Well, if it was for you I would have gotten back a lot later... you only care about yourself and that's it....
    - Yeah that is why I made dinner for you. Why would you even say that?


    Well we all know that she is not talking about how late she had to drive backkk (wink, wink) although she is trying to make it sound like its not.

    Now how would you come back from that situation?

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    Default Re: When a girl says you are being selfish

    Give it some time. Wait a day or two before calling or texting again.

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    Default Re: When a girl says you are being selfish

    sounds reasonable... it was actually my first idea... but what if she texts? This is the kind of girl who I text with almost every day, specially because we share the same line of work.

    Should I try to avoid the topic or how would you say I am sorry without actually saying you are sorry? haha. I also wouldn't want to give the impression of: ohh this guy did it once, he seemed like he didn't even care so he'll most likely do it again.

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    Default Re: When a girl says you are being selfish

    Wow! That's a pretty crazy response you got. I would put that in the shit test pile. You didn't handle it very well. When a woman says something like that just agree with her. A better response would have been "You're right. I'm a selfish asshole. I'm surprised you even talk to me." or "I was actually looking out for you. I know you had to work so I wanted you to get home early! :P"

    Don't ever apologize! You did nothing wrong. The good thing is you already slept with her. That means you will see her again. Next time bring a vibrator into bed with you. Let her use it on her clit while you fuck her. This will guarantee that she comes before you (hopefully).

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    Default Re: When a girl says you are being selfish

    Yes you are right... I should have reacted better, it just caught me by surprise... I will wait until tomorrow to re initiate contact although most likely she will try to bring the topic back.

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    Default Re: When a girl says you are being selfish

    Lol, man some girls are just sassy dude. Even though she didn't come and you did, she probably still enjoyed herself. Time to pull back a bit and stop talking to her for a few days, see if she texts you. If not you can text her something light hearted. If a girl is being cold and you message her trying to win her back it's literally like one positive magnet pushing another positive magnet away. You'll repel her further.

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    Default Re: When a girl says you are being selfish

    thanks man. we texted today. It was nothing too serious or nothing implied... but I got a good response, lots of back and forth.

    I'll try to keep it light like today for a few days and then suggest another meet next week. Maybe something light as well.

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: When a girl says you are being selfish

    Yeah man just text back a little slow, let her fill the void. Then in a few days plan a meetup with her, maybe offer to take her out for something cheap like coffee. Build some rapport with her, and just say let's go back to my house and take her back again. You'll be cool Keep me updated bro.


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    Default Re: When a girl says you are being selfish

    Worked like a charm! Went out for coffee... She probably had forgotten about the whole thing.

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    Default Re: When a girl says you are being selfish

    Haha no problem brotha.

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