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    Default How to approach an attractive girl that is interested in you?

    I am college and we I see her around campus. She gives me all these iois and recently she gave me an approach invitation by hovering next to me while turning her body and looking at me. I looked at her and turned away I chickened out and in recently she is starting to act cold on me. Although judging by her body language she is still interested but her face is still when she saw me and she seems angry when she saw me. She turned to face me directly again and made brief eye contact before walking away.

    I don't want to mess this up with her, she is giving me all the iois there is and I can't do a thing.
    I am thinking of asking her for directions and see where it goes maybe throwing a few jokes here and there and walk away. Would that be good place to start?

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    Default Re: How to approach an attractive girl that is interested in you?

    Okay well I'm not really an expert in the field of "gaming" however I think I can answer your question using basic logic. You said at first she was interested in you, judging by all the IOI's she gave you. You should have approached her in the begining right when she gave you those IOI's.

    I think she was angry with you because she gave you these indicators and you didn't act on them, women like a guy who is confident so you chickening out is a logical explanation on why she is angry. She also might be angry with you because maybe she felt that you were cold. Most women mistake shy guys for being cold because they dont really do anything, even though that's not the case.

    My advice for you is if you meet her next time, approach her. Don't wait for any IOI's or any shit like that, she already gave you those a while ago. Just approach her, say hi, or use an opener. Then close by asking for her number, I think that would be pretty easy. You're in college, my experience with college girls is that they are more open-minded and don't mind a guy approaching them to say "Hi"

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    Default Re: How to approach an attractive girl that is interested in you?

    Quote Originally Posted by jimbonn View Post
    Okay well I'm not really an expert in the field of "gaming" however I think I can answer your question using basic logic. You said at first she was interested in you, judging by all the IOI's she gave you. You should have approached her in the begining right when she gave you those IOI's.

    I think she was angry with you because she gave you these indicators and you didn't act on them, women like a guy who is confident so you chickening out is a logical explanation on why she is angry. She also might be angry with you because maybe she felt that you were cold. Most women mistake shy guys for being cold because they dont really do anything, even though that's not the case.

    My advice for you is if you meet her next time, approach her. Don't wait for any IOI's or any shit like that, she already gave you those a while ago. Just approach her, say hi, or use an opener. Then close by asking for her number, I think that would be pretty easy. You're in college, my experience with college girls is that they are more open-minded and don't mind a guy approaching them to say "Hi"
    She is still showing interest but she is trying to hide it when she saw me. She seems erect when she saw me and she keeps looking at me and looks down with her eyes. She may think I am leading her on or something?

    I am just shy and I am attracted to her which makes me nervous and I don't want to blow this up, because she is very attractive and I want to get to know a girl like her.

    Also she is the one who started showing interest first, I thought I can't get her but she started showing interest in me and I starting looking at her more and more. At first I never revealed that I am interested I just assume she is an attractive girl and I got no chance and she get lots of attention but she started showing interest plus I caught her checking me out multiple times when I turn to look at her but she quickly turns her head away.

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    jimbonn is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to approach an attractive girl that is interested in you?

    Then what are you waiting for exactly? GO APPROACH HER

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    Default Re: How to approach an attractive girl that is interested in you?

    Quote Originally Posted by jimbonn View Post
    Then what are you waiting for exactly? GO APPROACH HER
    That is exactly what I am asking myself. I have approach anxiety and don't want to blow it.

    But I will do it. Care to give some tips?

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    Default Re: How to approach an attractive girl that is interested in you?

    Well there isn't a specific magic cure for approach anxiety or for confidence building, it takes practice. Which is why I am telling you to approach, you need to be involved in these sorts of experiences to grow, even if you didn't close her you're inner game was improved. There is something I can tell you to do it may sound a bit weird, but I read this in a book and listened to it in a Ted Talk. Basically she said in order to be confident you have to fake it. Which means approach the girl while you're essentially lying to yourself that your confident, the effect will make you more confident. You can also stand in front of a mirror look at yourself and repeat that you are confident before going to meet her, but I don't think you need all that, just approach her and you'll find that you will click just when you open a convo with her

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    Default Re: How to approach an attractive girl that is interested in you?

    Quote Originally Posted by jimbonn View Post
    Well there isn't a specific magic cure for approach anxiety or for confidence building, it takes practice. Which is why I am telling you to approach, you need to be involved in these sorts of experiences to grow, even if you didn't close her you're inner game was improved. There is something I can tell you to do it may sound a bit weird, but I read this in a book and listened to it in a Ted Talk. Basically she said in order to be confident you have to fake it. Which means approach the girl while you're essentially lying to yourself that your confident, the effect will make you more confident. You can also stand in front of a mirror look at yourself and repeat that you are confident before going to meet her, but I don't think you need all that, just approach her and you'll find that you will click just when you open a convo with her
    Thanks man. I will keep that in mind.


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