This girl I met at a bar like a month ago... we have gone out several dates. When we do she is fully engaged, always end up dates with K-close and got her to come to my place twice for sex.
Problem happens when we text and I ask her out... this is a sample of how it usually goes.
me: Hey what are you doing tonight? Want to go out?
h: Not sure if I can.. let me see if I can finish this job I have to do and I'll let you know.
me: ok, don't sweat it.
by that time I already assume she is not coming out so I make plans with my friends.
me: hey whats up so what are you up to tonight?
h: My sister is here, we are catching up and watching soap operas. you?
me: I am going out with some friends to this bar.
h: oh ok, I see you don't waste your time, hah. Have fun!
me: Hey, have you heard this guy (artist) is coming to town this weekend? We should go to the concert.
h: When is it sat? I am not sure I'll be able to make it, sorry.
me: Ha no problem. Why? What other exiting plan you have in mind?
h: Nothing in particular I just don't want to make plans in advance, I have a busy week at work and i have some other problems I need to sort out.
Now for every 3 or 4 invites that I make her to go out, she says yes to one, we go out, fully engage, k, s, all the letters you can imagine. The 3 times she says no I end up either going out with another girl or going out with my friends. Don't think this is every day hah I'll usually ask her out on Friday, if she says no I'll ask again next week, but I just don't want to give the wrong impression
Maybe I should not ask her out anymore, and see if she says anything or suggests a date? Maybe even take it a step further and not text or call until she texts or call (this last one would be hard because whatsapp lets you know when someone is online, so it'll be kind of rude to show online and not say anything).