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    nickfury is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default texting strategy?

    This girl I met at a bar like a month ago... we have gone out several dates. When we do she is fully engaged, always end up dates with K-close and got her to come to my place twice for sex.

    Problem happens when we text and I ask her out... this is a sample of how it usually goes.

    11am
    me: Hey what are you doing tonight? Want to go out?
    h: Not sure if I can.. let me see if I can finish this job I have to do and I'll let you know.
    me: ok, don't sweat it.

    by that time I already assume she is not coming out so I make plans with my friends.
    8pm
    me: hey whats up so what are you up to tonight?
    h: My sister is here, we are catching up and watching soap operas. you?
    me: I am going out with some friends to this bar.
    h: oh ok, I see you don't waste your time, hah. Have fun!

    another day:
    me: Hey, have you heard this guy (artist) is coming to town this weekend? We should go to the concert.
    h: When is it sat? I am not sure I'll be able to make it, sorry.
    me: Ha no problem. Why? What other exiting plan you have in mind?
    h: Nothing in particular I just don't want to make plans in advance, I have a busy week at work and i have some other problems I need to sort out.

    Now for every 3 or 4 invites that I make her to go out, she says yes to one, we go out, fully engage, k, s, all the letters you can imagine. The 3 times she says no I end up either going out with another girl or going out with my friends. Don't think this is every day hah I'll usually ask her out on Friday, if she says no I'll ask again next week, but I just don't want to give the wrong impression

    Maybe I should not ask her out anymore, and see if she says anything or suggests a date? Maybe even take it a step further and not text or call until she texts or call (this last one would be hard because whatsapp lets you know when someone is online, so it'll be kind of rude to show online and not say anything).

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    nickfury is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: texting strategy?

    any advise for this particular situation?

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    Default Re: texting strategy?

    Couple things

    1. If you have other Girls to go out with, why are you so hung up on this one?

    2. Don't post questions about texting in the general section, that's why there is a text and online section

    and lastly, your texts are boring as shit! Browse around the text section and read some stickey's, there the posts at the top of the page in a different color and pay attention to T-mal's posts, he knows his shit!

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    Default Re: texting strategy?

    I suggest don't instantly jump into asking her out to a place built it up eventually and add some fun insanity to it.

    after a while
    You: It seems you have forgotten about nickfury but don't worry, nickfury wont let you go that quickly xD

    her : What I haven't forgetten about you etc etc

    you and her do some catching up..Then drop " Hey, I just remembered you were talking of this sister who you watched soap opera with. How is she"

    more talking

    you: hey ______, I gtg now tell you what I have something in mind but Ill think about it and tell you later about it.
    {This should embeed into her and keep her thinking where will you take her}

    After a while

    you: I just confirmed, could you come on ________. But I will only take you there if you come exactly at 5:16. Can you meet my expectations ?

    ^That strange timing should kick her out of her daily things and make her think "Why is it that at 5:16 how strange".. And since you already embedded before, the can you meet my expectations embeds even further. It would be extremely rude and she would have been extremely busy to reject that.

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    nickfury is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: texting strategy?

    Thanks for the replies!

    I'll make sure to post on the text section from now on.
    As far as being hung up with this girl... Well, usually when a girl says no it makes me want it even more hah. I like the challenge of girls who play hard to get, I think its psychological. If I go out with a girl, and its just too easy, s close the first night, etc... I most likely won't be calling that girl back.

    I am going to check the texting section for more ideas. Thanks!


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