Re: Girl at work: Fail
Firstly, Do not shit where you eat. Probably should keep work professional, I would simply use her as someone to practice techniques on but not catch any feelings or cross the boundary of sexual harassment on. So yes talk to other people at work, don't let her close enough to you, and DO NOT Catch feelings.
Secondly, She fucked him.
Thirdly, Stop being gay, listening to a girls conversation is Gay, Be a man grow a pair and stop giving a fuck about how many times her phone bleeps. Shes a girl, if your attracted to her, other guys will be too.
Excuses? don't need them, let that be a mystery. the more you justify it, the more boring you become and more likely you could offend her. Plus if you don't tell her, you create mystery and she will most likely want you because your now a challenge. Just DO NOT BE A ARSEHOLE about it. Don't be rude, still smile and crack the occasional joke. Just don't over invest. Balance is key
She: "why don't we hang out anymore?"
You: "stop being so dramatic"
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.