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    Default What got YOU into pickup?

    My story-

    4 year toxic relationship hit a brick wall and spilled hazardous waste all over the place (I usually talk highly about it, but that's kind of the truth). Depressed, lonely, extremely beta, and didn't know what the fuck to do with all the hot girls at my college. Watching my friends bang new hot freshman girls left and right while I just kinda watched, possibly drunkenly encountering one hammered girl a semester that comes home with me while I scratched her back until she went to sleep.. literally not even banging her, one time a girl talked about her ex boyfriend and how awesome he was while I scratched her back til she fell asleep and I thought I was doing something right LOL.

    I believe I searched online randomly how to get girls, and came across some pua type culture stuff. Read a few articles and started improving... was addicted ever since. That first weekend I read some stuff about self confidence and having fun. I will never fucking forget. I was the absolute shit that weekend. Didn't get laid, didn't talk to girls, but for once I felt fucking good about myself and was not just laughed at and called weird by everyone like I have for my entire life. Been improving ever since.

    3 years later now I am a pickup instructor, and run my own business along with giving mental health therapy to suicidal teens, schizophrenic patients, and Alzheimer patients. I am happy as shit for once in my life, and learn more everyday.

    I wrote about what got me in the game of teaching pick up here in my blog
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    What got you in the game? What's your motivation to learn?
    Started game in 2012. Professionally coaching for 2+ years. Strong believer in good karma, if you'd like me to give you a call/skype/email for some quick tips please reach out. Happy to help. It's cool if you're weird, I am too. Just don't be super fucking weird alright? learnrealseduction . com

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    Default Re: What got YOU into pickup?

    Quote Originally Posted by lifestylebible View Post
    My story-

    4 year toxic relationship hit a brick wall and spilled hazardous waste all over the place (I usually talk highly about it, but that's kind of the truth). Depressed, lonely, extremely beta, and didn't know what the fuck to do with all the hot girls at my college. Watching my friends bang new hot freshman girls left and right while I just kinda watched, possibly drunkenly encountering one hammered girl a semester that comes home with me while I scratched her back until she went to sleep.. literally not even banging her, one time a girl talked about her ex boyfriend and how awesome he was while I scratched her back til she fell asleep and I thought I was doing something right LOL.

    I believe I searched online randomly how to get girls, and came across some pua type culture stuff. Read a few articles and started improving... was addicted ever since. That first weekend I read some stuff about self confidence and having fun. I will never fucking forget. I was the absolute shit that weekend. Didn't get laid, didn't talk to girls, but for once I felt fucking good about myself and was not just laughed at and called weird by everyone like I have for my entire life. Been improving ever since.

    3 years later now I am a pickup instructor, and run my own business along with giving mental health therapy to suicidal teens, schizophrenic patients, and Alzheimer patients. I am happy as shit for once in my life, and learn more everyday.

    I wrote about what got me in the game of teaching pick up here in my blog
    What got me in The Game | The Lifestyle Bible


    What got you in the game? What's your motivation to learn?
    Back in High school, I was an average joe. Was respected but wasn't exactly an alpha male, I was given the position many time but didn't take because I was insecure to some extend. Some girls were hitting on me, one line a girl said to me was "[my name] your body is a wonderland, can I go on a ride" I never expected anything like that I just blushed away, it became awkward and she left.

    One day I was browsing through youtube and I see an add of Tao of the badass and before you know it I'm hooked on to PUA. Started Applying it since day 1 but at the beginning the reactions of these girls were overwhelming and since I didn't escalate it quickly became awkward.

    Fast forward 3 years later, I have studied a substantial amount. Applied most of it, been through almost all kinds of girls. Hitting left and right with no moral compass, once farked a group of girls [5 girls]. Had my own harem, you think of it and I have possibly tried it. But right now, I am trying to synthesize my own material (Total devotion) which I will be giving to the PUA community for free. Doing something to return the favor for this beautiful community.

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    Default Re: What got YOU into pickup?

    Right on man sounds like PUA has really helped you, I know it has for me. Sometimes I think about what I would be like without discovering it, pretty scary man.
    Started game in 2012. Professionally coaching for 2+ years. Strong believer in good karma, if you'd like me to give you a call/skype/email for some quick tips please reach out. Happy to help. It's cool if you're weird, I am too. Just don't be super fucking weird alright? learnrealseduction . com

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    Default Re: What got YOU into pickup?

    After a less-than-stellar high school and moderately interesting college experience with women/dating, I finally started having some decent results when I moved to a new city to start my new career. I ended up talking with a friend of mine, who mentioned "The Game", and it was interesting to know that there was actually terminology and a method to things that I was already naturally (inconsistently) doing without knowing it (kino, escalation, DHV, etc.) It was similar to the feeling of when I practiced blackjack and learned the secrets to that (think of it like the movie 21 but not as over-the-top), and as a result I was determined to learn how these things worked.

    Eventually I made a objective of getting to the point where I could feel confident in approaching, attracting, and perhaps ultimately dating anyone I wanted, with the overall goal of self-improvement and confidence from inner game. This was further emphasized by a breakup I had at one point, in which I had let some of those skills erode thinking that I would not need to know them in a relationship. The skills also supplemented my career objectives. Haven't turned back since, and always learning something new on this journey. And eventually, when I feel I have mastered the concepts, would like to help others along the way.

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    Default Re: What got YOU into pickup?

    Not getting success and being frustrated for years, and then accidentally stumbling upon "The Game" by Neil Strauss (Story of 90% PUAs)

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    Default Re: What got YOU into pickup?

    My story starts out and an Average Joe. I use to wear glasses and I was miserable when it came to girls. In middle school, I had an eye when it came to attractive girls and I watched all my friends go out with the girls I wanted. Then in high school, things became the same. There was these two friends that were interested in me but I didn’t have feelings for one and the other I was too shy and nervous to talk to. She grew irritated with me and that became that. Two years later after struggling in high school, I decided that I needed a change of scenery so I moved to a new school

    At my new school, I still struggled in school and with girls but I knew that I could put everything together. I finally got a job and I finally got contacts (my eye glasses made me look like Steve Urkel). I went from a nerd to good looking dark chocolate (seriously). I couldn’t handle the attention at church. I was a total ass to this one girl that was into me but I finally forgave myself years later for the way I didn’t accept her open advances. One day, I was at home at my computer browsing the web when I got a pop up on if I wanted to get the girl I had always dreamed out. I was like, “fuck yeah!” It was Joshua Pellicer’s Tao of Badass that he was offering. At the time, I had no money and I was embarrassed to ask my mom for money even though her answer would’ve been a resounding no but I kept his video at the back of my mind.

    I finally moved on to my 3rd high school in 5 years. I needed to change schools because at my time at my 2nd school, I had been bullied and just felt that I needed a fresh start. Some of y’all might not believe this but it was by a girl. One day, I was on the bus and sitting right across of me was the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. I’d seen some girls in my time and had an eye for *talent* lol but this chick was something else. I couldn’t believe that I didn’t notice her until the end of the bus ride to the station. She looked up from her phone and gave me this look. She looked pissed but it was seductive and I was in awe. I couldn’t stop thinking about her and thought I’d never see her again. Then a couple of days later, guess who I’d seen on the bus? It was her! Man, it felt like a treat to see her again. And then it happened again, and again until finally it drove me insane enough to get help. I searched Toronto Dating Coach randomly on the computer and I met a dating coach named Evan who resided in Toronto. From what I had observed of him, he was just starting out looking for clients and was helping me for free through phone and emails. To this day, we haven’t met but boy did this guy give me the confidence to talk to this woman. So the day that I had planned to talk to her and ask her out, I took a bug I found at my house and what I had planned on doing was putting it in her hair and telling her that she had a bug in her hair and then after taking it out, ask her if she was a model and when she said no, ask her why she quit (saw this in the movie Angry Bosses). But I never saw her again. Day after day, I would take the 8 o’clock bus and I never saw her. Boy was I stupid though. Thinking about it now, it’s a toss up on if the bug thing it would’ve worked. I think she would’ve smiled at the stranger that got the creepy crawler out of her hair and gave her a compliment but doing this would’ve made me like a creep, something that I’m not. Please don’t ever try this. You won’t like the results even if you get the girl. There’s just too much risk and a lot of people watching.

    About a year later, I had started working at a business firm through a placement at school and I saw this blonde waiting for the train. She wasn’t a ten but there was something about her, those legs, that walk, that fierce look. I didn’t have the confidence to talk to her but I was so hard, when I got home that day, I almost masturbated to her legs but I stopped and told myself that one day, I’d find that girl and I’d do whatever I wanted with her. I still feel that way this day (I’m insane lol). I decided to get back into my door to door sales job to buy a penis extender to make my penis bigger. Boy was it the wrong move as it severely backfired.

    A couple of days of days later, I was let home from my school early and you guys won’t believe who I saw? The girl years back on the bus that I said was the most beautiful girl I’d ever seen. She almost certainly remembered me all those times and I think I scared her so she took the bus that only went halfway to her destination. It drove me insane. When I went home, I wrote a 2-3 page rant to the Toronto Dating Coach that how I had ran into this girl that I had dreamed about years ago and I needed to do something and he recommended I sign up for his course. I had about a week before decided to get back into my door to door sales job and was able to pay for it days later. So once I signed up with trial and error, I religiously read everything he has sent me from game, to techniques to what I had to do to be successful in gaming. We had skype sessions once a week and I don’t know how he did it but he gave me the confidence to find random girls in the street to practice what I learned on. At first, it was brutal. I remember this one girl on the train that gave me such a hard on playing and smelling her hair. She had to have known I was watching. When we finally got off our stop, the words that came out of my mouth were, “Are you following me?” Oof!! This girl was sad. Things then got awkward and I introduced myself as let’s say Joe and she said, “Have a nice day Joe with a handshake.” Thinking about it now, she was interested but I must have turned her off thinking that she was some loser just following guys. I kept pleading with my dating coach for us to meet one by one so he could show me in person how to game but little did I know that I hadn’t signed for that and he wasn’t offering that in his course. I was frustrated. I was also using the penis extender at the time that did damage to my penis. I got lucky though as I can at least still get some but this is a warning to guys out there that be happy with what you have.

    One day in the afternoon, I was watching pickup videos on youtube and I ran into a video of a guy in Toronto that was picking up random girls on the streets of Toronto. This was was amazing. This was turned out to be none other then Willy Beck. Finally, someone that could show how to get it done in the streets. So I went on his site, called him and the rest was history. We connected on a bunch of levels like a mutual battles with anxiety I won’t get into and I just told him that if he were to see me in person, he’d be like what’s wrong with this guy. He’s good looking. So he agreed to do a one on one with me. We met the 2nd week of October 2013 on a Friday night in downtown Toronto. He briefly introduced himself him, told me that he was going to be my medicine for the night in case my anxiety arose and he went at it. He approached the first girl he saw at the bus stop we were at about 2 minutes in. It was almost like a movie to tell you guys the truth. This guy was a maestro. You could tell he had been doing this for years. The girl had a boyfriend but was so attracted to him that she said it’s just coffee when Will asked her out for coffee. But Will’s one of the good guys so he probably didn’t call that girl. Him and Kino Suave are the reasons why I don’t get the numbers of girls that have boyfriends. This was the theme for the 2 nights and 1 day that I had spent with him and I’ll always cherish it. This guy and my dating coach in Toronto saved my life. The dating coach in Toronto really helped me with the serious fear I in picking up girls and gave me the confidence that I could do it and Will just helped me but everything together. At first, it was hard to go out and game with people I met in the community and as I was lazy guy and things still weren’t going on well. Then the wake up call finally came.

    My mother got sick with the flu with a really bad headache and I didn’t want to subject my younger brother to her pain so I did what any other elderly son would do by taking her to the hospital. When I got there, it triggered something in me. I was seeing visions of past, present and future. Who I was going to marry? What my lifestyle would be like? All this while looking after my mom at the hospital and overseeing her care. I finally realized that I needed help and once my brother arrived at the hospital, I admitted myself too. Now that was another story. The hospital sent the diagnostician who was pretty and two of the hottest nurses on call to talk to me. I remember being scared by the hotter one in the glasses. I thought she was possessed by a demon. When I refused to go with them into one of the rooms, they said they’d be back and it gave me a chance to run. I ran like Usain Bolt. I was gone brothers. Kept running and running to find a train station to go home. This was without shoes. People in the streets thought I was crazy. This one girl was so scared, she ran away when I asked her where the train station was. I called a close friend of mine and told them that the hospital was tryna lock me up and went on a rant about people that wronged me that all he said was “go back, go back.” After the phone call, I decided to go back not knowing how to get back to the hospital and needed some shoes so people wouldn’t think I was a crazy person. So this couple walked past and I stopped them and asked where I could find a shoe store to buy shoes and they said they didn’t know. The guy saw that I didn’t have shoes and knew I was in pain and I said I had $15 to buy shoes and he offered to give me his Aldo shoes for $15. They were in surprisingly great condition. I went back to the hospital and I originally thought I hadn’t slept for 4 days and that’s what I told the diagnostician. I think I mentioned depression from being bullied amongst other things and she said it was mania. I thought it was ADHD to go with depression and man I was disappointed. When I was “manic”, I was a big jerk to all the nurses because when you’re manic, you have access to almost every part of your brain. At least for me it did. When I was at the room they told me to sleep in to monitor why I wouldn’t sleep with camera’s, I thought I was going to die. I thought who was going to help raise my younger brother. Kept thinking about my life and where it had gone which lead to this place. But I kept thinking about Kobe Bryant, basketball star of the Los Angeles Lakers. I had just become of a fan of his as I loved LeBron for years but I loved the way Kobe had lived his life even though he might do things I wouldn’t agree with. Thinking about his successes, his will and what he did to be an all time great, I decided that I wanted to be that and do that and persevere and all of a sudden, I fell asleep.

    I woke up the next day tired as hell and after using the washroom, I went back to sleep after a long night. I think I slept for the whole day. The nurses came to get me to bring me to the psych ward and that’s were I met my team of doctors. They were great and they helped me through the tough times especially with the medications. I hit on a nurse and got into trouble and made some life long friends. My thinking was back to normal and it was great. I told myself that once I got out of the hospital, I would go gaming with justquitebored as often as we could. I finally was given a clean bill a health and released from the hospital.

    Fast forward to today: It’s been a year and 2 months since my bipolar manic episode and I thank God that I didn’t die and that good Samaritan gave me his shoes. I’ll never forget him. I hit on everyone HB7 and up. I motivated justquitebored who's a member here to hit on the 9’s and 10’s as they can be intimidating and even went on a date with this cute chick in glasses. If you were to tell me that I’d hit of everything that walks and go out on a date with an attractive girl, I would’ve laughed at you but that’s what happens when you put in the work and you believe in yourself. I wish nothing but the best to everyone out there. Use my story to motivate you and go out and game!


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