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    Default Girl wants me but has a boyfriend

    please help a bro out
    thiers this girl that visits her friend at the stand across the store of the mall I work at and few days a week every week she stares at me for 15-60 seconds at a time multiple times, so I went up to talk to her yesterday but it turns out the guy across from was her boyfriend, she didn't say anything or even shake my hand while her bf got mad. She stared at me again today but I looked away and ignored her. I feel she wants me but what can I do and what should I do bro? Should I continue to stare at her with a smirk when she stares at me or should i just completey ignore her? SOS bro

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    Default Re: Girl wants me but has a boyfriend

    The #1 advice you will get here is going to not make you very happy man.. but it's the truth. You can't get fixated on one girl like that. It will not work I can guarantee it. Right now, subtle winks are okay, but leave her alone if she has a boyfriend unless she takes your subtle signs.

    Game other girls man. The best piece of advice I ever got when I was fixated on a specific girl "you have to learn to be good with all girls, to get that one girl". If you aren't good with general game, you won't be able to pick out a girl. It just won't work. Don't let that discourage you, work on your game get it nice and tight. You will 99.999% forget about that girl when you are banging 5 other girls that are hotter.

    -lifestyle
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    Post Re: Girl wants me but has a boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by mustaine View Post
    please help a bro out
    thiers this girl that visits her friend at the stand across the store of the mall I work at and few days a week every week she stares at me for 15-60 seconds at a time multiple times, so I went up to talk to her yesterday but it turns out the guy across from was her boyfriend, she didn't say anything or even shake my hand while her bf got mad. She stared at me again today but I looked away and ignored her. I feel she wants me but what can I do and what should I do bro? Should I continue to stare at her with a smirk when she stares at me or should i just completey ignore her? SOS bro
    Absolutely agree with Lifestylebible.

    But lets say, your all ready generally good at game. I know there's almost an unwritten code between some PUA's that you shouldn't game on other peoples girlfriends but knowledge is knowledge and there should no restriction whatsoever on knowledge.

    So you want to game her > First of all think what you are up to, the damage you can cause, the consequences you will face etc etc. Weigh the odds, is she worth it ? if she is then

    As you can clearly see, she's giving you windows of opportunities. Nothing is more disappointing when a guy doesn't use this window, its like an invitation to her house basically.
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    dont take that huge step yet, play it safe ( I do know of some girls who found me pretty, they liked looking at me but were already in a relationship {IKR WTF}). So look at her, acknowledge that you seen her, and do the whatsup gesture. She should respond to it, now do some hand gesturing. She should approach you by now, since most girls are hopeless at taking with body movements.

    Introduce, blah blah blah. Become important to her, have the power to change her mood. After you have gained all this, youve already become an important person in your life {You should try to avoid of talking about the bf, initially}. Now since you have already become an major power/ source of happiness to her, use the BF Destruction technique.

    *If you don't know the technique, its posted here on the fourm I think. Or if you still haven't found it, tell me.

    **This time frame depends from girls to girls, some I only need to do it for 1 day other few months and once half an year.

    That was method 1, a straight forward one. Method 2 is more indirect

    same thing as first but instead, you constantly game her and when ever she mentions about her boyfriend/relationship. You indirectly punish her, like show negative body language (move away your body from her while still looking at her and then change back), or if your holding one another, stop holding her and put your arms down as normal. And if you were somewhere along the lines of escalation, stop instantly and ask a mundane question like 'so how was your day"

    Now her subconscious mind should pick it up and it will stop her from thinking about her bf, while shes with you. Now you can basically escalate to any extend, due to the fact that you have destroyed her inhibitions.
    [note - Make sure shes anchored on to you, like if she didn't talk to you for an 2 days _she should feel sick_
    make sure you have deep connection with her, so even if her inhibition pops up. It will be most likely be rejected, due to deep connection.]

    Eventually you should reach a point where you guys are bf and gf but shes actually still with him. This point, you should approach her and talk about it.

    NOTE - THE 3 OF YOU WILL HAVE TO GO THROUGH EXTREME EMOTIONAL PAIN [ONE GIRL ALMOST COMMITTED SUICIDE DUE TO THE FACT THAT SHE LOVED ME BUT LOVED SOMEONE ELSE AND SHE COULDN'T MAKE UP A CALL] ITS A LOT OF PAIN, SWEET, TEARS AND BLOOD

    So unless you really really like her and your certain you want her then go get her otherwise, pick up the fishing rod and move to another spot. There are plenty of fish in the sea, especially bigger and more beautiful ones

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    Default Re: Girl wants me but has a boyfriend

    Thanks guys. She's pretty a 8 or 8.5
    (I couldn't belive that was her boyfriend, she looks 18 or 19 and he looks 15 with terrible body language and horrible clothing style, one guy though he was a girl another thought he was gay. I mean she's an 8 n he looks like a 5 or 6 at the most, why do you guys think she's with him?)
    she might go talk to her friend today so I might see her from across my store. Hey xlosmuertosx can you please send me a link to the bf destroyer. Thank you guys for your response

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    Default Re: Girl wants me but has a boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by mustaine View Post
    Thanks guys. She's pretty a 8 or 8.5
    (I couldn't belive that was her boyfriend, she looks 18 or 19 and he looks 15 with terrible body language and horrible clothing style, one guy though he was a girl another thought he was gay. I mean she's an 8 n he looks like a 5 or 6 at the most, why do you guys think she's with him?)
    she might go talk to her friend today so I might see her from across my store. Hey xlosmuertosx can you please send me a link to the bf destroyer. Thank you guys for your response
    Sure, right here https://www.puaforums.com/isolating-...technique.html

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    Default Re: Girl wants me but has a boyfriend

    hey mustaine! bf destroyer works... I've used it not so long ago. If you use it the right way you can easily get the girl...

    Although if you are really not emotionally invested into this girl why would you want to get involved with such a thing? If you work at a mall, I bet you there are 8 or 8.5 girls walking by your store every 10-20 minutes...

    Trust me, getting involved with a girl that has a boyfriend is a pain in the ass! you want to go out with girls, have fun, potentially meet "the one"... getting fixated on a girl with bf will only get you drama. Symphony of destruction is only good when you listen to it, not when you are part of it, haha. Been there, done that. No bueno.

    Good luck man!

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    Yeah all good advice I think all three of us responders agree for the most part, and just have opinions on whether or not you really SHOULD do it. I agree with nick and it's way too much of a hassle. Get tighter game that you can sustain, and use that energy to get other hotter girls. If you want this girl a lot, and you wanna date her.. imagine what would happen if the next cool motherfucker comes along. He might destroy you with a girl like that, if she's done it before. It's just not worth it imo.
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    Have I done it myself though? Oh yes. I do it on occasion. But I only do it with girls that I am going to fuck a couple of times and then not date, obviously. A couple months ago I destroyed the girl's boyfriend and she ended up basically falling in love with me, dumping him, and moved out of his house and lived on her friend's couch. I go back and forth with myself on whether or not I actually did her good, or did her dirty on this one. She got awkwardly attached.


    I hate to say this, partially contradicting myself on the previous response.. but was it worth it? Kind of actually yea. Awesome fucking sex, and some great affection.

    That being said, when should it be done? ONLY when you know for a fact you are going to fuck this girl and move the fuck on. Not a girl you are trying to date (exclusively).
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    Default Re: Girl wants me but has a boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by lifestylebible View Post
    Have I done it myself though? Oh yes. I do it on occasion. But I only do it with girls that I am going to fuck a couple of times and then not date, obviously. A couple months ago I destroyed the girl's boyfriend and she ended up basically falling in love with me, dumping him, and moved out of his house and lived on her friend's couch. I go back and forth with myself on whether or not I actually did her good, or did her dirty on this one. She got awkwardly attached.


    I hate to say this, partially contradicting myself on the previous response.. but was it worth it? Kind of actually yea. Awesome fucking sex, and some great affection.

    That being said, when should it be done? ONLY when you know for a fact you are going to fuck this girl and move the fuck on. Not a girl you are trying to date (exclusively).
    Omfg lifestylebible, we have so much in common except I haven't fcked the girl but thinking of dating her. But shes a player, almost like a female PUA. She hooks me and then play along, goes sexual but we never do it or date.

    No girl has ever escaped my clutches (I feel like a badass villain Xd) and I don't intend to let her go either, although she is suffering from a very deadly disease. I think I love her sometimes I just think I'm playing around. Its been almost 1 and an half year now

    What do you think guys ? What should I do ?

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    Default Re: Girl wants me but has a boyfriend

    Haha ya think so man? That's awesome.

    We'll with the types of girls I tend to pull back a bit and make sure they're chasing me not me chasing them... but those confident females that are kinda teaser and pua like can be super fucking fun. Don't invest too much, pull back a little, and you could have a lot of fun with her
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