But when you read what mystique writes:
Don't let your experience of a select few bitches colour your judgement of the entire female race. That would be letting them still hold that power over you and rob you of the opportunity to genuinely connect with a woman who is right for you (and actually sweet and genuine)
She's right too, and I think that's the optimistic side of this we have to take..as hard as that may be. Personally I'm still working on it, so we'll see how things turn out.
Great responses from everyone, thank you for the feedback!