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    Default How do I escalate effectively without compliments?

    I don't want to use compliments or any of that fem-pedestalising nonsense. What other ways apart from the MM are there to achieve this?

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    Default Re: How do I escalate effectively without compliments?

    Can you be more specific?

    For escalation it really isn't that hard. Chances are if you have a girl isolated and she's attracted to you, you're pretty much in. Now you have to round yourself out a bit, for instance you can't just go straight for a kiss and start dry humping the girl... you have to put effort into making her chase a little bit, tease her a bit, and get her receptive to you. One thing I like to do is just put my arm around her, usually I'll just say hang on lean forward, and she'll go "okay... ohhh" and I'll have my arm behind her back. If she says something like Ohh it's like that huh.. I completely ignore it. She is testing you, and ignoring it and focusing on something else is the best way to pass. I let a little sexual tension build, sometimes I will rub her arm, get real close to her face when talking/laughing, and then at one point I just grab her gently by the head and turn her towards me, and start kissing. From then on you gotta keep this vibe up and you are good

    Any more questions or want more explanation feel free to PM me

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    Default Re: How do I escalate effectively without compliments?

    Rofl. Sounds like wishy washy intentions, but i'll let you work those out on your own on your pickup journey.

    There are tons of things that scream man to woman. Think about how pimps or drug dealers have tons of women. Do you think they get all romantic and compliment the girl? No, they're just grounded and unreactive. They are on their path. They dont give a shit about what the girl says. They are unfazed. Whatever the girl does, whatever events occur in their environment, their physiology stays the same. Totally calm, totally into themselves. They dont supplicate to the girl.

    Killer eye contact, downwards tonality, misinterpreting what she says in a sexual way, kino escalation and knowing where the girl likes to be touched and how she likes to be touched.

    Only thing youre missing is comfort without any types of compliments. Honestly many girls will fuck you just because theyre horny, and you supply dick and a man to woman vibe. That said, those are usually 1 night stands and you will not see them again.

    On a last note, if you go into interactions with this "i hate women" vibe, i doubt you will get much success at all unless you are a psychopath and can fake emotions.

    One of the biggest rules here in this community is you go out and try stuff yourself before asking questions. Go out and approach at least 100 girls (can be easily done in 3 nights), and reflect on the information.

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    Default Re: How do I escalate effectively without compliments?

    Definitely the 100 approach game can help. Dedicate yourself to this, it's an investment in your future trust me.
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    Default Re: How do I escalate effectively without compliments?

    This has more to do with daygame than night. I like clubs because establishing intent with mere kino can get the job done. However, daygame is somewhat trickier as my kino skills there are somewhat below average.

    Quote Originally Posted by lifestylebible View Post
    Can you be more specific?

    For escalation it really isn't that hard. Chances are if you have a girl isolated and she's attracted to you, you're pretty much in. Now you have to round yourself out a bit, for instance you can't just go straight for a kiss and start dry humping the girl... you have to put effort into making her chase a little bit, tease her a bit, and get her receptive to you. One thing I like to do is just put my arm around her, usually I'll just say hang on lean forward, and she'll go "okay... ohhh" and I'll have my arm behind her back. If she says something like Ohh it's like that huh.. I completely ignore it. She is testing you, and ignoring it and focusing on something else is the best way to pass. I let a little sexual tension build, sometimes I will rub her arm, get real close to her face when talking/laughing, and then at one point I just grab her gently by the head and turn her towards me, and start kissing. From then on you gotta keep this vibe up and you are good

    Any more questions or want more explanation feel free to PM me

    -lifestyle

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    Default Re: How do I escalate effectively without compliments?

    We intend to do as many sets as we can over the weekend.
    Quote Originally Posted by Big Shawn View Post
    Rofl. Sounds like wishy washy intentions, but i'll let you work those out on your own on your pickup journey.

    There are tons of things that scream man to woman. Think about how pimps or drug dealers have tons of women. Do you think they get all romantic and compliment the girl? No, they're just grounded and unreactive. They are on their path. They dont give a shit about what the girl says. They are unfazed. Whatever the girl does, whatever events occur in their environment, their physiology stays the same. Totally calm, totally into themselves. They dont supplicate to the girl.

    Killer eye contact, downwards tonality, misinterpreting what she says in a sexual way, kino escalation and knowing where the girl likes to be touched and how she likes to be touched.

    Only thing youre missing is comfort without any types of compliments. Honestly many girls will fuck you just because theyre horny, and you supply dick and a man to woman vibe. That said, those are usually 1 night stands and you will not see them again.

    On a last note, if you go into interactions with this "i hate women" vibe, i doubt you will get much success at all unless you are a psychopath and can fake emotions.

    One of the biggest rules here in this community is you go out and try stuff yourself before asking questions. Go out and approach at least 100 girls (can be easily done in 3 nights), and reflect on the information.


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