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    Default When push/pull goes wrong

    Met this HB10 at a party, got her number and then we started texting. She seemed very responsive at first but I had to initiate contact everytime.

    We then set up a date three weeks later but I unfortunately flaked because of work. She was cool with it and didnít have an argument with me, so we re-scheduled.

    However the next time she was the one who messaged me one day before and told me.she couldn't come, and that we could re-schedule if I wished.

    I was pissed because I thought she was just Being vindictive and since she was not giving me.clear IOIs I decided to freeze her out... I would ping text her and then ignore what she said... Then one day she was mad and texted me saying I was probably a PUA (lol) and that she was deleting me because she was tired of little games.

    One week later I Texted her in whatsapp and I didnt even have to ask for it - she readded me because I could see her pic again.
    We texted for a while but she is not flirty and everytime I try to make things more sexual she changes the topic - in a nice and funny way but she does.
    The next day she texted me a link related to my football team. I took one day to reply. Then she took ten hours to reply back, and she only said "agreed it is really great" and nothing else. She didnt actually initiate a conversation.

    So I decided I will not text her again but it's been one week already and she didnt say ANYTHING.... she didnt delete me from.whatsapp this time so I Dont know what to think.

    Did she lose interest? Is it time to move on???

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    Default Re: When push/pull goes wrong

    Women, esp10's, rarely Text you first, Esp that early into things. And yes she was probably being vindictive, cuz u flaked and didn't give her the respect of a phone call.

    Do some research in the text section and use the search functions. This question has already been answered as Well as how to improve your text game

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    Default Re: When push/pull goes wrong

    Haha girls are funky sometimes man, when they recognize you are doing a push pull thing and it's kinda "gamey" they pull back and pull their own games. The trick to stopping this before it happens?

    Do not fabricate a push pull sequence. It's just that, fabricated. Be busy. Have a very busy fulfilling lifestyle, and then when you do text back sometimes you have time to text back and forth like right away, other times you are gone for hours. It is completely random and not made up. Girls are excellent bullshit detectors, like no other.

    -lifestyle
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    Default Re: When push/pull goes wrong

    You must've not created very much attraction when you first met her at the party. Otherwise, she'd show more interest. Clearly, her interest level is very low so I'd just move on to the next. If she doesn't want to go on a date with you then there's nothing you can do to raise her interest level. I'd say it's going to be very difficult to do that just texting. The most important time to have done it is in-person when you guys first met.

    At the same time, she was willing to give you her number. Maybe you just spent too much time texting instead of just asking her out on a date. 3-4 weeks is a long time. I would've tried setting up a date a week later after the meet.


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