I hit a road block and need some advice you guys. I'm in University and I've been talking to a girl for some time now. I approached in the computer lab and got her number 3 weeks ago. Went for drinks the next week and kiss closed. Its finals this week and I have barely texted her because of my studies. She leaves for home this Friday and I finish my exams Thursday. So I asked her out this past Saturday if she wanted to go for Thursday night to celebrate. She's watching Star Wars and wants to "make an event out of it with her friends." Then I asked her out for drinks that weekend and she had to study. Shouldn't have double dipped.
Can't decide whether to wait until next year (5 week break) or ask her to dinner Thursday. Dinner just feels like its pushing it and I'm trying too hard. My gut says to let it go and reset next year, but at the same time I think she's losing interest. Should I try to keep contact and message her every now and then or keep it radio silence?
In terms of the energy and dialogue, its good, but not great. I see her 2-3 times a week in the computer lab when we're studying and we have a short convo. Haven't been able to pull the cocky funny out of me yet with her so its pretty boring. She's like the opposite of me in terms of background and our interests are pretty different except for what we study. I can't tell whether interest has declined or its finals week. Her reasons are legit, I'm over thinking this for sure and need someone to get my head out of the fog.