Hello colleagues I would like to get your opinion on the situation below, just to clarify I'm really confused as never had something like this happened to me before. (Sorry for the long post).
Well, I'm 28 she's 20, I'm Australian and she is Korean (very hot, tall, nice body, big breasts). Anyway, I met her outside a club (about 3:00am)and she was with her girlfriend 21. I took them both home, when her friend 21 fell asleep I had sex with the 20 yo. After that her friend woke up and left because she had to work. This girl 20, stayed with me and we had sex all day until she left at 4:00pm we only stopped to have lunch (needless to say she came a bunch of times and she was having the ride of her life). I walked her outside and forgot about her as I was not expecting to ever see her again or hear back from her. It is important to mention that sex with this chic was so passionate unlike usual one night stands which are very dull. Later she texted me saying that she felt happy with me and wanted to meet me again. I really liked her style since she was very straight forward and let me know how she felt about me so I took her to have dinner a few days later. Dinner went well we then went to walk and made out pretty intense on the street but no sex. Next weekend I saw her again (we went for early dinner then to walk, then drinks and then to my place) and the same we had sex pretty much all night but this time she left earlier in the morning. Then she texted me to let me know she was very comfortable with me and she was happy to met me.
From then on, she would try to keep in touch with me pretty much every day sending how was your day kinda texts, to which I always replied after many hours (I was genuinely busy) I was also going out with a few other girls just as friends as none of them really attracted me. One of the texts she sent said that she was in her period and she will not be able to see me on the weekend, to which I replied that we can still meet as there is no need to have sex and we can still catch up. To what she replies very happy saying that she wants me and needs me. At this point I'm not thinking much about it or her due to the fact I had some other work related issues going on.
Fourth date, we meet (dinner, drinks, make out on the street back to my place). Here is the interesting part, we are really horny and I try to have sex with her but she won't let me in, so she sucks my D until I blow my load in her mouth, she spits. After a while she is still horny but won't let me penetrate her twat but she is rubbing her back side against me, so I get this idea that maybe she wanted in the back door, to which to my surprise she did. I was very gentle and asked her if she was fine and whether she liked it, to what she said she liked it. We then fell asleep and woke up the next day, we went for lunch and then she left.
After that night, I did not contact her for about three days as I was having some work related issues, but at the same time I didn't hear back from her at all. So I thought that she was maybe waiting for me to contact her, especially after how our last date went (I felt that maybe I went to hardcore on her). So to not look like a jerk I texted her letting her know that I missed her and wanted to see her soon. No reply until next day when she says she can't as she had plans but we should catch up next weekend. Ok I said fair enough and just sent her a text to wish her a nice weekend and then left her until next week. At this point my guts tell me something is not right and I sent her a casual text saying that if she is interested to meet me I will meet her on Friday for dinner. She replies straight away with a dumb excuse as to why she did not contact me all those days but still confirming our date. I don't ask her for explanations but I can notice that her tone changed and all the lovely stuff is gone. I met her again and she was a little bit cold with me, we still made out but when I tried to take her home she said she can't as she had to wake up early to go out with her friends. I didn't like that at all (two weeks you don't see me and now you don't want to come with me). Anyhow, I control myself and since she doesn't want to go with me I just went home by myself. I got home and since I left her on the street at night I sent her a text asking her to let me know when she gets home. She doesn't reply. Next day, I tell her that I want to see her again to which she doesn't reply ever again. After this, I never tried to contact her again neither she. That was about three weeks ago.
My questions is why did she vanished. I thought she was genuinely into me and to be fair I treated her much better to some girlfriends I had (always paid in our dates and kept a friendly and understanding no games BS tone the whole time I was with her) I was actually quite honest and let my guard down as I didn't think she would play me but she did. I think my mistake was to fu** her to hardcore too soon or that maybe my place is always a mess.
My questions are:
Was she playing me? Why did she accept to met me the last time if she didn't want to have sex with me?
Is there any way to get her to see me on last time to have sex? I was planning to send her a goodbye text like: Since we don't talk anymore I just want to wish you well, goodbye.
Do you think is a good idea? I'm trying to get some reaction to find out what the hell happened.
Additional info: When I met her we exchanged numbers and also facebook, and I saw her status was in a relationship, I never really asked her if she had a bf but once I told her that she was cheating her bf with me and she just changed the subject. To be honest I think she probably had someone else maybe in her country or here, she definitely must have had someone as sexuality speaking she was so liberated. She was so passionate, she told me I love a few times during intercourse and told her I love you back. I though I had something with this chic. I have not deleted her from facebook.