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    Default Girl ignores me after sex

    Hello colleagues I would like to get your opinion on the situation below, just to clarify I'm really confused as never had something like this happened to me before. (Sorry for the long post).

    Well, I'm 28 she's 20, I'm Australian and she is Korean (very hot, tall, nice body, big breasts). Anyway, I met her outside a club (about 3:00am)and she was with her girlfriend 21. I took them both home, when her friend 21 fell asleep I had sex with the 20 yo. After that her friend woke up and left because she had to work. This girl 20, stayed with me and we had sex all day until she left at 4:00pm we only stopped to have lunch (needless to say she came a bunch of times and she was having the ride of her life). I walked her outside and forgot about her as I was not expecting to ever see her again or hear back from her. It is important to mention that sex with this chic was so passionate unlike usual one night stands which are very dull. Later she texted me saying that she felt happy with me and wanted to meet me again. I really liked her style since she was very straight forward and let me know how she felt about me so I took her to have dinner a few days later. Dinner went well we then went to walk and made out pretty intense on the street but no sex. Next weekend I saw her again (we went for early dinner then to walk, then drinks and then to my place) and the same we had sex pretty much all night but this time she left earlier in the morning. Then she texted me to let me know she was very comfortable with me and she was happy to met me.

    From then on, she would try to keep in touch with me pretty much every day sending how was your day kinda texts, to which I always replied after many hours (I was genuinely busy) I was also going out with a few other girls just as friends as none of them really attracted me. One of the texts she sent said that she was in her period and she will not be able to see me on the weekend, to which I replied that we can still meet as there is no need to have sex and we can still catch up. To what she replies very happy saying that she wants me and needs me. At this point I'm not thinking much about it or her due to the fact I had some other work related issues going on.

    Fourth date, we meet (dinner, drinks, make out on the street back to my place). Here is the interesting part, we are really horny and I try to have sex with her but she won't let me in, so she sucks my D until I blow my load in her mouth, she spits. After a while she is still horny but won't let me penetrate her twat but she is rubbing her back side against me, so I get this idea that maybe she wanted in the back door, to which to my surprise she did. I was very gentle and asked her if she was fine and whether she liked it, to what she said she liked it. We then fell asleep and woke up the next day, we went for lunch and then she left.

    After that night, I did not contact her for about three days as I was having some work related issues, but at the same time I didn't hear back from her at all. So I thought that she was maybe waiting for me to contact her, especially after how our last date went (I felt that maybe I went to hardcore on her). So to not look like a jerk I texted her letting her know that I missed her and wanted to see her soon. No reply until next day when she says she can't as she had plans but we should catch up next weekend. Ok I said fair enough and just sent her a text to wish her a nice weekend and then left her until next week. At this point my guts tell me something is not right and I sent her a casual text saying that if she is interested to meet me I will meet her on Friday for dinner. She replies straight away with a dumb excuse as to why she did not contact me all those days but still confirming our date. I don't ask her for explanations but I can notice that her tone changed and all the lovely stuff is gone. I met her again and she was a little bit cold with me, we still made out but when I tried to take her home she said she can't as she had to wake up early to go out with her friends. I didn't like that at all (two weeks you don't see me and now you don't want to come with me). Anyhow, I control myself and since she doesn't want to go with me I just went home by myself. I got home and since I left her on the street at night I sent her a text asking her to let me know when she gets home. She doesn't reply. Next day, I tell her that I want to see her again to which she doesn't reply ever again. After this, I never tried to contact her again neither she. That was about three weeks ago.

    My questions is why did she vanished. I thought she was genuinely into me and to be fair I treated her much better to some girlfriends I had (always paid in our dates and kept a friendly and understanding no games BS tone the whole time I was with her) I was actually quite honest and let my guard down as I didn't think she would play me but she did. I think my mistake was to fu** her to hardcore too soon or that maybe my place is always a mess.

    My questions are:

    Was she playing me? Why did she accept to met me the last time if she didn't want to have sex with me?

    Is there any way to get her to see me on last time to have sex? I was planning to send her a goodbye text like: Since we don't talk anymore I just want to wish you well, goodbye.

    Do you think is a good idea? I'm trying to get some reaction to find out what the hell happened.

    Additional info: When I met her we exchanged numbers and also facebook, and I saw her status was in a relationship, I never really asked her if she had a bf but once I told her that she was cheating her bf with me and she just changed the subject. To be honest I think she probably had someone else maybe in her country or here, she definitely must have had someone as sexuality speaking she was so liberated. She was so passionate, she told me I love a few times during intercourse and told her I love you back. I though I had something with this chic. I have not deleted her from facebook.

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    Default Re: Girl ignores me after sex

    Hey man, good work on pulling this girl. It sounds like you are really good with your game. Now the mistakes you could have possibly made, getting too close with her.. it sounds silly but honestly getting really close really soon, and not letting her chase you at all anymore kinda takes the fun out of it. Imagine if you were playing on a playground, let's say tag. A girl is chasing you, and she is slower obviously. You don't run so fast she can't catch you, yet you don't just sit down on the woodchips and let her tag you. Both would not be fun for either of you right? You kinda let her get close, then pull back and run too fast right before she's gotcha. Keep doing that, and eventually let her tag you.

    Additionally, have you created a lot of rapport with this lady? Maybe the connection isn't there. Idk where you are with your game and all but rapport building can solidify flaky girls and make them stick to you.

    Chase + Rapport = girl loving you
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    Default Re: Girl ignores me after sex

    Quote Originally Posted by lifestylebible View Post
    Hey man, good work on pulling this girl. It sounds like you are really good with your game. Now the mistakes you could have possibly made, getting too close with her.. it sounds silly but honestly getting really close really soon, and not letting her chase you at all anymore kinda takes the fun out of it. Imagine if you were playing on a playground, let's say tag. A girl is chasing you, and she is slower obviously. You don't run so fast she can't catch you, yet you don't just sit down on the woodchips and let her tag you. Both would not be fun for either of you right? You kinda let her get close, then pull back and run too fast right before she's gotcha. Keep doing that, and eventually let her tag you.

    Additionally, have you created a lot of rapport with this lady? Maybe the connection isn't there. Idk where you are with your game and all but rapport building can solidify flaky girls and make them stick to you.

    Chase + Rapport = girl loving you


    Hey thanks for the reply, I don't usually have problems pulling girls and I have found out that taking two girls is way easier than just one as they feel more confident, especially true when you just met them that same night.

    As for the relationship, It was purely sexual or at least that was for me in a way. I thought this girl was with the same state of mind as well. What threw me off where the style of her messages, they were all candy sweet BS and the same when we were together. As for the frequency of our interactions, I was basically replying most of her texts after hours (6-12hrs) and I only saw her once a week. She was doing most of the chasing. I never called her or tried to contact her after sex, maybe I sent her a few texts to let her know I was going to be late for our meetings or with information relating to where and when. It was basically playing the boyfriend girlfriend thing for one day of the week.

    But nothing more because I was not really being serious with this chic. It just offends me that she is ignoring me. That's why I think she played me. I think she just wanted to see if she could make a guy like me fall for her but I didn't but she got me in a way as I still remember her. I'm going on holiday next week so I will not remember her at all after.

    At this stage I know I have to completely forget her, but it's hard to believe that after going so far with me she doesn't feel to even talk. I will not contact her, even though I feel like doing it. I'm pretty sure she still likes me because the last time I saw her we still made out. Anyway, I think easy comes easy goes.

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    Default Re: Girl ignores me after sex

    My best advice, just pull back on her man. You'll be totally fine without her, and go approach other girls. You are in a win win position, she will either realize she misses you and come back since you pulled back and gave a chase, or you will be dating other girls. Us guys have the best side of this dating thing It's fuckin awesome.
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    Post Re: Girl ignores me after sex

    Quote Originally Posted by Steelchoco View Post
    Hello colleagues I would like to get your opinion on the situation below, just to clarify I'm really confused as never had something like this happened to me before. (Sorry for the long post).

    Well, I'm 28 she's 20, I'm Australian and she is Korean (very hot, tall, nice body, big breasts). Anyway, I met her outside a club (about 3:00am)and she was with her girlfriend 21. I took them both home, when her friend 21 fell asleep I had sex with the 20 yo. After that her friend woke up and left because she had to work. This girl 20, stayed with me and we had sex all day until she left at 4:00pm we only stopped to have lunch (needless to say she came a bunch of times and she was having the ride of her life). I walked her outside and forgot about her as I was not expecting to ever see her again or hear back from her. It is important to mention that sex with this chic was so passionate unlike usual one night stands which are very dull. Later she texted me saying that she felt happy with me and wanted to meet me again. I really liked her style since she was very straight forward and let me know how she felt about me so I took her to have dinner a few days later. Dinner went well we then went to walk and made out pretty intense on the street but no sex. Next weekend I saw her again (we went for early dinner then to walk, then drinks and then to my place) and the same we had sex pretty much all night but this time she left earlier in the morning. Then she texted me to let me know she was very comfortable with me and she was happy to met me.

    From then on, she would try to keep in touch with me pretty much every day sending how was your day kinda texts, to which I always replied after many hours (I was genuinely busy) I was also going out with a few other girls just as friends as none of them really attracted me. One of the texts she sent said that she was in her period and she will not be able to see me on the weekend, to which I replied that we can still meet as there is no need to have sex and we can still catch up. To what she replies very happy saying that she wants me and needs me. At this point I'm not thinking much about it or her due to the fact I had some other work related issues going on.

    Fourth date, we meet (dinner, drinks, make out on the street back to my place). Here is the interesting part, we are really horny and I try to have sex with her but she won't let me in, so she sucks my D until I blow my load in her mouth, she spits. After a while she is still horny but won't let me penetrate her twat but she is rubbing her back side against me, so I get this idea that maybe she wanted in the back door, to which to my surprise she did. I was very gentle and asked her if she was fine and whether she liked it, to what she said she liked it. We then fell asleep and woke up the next day, we went for lunch and then she left.

    After that night, I did not contact her for about three days as I was having some work related issues, but at the same time I didn't hear back from her at all. So I thought that she was maybe waiting for me to contact her, especially after how our last date went (I felt that maybe I went to hardcore on her). So to not look like a jerk I texted her letting her know that I missed her and wanted to see her soon. No reply until next day when she says she can't as she had plans but we should catch up next weekend. Ok I said fair enough and just sent her a text to wish her a nice weekend and then left her until next week. At this point my guts tell me something is not right and I sent her a casual text saying that if she is interested to meet me I will meet her on Friday for dinner. She replies straight away with a dumb excuse as to why she did not contact me all those days but still confirming our date. I don't ask her for explanations but I can notice that her tone changed and all the lovely stuff is gone. I met her again and she was a little bit cold with me, we still made out but when I tried to take her home she said she can't as she had to wake up early to go out with her friends. I didn't like that at all (two weeks you don't see me and now you don't want to come with me). Anyhow, I control myself and since she doesn't want to go with me I just went home by myself. I got home and since I left her on the street at night I sent her a text asking her to let me know when she gets home. She doesn't reply. Next day, I tell her that I want to see her again to which she doesn't reply ever again. After this, I never tried to contact her again neither she. That was about three weeks ago.

    My questions is why did she vanished. I thought she was genuinely into me and to be fair I treated her much better to some girlfriends I had (always paid in our dates and kept a friendly and understanding no games BS tone the whole time I was with her) I was actually quite honest and let my guard down as I didn't think she would play me but she did. I think my mistake was to fu** her to hardcore too soon or that maybe my place is always a mess.

    My questions are:

    Was she playing me? Why did she accept to met me the last time if she didn't want to have sex with me?

    Is there any way to get her to see me on last time to have sex? I was planning to send her a goodbye text like: Since we don't talk anymore I just want to wish you well, goodbye.

    Do you think is a good idea? I'm trying to get some reaction to find out what the hell happened.

    Additional info: When I met her we exchanged numbers and also facebook, and I saw her status was in a relationship, I never really asked her if she had a bf but once I told her that she was cheating her bf with me and she just changed the subject. To be honest I think she probably had someone else maybe in her country or here, she definitely must have had someone as sexuality speaking she was so liberated. She was so passionate, she told me I love a few times during intercourse and told her I love you back. I though I had something with this chic. I have not deleted her from facebook.
    agree with everything lifestylebible said, there also seems something else. Since you guys didn't have much connection/rapport and you initiated chase too early, like replying late it probably gave the message to her that you just want to fck her.

    The general formula in your case is,
    since you fcked her on multiple times, sometimes you should just say a plain no. something along the lines "hey what we have is great, but I want to get to know you better" and if she still insists, say "maybe I might, if you interest me" (sly smirk). This will immediately create an instant attraction with you almost like an super glue, just cause your showing you want to get to know her better and its also DHV.

    If she did have a bf, then yes it might have hit her that shes cheating and what not, that's why you want to embed yourself on to her. So even if she gets thoughts like that, due to rapport, attraction, connection and her sex line with you... She would probably discard that cheating thing and still fck you.

    OR

    I do sometimes come across this in some girls, where they are logical, justify most things and horny most of the time.

    She gets on such a level with you, you guys are so great together that all of a sudden she tells her self "Omfg, this guy is so fcking hot. How the fck did I get him ? Is he just playing me, will he stick around ?" thats her thought if shes single

    if she has a bf it will be "Omg what am I doing with my life but hes so hot/cute but what about my bf ? am I slut ? How could I do this etc etc"

    either way, she stops seeing you because she thinks that your just too good, shes insecure and shes afraid. But even for all this the answer is Rapport/connection..

    SO either way it all boils down to the rapport and connection you had with her. This is what I like to call the balancing act,

    you got to have connection/rapport to an level she will trust you to any extend (but while not falling in the friend zone or bro zone". You guys must also have sex,seduction and escalation to an extend (otherwise she will think its purely sexual and after some time move away).. Always remember try to keep it at par with one another.

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    Default Re: Girl ignores me after sex

    Thanks for replying, I'm a little bit impressed none of you guys seems to think of the possibility that this girl played me. In hindsight it's like she was actively trying to make me believe she had feelings for me, as soon as she felt I had some feelings for her she went completely cold. My point is, sometimes we think we are getting the girl but it's the other way around. I think they do it because they are really insecure and need too much external validation


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