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    Default Cutting overthinking and getting out of your head

    How do you start taking action when your overthinking?

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    Default Re: Cutting overthinking and getting out of your head

    You just say F it and start taking action.

    Overthinking things is your mind playing out every possible scenario that doesn't end well and is figuring out reasons for you to not continue on and keep you safe and unharmed. With time those fears will diminish, not completely, but enough to get you out of your head all the time and be willing to take action.

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    Default Re: Cutting overthinking and getting out of your head

    Seems like you recognize that your brain is just over thinking things illogically, that is the first step man. Now exercise the "brain muscle" that says fuck it I'm doing it anyways. You know what to do, you just have to do it. This can be phrased in a plow type motivational way - fuck it, you are going to live through it no matter what we all die, it doesnt fucking matter.

    Or physiologically. Our neurological system is programmable (the brain telling the brain what to do, it's an interesting paradox lol). Those brain grooves are malleable by action. What action you take today begins an electrical connection, and each time you repeat it (doing shit regardless of your emotions) you begin to insulate it more and more, soon it becomes a habit. Then it becomes who you are, and creates a new groove in your physical brain matter.

    I'm nerdy so I like this explanation lol.
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    Default Re: Cutting overthinking and getting out of your head

    It's like pushing a car. The first steps suck ass.. you're almost parallel to the road trying to push. Once you get it going, you're standing upright barely pushing. There may be hills involved where you have to push harder, but keep pushing cause after the hills you get to coast bro

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    Default Re: Cutting overthinking and getting out of your head

    Give yourself some incentive. For example, give your friend 100$ and tell him to give you back 10$ everytime you approach a girl or whatever your task (Most common example).

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    Default Re: Cutting overthinking and getting out of your head

    I really don't know.... one time I went in intending to obey the 3 second rule.... I couldn't think of anything to say, so I just went in with "hi, what's your name?".... she told me.... then I ran out of things to say and just stood there for a few seconds until I walked off...

    I have noticed that when girls have talked to ME... they just say basic stuff like "do you come here a lot?" and things of that nature.... so it probably has a lot to do with whether the girl finds you attractive in the first place....

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    Default Re: Cutting overthinking and getting out of your head

    Thanks for all the great advice, even the fail story. After all if you never fail you didnt try.

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    Default Re: Cutting overthinking and getting out of your head

    I wouldn't even call it a failure, just a lesson. A failure is not trying
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