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    Default What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction? Is it asking too much that they have something else to offer other than a pretty face to look at or a nice body?

    Should I be looking for any kind of emotional support? I think I should be able to handle that myself and be happy with myself before meeting them or relying on them for anything.

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    Default Re: What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction? Is it asking too much that they have something else to offer other than a pretty face to look at or a nice body?

    Should I be looking for any kind of emotional support? I think I should be able to handle that myself and be happy with myself before meeting them or relying on them for anything.
    See your mindset , its already objectified women as sexual objects.

    "Almost nothing wrong with it", that's what you think. I used to think that too, but thats not what a women is completely.

    She too have hopes, desires, ideals etc etc. Just like you she in an self intention fulfilling machine. A woman can do much more than just sex. she can support you emotionally, physically and economically but does she instantly ???

    The answer is hell no, only when she sees great potential in you will she ever do it and even if she does good for you but if she starts doing it then her female role just got reversed to an male role. If you don't pick up the tab, she will leave you..

    Nothing wrong with her mindset, she is an biological ticking time bomb {menopause}. What she wants to do is mate with the best male specimen she can find, and if you don't seem like it then obviously she will leave you.

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    Default Re: What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    I'm not sure I need any emotional support and I could get that from friends.

    I think this is the first time I've heard the word reproduction on this site...

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    Default Re: What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction? Is it asking too much that they have something else to offer other than a pretty face to look at or a nice body?

    Should I be looking for any kind of emotional support? I think I should be able to handle that myself and be happy with myself before meeting them or relying on them for anything.
    Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw ! You have a lot of issues. Women are not just cum buckets. A woman can fill all the holes in your life, she can please you in ways you can't even imagine, not just sexual. Yes, I use routines and follow a pattern to get them, but this is because I want what they have to offer so bad that I started to practice and perfect the art of picking up women.

    You will never sleep with a woman if you have this mentality, if you cannot get rid of it all by yourself, you need to seek help serious help.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    I'm not sure I need any emotional support and I could get that from friends.

    I think this is the first time I've heard the word reproduction on this site...
    I really think you do need emotional support, after what you just said.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    You said "what they have to offer," but never said what it is

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    Default Re: What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    Fuck what they say. Just control her. Have a stronger frame. You lead she follows. Whatever she thinks doesnt matter.

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    Default Re: What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction? Is it asking too much that they have something else to offer other than a pretty face to look at or a nice body?
    it really depends on what you're looking for. you have to do some soul searching to discover your true desires. it may take quite a lot of meditation and experience to figure out the qualities you desire in a woman.

    once you have a good list of qualities a woman must posses to be good enough for you. finding what you desire will be much easier. if you don't know what you want, you'll never get what you want.

    I recommend having a list of 10 qualifiers that a girl has to have in order to date you. you can ask her questions to find out these things. women understand that they have to bring value to the table too. if you never ask them to show value they will assume you're another loser who only cares about looks.

    some of my qualifiers/ qualifying questions include:

    1. adventurous. i'll ask her "what's the craziest most exciting thing you've done recently?" (if she doesn't do any adventurous activities, she's not the girl for me)

    2. generous. i'll ask her if she's involved in any charities, i'll check to see if she tips the waitress, or if she offers to pay her half of the meal. (this is important to me, as I tend to be a more generous person than most)

    3. physically active. i'll ask her about what kind of activities she enjoys, if none of them involve getting up and moving, she's not going to be able to ever keep up with me.


    4. creative. i'll ask her if she's built or designed anything. i'll listen to see if she expresses any real truly original thoughts. I often like to get women to play show and tell. example, last week the barber lady told me about her gingerbread house she made, so of course I asked her if she had any pictures of it, low and behold she was excited to show me her work of art and I genuinely appreciated it, thus qualifying her.

    5. intelligent. if half of what I talk about goes right over her head and she doesn't understand my subtle humor then she isn't smart enough to date me. i'll also ask about her education and any skills she may have.

    6. fun. if she can be light hearted and make me laugh I can easily start to fall in love with any woman. unfortunately not many of the women I've talked to possess this quality. (bottom line, if I'm the only one lifting the mood, I'm the only one giving value to the interaction)

    7. hard working. I always ask women about their job. if they hate their job and aren't doing anything to get a better job they would like, then its a bad sign that they have little motivation/ambition. this is not to say I need the woman to be the bread winner, but I certainly don't want to be stuck supporting a lazy woman or be stuck listening to her complain about her job every day of the week.

    8. responsible. i'll ask about any matters she has to take care of. if she can't manage her own matters, there's no way in hell she's going to be capable of taking care of me when I need her to.

    9. wife skills. this should be an expectation for any woman. if she can't cook and clean and give me back rubs she'd better learn fast or she's getting nexted. this is not to say I can't teach her some of these things after having "dated" her a little, but they are must haves if she wants long term potential.

    having clear expectations for the women you meet will make dating and hookups simpler. you have to stick to them to. if the woman has no real value, why sleep with her? what if you got her pregnant? do you want a dead beat baby momma to cause you all kinds of drama? I certainly don't.

    even if you're just hooking up a woman should have some of the qualities you desire. if you're willing to fark without first checking her value, she will automatically know you're a chump who would f*ck damn near any woman with a nice body and that certainly doesn't make her feel special.

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    Default Re: What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    You said "what they have to offer," but never said what it is
    femininity, interesting conversation, sensitivity, passion, adventure, they make me lust for them and I love it

    Quote Originally Posted by Gironon View Post
    Fuck what they say. Just control her. Have a stronger frame. You lead she follows. Whatever she thinks doesnt matter.
    Well actually it does, unless you want a law suit. You for instance will be attracted to the very sweet skiny shy girl, because you need such a girl to make you feel strong and masculine and only a girl with extrem low self esteem and/or a lot of father issues will let a man control every aspect of her life.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: What should a girl have to offer me besides sex and reproduction?

    Man Redstar, I sent you that message I hope you read it. You really gotta change this mindset. Nobody at the top really has this "what can they do for me?" type of mentality. It doesn't work, at least not in your favor.

    My mentor when I was younger taught me about the law of reciprocation. What you give out, is what you get back. Karma essentially, but on a smaller micro scale. If you lift the people up around you, and help them out with no expectations of things in return, you will actually get a return from them. They will be more apt to help you out when you need it. Same goes for girls. Become high value, make her happy and give her a good time, and she will blow your fucking mind with great times, feminine energy, and awesome sex.

    -lifestyle
    Started game in 2012. Professionally coaching for 2+ years. Strong believer in good karma, if you'd like me to give you a call/skype/email for some quick tips please reach out. Happy to help. It's cool if you're weird, I am too. Just don't be super fucking weird alright? learnrealseduction . com


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