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    Default Am I going too far?

    Ive been reay aggressive and hostel to a few women ive been texting and all of them have turned extremely confrontational and heated and filled with name calling, that i feel like my trigger is razor thin and ill call a girl a stupid hoe concerned?

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    Default Re: Am I going too far?

    Ahh man, I feel you dude. Girls can be frustrating at one point, it took me a long ass time to get over this. For instance tonight a girl was all about me yesterday and today, talking about how much she wanted to hang out. We had plans tonight at 8pm, and she cancelled and got all weirded out by 7pm and cancelled with "im not feeling well actually." My first reaction to this is "bitch really one hour before take off and you come down with the flu" lol. A few years ago I would have probably said that to her honestly. But now I looked at it logically, and not emotionally. I didn't let it bruise my ego. I analyzed what I did wrong.

    This specific case, I had not built nearly enough rapport with this girl. Our meetup was half spur of the moment planning, and took a 30 minute drive. Too much commitment, especially without building rapport. Totally didn't think through on this one because it seemed like she was so down before.

    So instead of flipping on her (which totally ruins your chances, you want to fuck her after all... right?) and stroking my own ego, I said "it's totally cool, tbh I really don't know you at all lol". And we began talking about ourselves, and I built some rapport with her and told her she sounds cool, and she wants to actually meet up with me, and apologized for ditching.

    Look at it objectively. Don't flip out on her, as much as this knee jerk reaction is easy to do... I know man. But this is going to fuck your chances of getting laid. You gotta learn to control that shit bro.

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    Default Re: Am I going too far?

    Yeah i feel you about not being emotional. You can defintly lose out but this was kind of different since i had basically made her flip by saying be quite. Then an entire argument broke out and she blew up my phone, and it just kept going text after text heres a snippet.2015-12-19 10:11 PST -
    Quite me?! Okay that is it. I have had to deal with your crazy dirty text messages for fucking days now! Fuck off asshole

    2015-12-19 10:14 PST - You :
    This isnt about that dont make it about that. Youre just feeling like youve been slighted and now youre overreacting. There was no straw that broke the camels back. It is what it is Just see that and be cool.

    2015-12-19 10:16 PST - You :
    If anything i should be offended by that outburst. Try and be civil.

    2015-12-19 10:17 PST - You :
    If thats really what this is about then wow that laughable i have zero respect for that.

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    It really ishat. You don't know or didn't even ask if I am now in a relationship with anyone. I was ignoring all of the stupid sexual shit for a

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    reason dick. And then you basically tell me to shut up when you are the one blowing up my fucking phone all the god damn time

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    I have zero respected for you telling me to be quite when you are the one who doesn't shut the fuck up

    2015-12-19 10:21 PST - You :
    If all it took was one innane comment to set you off youre probably way overly irrational and emotional or youre a sleeze, or youre just dumb.

    2015-12-19 10:22 PST - You :
    I didnt know you could be so emotional, and defensive. Take a chill pill.

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    Good. What ever it take for you to never speak to me again. I don't care what you think of me because I know who I am

    2015-12-19 10:23 PST - You :
    I just said that because overreacting to that one comment DOESNT MAKE SENSE.

    2015-12-19 10:25 PST - You :
    Whatever it takes? You make it sound like i actually did something to offend you. Haha stop.

    2015-12-19 10:26 PST - You :
    So now that you had youre little freak out are you ready to play nice?

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    Default Re: Am I going too far?

    Ahhh... sorry man like I said in our message I'm not trying to offend you here at all, I've done the same exact shit, but it's still pretty cringe worthy lol. There's probably an underlying motive with this girl to not text back related to feeling a bit used or slutty for fucking you and not having any commitment or any explanation for her actions. Idk much about the history but the girls gotta have an excuse like being drunk usually so she can tell her friends why she fucked some guy she's not dating, or she'll give you the cold shoulder quick before she loses some reputation of her own. It's just self preservation.
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    Default Re: Am I going too far?

    Oh man it is a clear "NO". I mean she's really telling you to stop texting her any more. Move on man.

    If you are trying to take something positive out of this, then may I ask what was the background conversation after which it all started? What you've listed here is just the "effect" (argument) and not the "cause". What did you say to her before this (vv) first message
    Quiet me?! Okay that is it.....
    Ps:
    Am I going too far?
    Based on this particular conversation, YES.

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    Default Re: Am I going too far?

    The only way it would have been alright is if she made a random 180 degree turn around which was near impossible. Next time ill get less emotional/approval seeking.

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    Default Re: Am I going too far?

    Yes, I don't wanna say it like this man but you done goofed a little. Part of the game though, we all have done shit exactly like this. It wasn't even a mistake, it was a lesson. A mistake would have been to not even try bro.

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    Default Re: Am I going too far?

    The funny part is the conversation was way way longer but i didnt post all of it because it got way more intense and cringe worthy. I wont go into detail because its all rather sad but i feel like i learned something about female nature that i hadnt considered.

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    Default Re: Am I going too far?

    Yeah pretty cringey lol. But no worries man. Plenty of girls where that came from.
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    Default Re: Am I going too far?

    If calling a girl a name is all your worried about... then you do NOT have any anger issues....

    I have been to bondage clubs where girls get tied up, whipped, and suspended from the ceiling... and girls didn't even feel comfortable enough with me there to get close to me....


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