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    Default How to escalate w/ a girl I've banged hundreds of times when shes not horny

    So there's a girl who I'm currently FWB with. We used to date seriously for about a year then broke up and went separate ways. During this time she had a very high sex drive; we literally had sex 2-3 times a day. We recently started talking again and meet up here and there. We have sex maybe 25% of the time (where 90% of the time I'm trying to escalate and she doesn't reciprocate). The other 75% of the time I feel friendzoned.

    Here's what a night looks like when we don't have sex: She comes to my place. We drink a few beers, I put on a movie, we cuddle in bed. I touch/kino her when cuddling. Like I slowly rub her inner thighs or her waist. When she's horny, she's really into it and we have good sex. But when she's not in the mood, she asks me to keep my hands still. She's clearly there just for the movie/company and not for sex. I kiss her, she doesn't back away but doesn't ever do more than just a small peck on the lips. If I try to escalate any further, she stops me.

    I understand things/feelings changed from when we used to date but what would you do if you want to continue having a sexual relationship with someone but doing so makes me look desperate and horny. I am dating/having sex with other women (currently she's only seeing me) so please don't suggest that alone.

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    Default Re: How to escalate w/ a girl I've banged hundreds of times when shes not h

    Try pulling back a little bit. Not sure if you are doing this, but my gf was the same and I had no idea what I was doing wrong for the longest time. Instead of cuddling super hard with her, I would face my body more perpendicular with the TV screen, and kind of barely put a hand around her. Let her cuddle me pretty much. And when I would not react any differently, still be normal and fun, one time she got fiesty, and literally jumped on top of me and started like ripping my clothes off lol. Try that out.

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