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    airframe is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Post WTF is wrong with me

    I met this girl on tinder and our first date goes amazingly well but i didn't kiss her. Second date we mini golf and I invite her to my hotel room. I make us drinks and we are watching TV. I finally kiss her after two hours, it was just a quick kiss. My heart went into overdrive. Another two hours go by and she kisses me. Midnight comes around and she says she needs to go, and leaves.

    I obviously knew this girl wanted to fuck but I just couldn't pull the trigger. Does this just come down to me growing some balls and going for it? How do I prevent this from ever happening again?

    Do I just forget about this girl and never text her again? Unlikely she will text me again.

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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me

    Dude not a big deal at all bro. Don't beat yourself up over this, it's how your brain works. It's something you haven't done for a while (or a loong while), and your brain knows there is a chance of being rejected, and activates it's fight or flight response. Happens to us all of the time.

    The fact you went for the kiss means you are willing to push past it, although it may have not been perfect you pushed man. The next time it'll be much easier
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    bojan.95 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me

    You made me think that you just didnt do any Kino escalation except kiss??

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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me

    Quote Originally Posted by airframe View Post
    I met this girl on tinder and our first date goes amazingly well but i didn't kiss her. Second date we mini golf and I invite her to my hotel room. I make us drinks and we are watching TV. I finally kiss her after two hours, it was just a quick kiss. My heart went into overdrive. Another two hours go by and she kisses me. Midnight comes around and she says she needs to go, and leaves.

    I obviously knew this girl wanted to fuck but I just couldn't pull the trigger. Does this just come down to me growing some balls and going for it? How do I prevent this from ever happening again?

    Do I just forget about this girl and never text her again? Unlikely she will text me again.
    First off stop assuming you don't know what will happen if you text her.
    Secondly, yes grow a pair man ! Don't beat yourself about it of course but still go for it next time.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me

    How long we're you guys kissing for? Usually I'll make out with a women for a minute then put her on her back, if we're back at one of our places. Or Wait a min put my hand on her hip or leg or ass, kissing her neck. Theres passionate/sexy ways to escalate things. Foreplay is huge, just try to move it on a little bit next time.


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