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Thread: Use dating sites or no?

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    Default Use dating sites or no?

    Wanted your opinions on the use of dating sites like tinder or plenty of fish for example. I went into a bit of a depression when my attempt to f close a hot girl were rejected even though she acted like she was attracted to me and we were making out for half the night, i simply didn't attract her enough if she didn't want to f close, anyway, that's over. I'm an emotional person so got depressed for a while. Now i'm over it and i'm not thinking about girls for a while and just bettering myself in he meantime....wanted your opinions on if i should use dating sites when im feeling ready or just go out....or use both? Is it beta to use dating sites?

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    Default Re: Use dating sites or no?

    I don't think there's any harm in using them as long as you're not neglecting the real world search as well. You have to be thick skinned since they're generally pretty looks dependent places even for good looking guys, so a lot of messages go unanswered. But yeah, it's a good place to just practice your text game and get to know a few people, maybe score some dates, the occasional easy fuck, but it is on some level a crutch to approaching in real life. It does help you deal with rejection too which lowers approach anxiety

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    Default Re: Use dating sites or no?

    Go for it.

    Try fling.com, too...

    But don't take mine. Lol.

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    Default Re: Use dating sites or no?

    I've had no luck whatsoever with them. What I mean by that is I don't think I ever met anyone in person from them or if I did it was a long time ago. I have talked to one or two on the phone and engaged in some exchanges through the private messages but usually not more than that. I didn't put much effort into it either though because I could sense it would be a waste of my time. If you really know what you are doing and have studied how to be good at online game then I say go for it but for me it's not something I'm focusing on right now.

    I will say this about Plenty of Fish. It's probably the worst site on the internet. I don't mean just dating site but site in general. It's just horrible. It actually seems to want men to just be friends with women and nothing more. I can't think of a better way for a man to be unsuccessful with women than with POF. I think E-harmony and Match dot com are probably way better even though you have to pay for them. Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be many legitimate sites for guys who just want to play the field(I know there are some apps though). Almost all of them seem to be focused on what women want(or think they want). I think part of that is because there are women(ie prostitutes and cam girls)who will take advantage of men and therefore those sites get bad reputations.

    You would think online dating would be a great way to level the playing field for men but in my opinion that is not the case at all. In fact if anything it just tends to give women the sense that they have even more power than they would in the real world. It's easier for them to ignore guys and just string them along without many consequences because they can hide behind anonymity.

    The best way to use the internet to meet people is through local groups, volunteer groups or meetup groups where you can actually meet people without chatting with them online first. There are many meetup groups for singles. Speed Dating(which you can find through this)is probably a much better alternative to online dating because you can meet the person without much fear of rejection. It's very low risk(at least compared to the more traditional methods).

    So I would possibly keep internet dating as an option but it should definitely not be your only option nor should it be an excuse for not getting out and meeting women in the real world.


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