Someone who is GOOD (can go out and bring a girl home) tell me what is wrong with my thought process...

When I go out, one of the first thing I want to know about a girl is how much she makes so that I can try to get her to invest in my business.

I know that is not what this should be about and probably means that I'm way off the mark... I spend 24/7 thinking about money, so it carries over into the "field,"...

What do you think about this and how should I change my perspective?

Please only answer if you are experienced.