This girl i know is toxic, she's a weak 7. She acts all good and she's on her white horse like many girls out there but she's no different then he rest of girls out there who are promiscuous. Talks to me like i'm her boyfriend saying "baby" and "i love you". While she's talking to and messing around with other guys. She's been flakey with plans which has been pissing me off, but what pissed me off the most is when we made plans in the beginning of the week to hang out on the weekend, the day of she says her schedule got switched and she has to work that night. I tell her ok cool i'll come visit at work, (she works at a restaurant), then she says she'll "be in the back all day replenishing stock" yeah ok bull shit. Then quickly goes to say they are also probably letting people go home early. She's such a bad liar, my suspicions were up of course at such a bad lie, so we ended up arguing because i knew it was bull shit even though i didn't care her out on it, we argued mainly about the flaking. A few days pass and I get confirmation she was hanging out with another dude in his room...Now i know i got a case of oneitis and this girl is toxic and i should forget her. Yet girls are really the only thing that excite me in this world, again i know that's really bad, you don't need to tell me. I'm lonely and don't get the chance to go out of the house much let alone be able to hook up with my friends who actually have some sort of game to go out with due to the fact we're all busy and schedules conflict.
So my question is do i bite my tongue and just use this girl for sex like she uses me? I know i know i have to find other girls and destroy my oneitis. But do i keep this girl on the side? Or do i sit her down and have a serious talk with her telling her i don't like being flaked on and lied to like a chump and i know she hung out with another dude that day. I know that is 95% not gonna go well and destroy the friends with benefits thing but it's taking so much from me not to call this girl out between that and flaking, and she's got the nerve to act all good. Mind you this girl is also around me and my circle of friends often so i gotta basically live with her figuratively speaking.
I've called her out and stuff before and she acts all apologetic but then goes back to doing the same bull.
Do I call her out?(most likely to turn my bridges with her but it's what my mind and body wants to do so badly because i hate when shitty people do shitty things, makes me furious.) Bite my tongue? Mind you i'm lonely and it's p****
I know i have a case of oneitis and it's very bad and destructive i know i know and i don't need you guys telling me that, i'm working on improving myself as a person and physically in the meantime. I want your opinions on what to do with this girl considering the situation at hand.
Typical daddy issues girl.