Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 10 of 10

Thread: Bad Wingman

  1. #1
    Sole Collector is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 66, Level: 1
    Level completed: 32%, Points required for next Level: 34
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Dec 2015
    Posts
    9
    Points
    66
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Bad Wingman

    What do you do when your wingman sucks and you can't find a new one? I worked 6 sets last night in a club, had a make out with a girl in one of the sets and was fingering another in a different set. My wing however just stood there with his dick in his hand the whole time instead of occupying the friends. So I lost both of those sets that I should have been able to pull and close.
    What should I do?

  2. #2
    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
    100 Experience Points7 days registered
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Posts
    706
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 9 Times in 9 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Bad Wingman

    Can you take me through the whole interaction from meet to fingering? How long did this take to occur? What was your opener? What happened next?

    You should respond to more of my posts? You seem to know what you're doing!

    Did the girl that you fingered do anything to you?

    As far as your post... why don't you meet someone at the club who seems to know what he's doing and go with him next time?

  3. The Following User Says Thank You to redstar1324 For This Useful Post:

    Sole Collector (01-02-2016)

  4. #3
    Slickwilly is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 109, Level: 2
    Level completed: 18%, Points required for next Level: 41
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Feb 2015
    Posts
    34
    Points
    109
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default Re: Bad Wingman

    If you can be fingering a girl while your wingman stands by with his dick in his hand, than your wingman isn't the problem.

    you were able to get those girls away from there friends, to make out and finger them, why you couldn't f close is your problems, not your wings.

  5. #4
    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
    100 Experience Points7 days registered
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Posts
    706
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 9 Times in 9 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Bad Wingman

    That's a good point... I have never fingered someone and not fucked them....

    Only thing I can think of is that the club wasn't conducive to having sex? I've never done anything in a club or bar, just at home or in "nature"....

    Were they unwilling to go back to your place?

  6. #5
    Sole Collector is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 66, Level: 1
    Level completed: 32%, Points required for next Level: 34
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Dec 2015
    Posts
    9
    Points
    66
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Bad Wingman

    I am sure there is more I should have done and I would love to know what you guys suggest. That's why I am on here. Constructive criticism is appreciated. I'll be honest, I'm a rookie when it comes to clubs. I was expecting to use more verbal game but it turned out that it was nearly all physical. The club I was in was Diesel in Pittsburgh, if any of you have been there. I had never been there before nor had I been to a club that packed full of people and hot women. The layout of the club was that it's 3 floors and when it fills up after 11pm it's near impossible to move. The music is too loud to talk to anyone, I still haven't gotten my hearing back.

    So the set where I was fingering the girl was my 4th set of the night. There was a HB-9 black chick dancing with her friend next to me. So I pull her to me and lock in against the glass banister. We are dancing and she is grinding the hell out of my dick. So I'm doing some kino while dancing with her to escalate things a bit and she puts my hands down on her pussy, and later a hand on her tit. So she is grinding and twerking while I'm keeping rhythm with her, rubbing her clit and feeling her tits. I'm pretty sure her skirt was up high enough that everyone was seeing at one point. lol. Meanwhile her friend is standing there 3ft away by herself, judging my girl and giving me the evil eye. I signal to my wing twice to get over there but he wouldn't do it. So after a long time of that and only a couple minutes till midnight, she leans back and says "You have a really big dick" and then goes to her irritated and lonely friend that is already giving her shit.

    So what should I have done?

  7. #6
    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
    100 Experience Points7 days registered
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Posts
    706
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 9 Times in 9 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Bad Wingman

    I've never done that, but...

    Go to the bathroom and fuck? It sounds like there are no private spots in that club at all, so it's hard to say....

    This doesn't sound like the kind of situation where you can get her number and meet her at your place another day...

  8. The Following User Says Thank You to redstar1324 For This Useful Post:

    Sole Collector (01-02-2016)

  9. #7
    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
    100 Experience Points7 days registered
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Posts
    706
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 9 Times in 9 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Bad Wingman

    Come to think of it, that sounds like a "fool's lay" (or finger) if I've ever heard one...

    After reading your description, that's what I think....

    Not that there's anything wrong with that...

    There's nothing wrong with your wing... I go out alone.... how is a wing going to help you when you are one-on-one with a girl? I have yet to be convinced of the necessity of a wing, but I could be wrong....

    It kind of fucks my whole dynamic up... I go out alone and meet people while I'm there....

    I'm known as a guy who goes out alone...

  10. The Following User Says Thank You to redstar1324 For This Useful Post:

    Sole Collector (01-02-2016)

  11. #8
    Sole Collector is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 66, Level: 1
    Level completed: 32%, Points required for next Level: 34
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Dec 2015
    Posts
    9
    Points
    66
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Bad Wingman

    I probably should have tried to move her through the crowd and up the stairs to the 3rd floor where the bathroom is but that would be a hell of a shuffle.

    I don't think her friend would have let that happen though. That's why I think the benefit of a good wing would have helped. The target doesn't want to be perceived as a slut by her or your friends.

    I'm just not comfortable enough in clubs yet to go alone. Especially around here. If I lived in Pittsburgh it wouldn't be bad, the people seemed more civilized there. But where I lived there are too many people getting stabbed at the clubs. Every time I go out here, there is always someone starting shit. I just feel more comfortable if I have at least 1 person with me that has my back in case something goes down.

  12. #9
    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
    100 Experience Points7 days registered
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Posts
    706
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 9 Times in 9 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Bad Wingman

    In case something goes down versus a gun or a knife? Fuck that. Where I'm from, they check you at the door and you can't have anything in their anyway, not even pepper spray.

    She doesn't want to be seen as a slut, yet she shoved your hand in her vagina? Lol.

    Maybe I should reconsider finding a wing, but it would have to be someone big and bad ass. I have found wings on forums like these and they sucked so bad, they would sit at the bar and talk about Neil Strauss loud enough so that people could hear... I would have been much better off alone...

  13. #10
    Sole Collector is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 66, Level: 1
    Level completed: 32%, Points required for next Level: 34
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Dec 2015
    Posts
    9
    Points
    66
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Bad Wingman

    Yeah, they barely check your ID here.

    Haha. Very true. That was pretty slutty.


Similar Threads

  1. Washington D.C - Looking for a local wingman/ to be a wingman
    By Annalo_V in forum Find a Local Wingman
    Replies: 8
    Last Thread: 07-17-2015, 02:37 PM
  2. If you're attractive is an ugly wingman better than no wingman?
    By SupremeSteve in forum General Questions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 10-26-2014, 04:12 AM
  3. vancouver wingman or group of wingman needed
    By Rambo in forum Find a Local Wingman
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 10-09-2014, 05:37 PM
  4. London Wingman/men (Manchester Wingman after October)
    By El_Draque in forum Find a Local Wingman
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 08-17-2010, 05:10 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com