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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Slickwilly View Post
    How have you been with over "30 girls", yet you're posing the question, "How do you ask for sex?"
    Because on a hookup site, you can just ask... and there's nothing wrong with it... or on Tinder.... you just start off talking about it....

    I've never so much as physically escalated AT ALL with any girl at a bar or club.... even touching an arm.... let alone asking for sex.... although I almost did it last night... half "jokingly".....

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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    we can't help you if you're not honest. you haven't been with 30 women (unless you paid for them?). you lack the basic social skills one would naturally develop by spending time with women.

    maybe i'm off base, but you read like a young college kid trying to figure out how to get poon.... and there's nothing wrong with that... but we can't give you targeted actionable advice if you aren't honest

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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    for the record - the whole money thing which you compare to value, doesn't make much sense. 2 Guys walk in to a club,
    1st guy - you, walking in alone, lacks the courage to start a conversation with anyone because he knows he lacks the social skills to hold someone's attention for more than 15 seconds, needs to reassure himself of his "value" reminding him about the money he has in his bank account, most likely stuck in his own head.
    2nd guy - the so called stoner guy you see, has girls rapped around him, isn't stuck in his own thoughts, obviously makes the girls feel good about themselves otherwise they wouldn't walk around with him, and the "stupid shit" he says obviously isn't so stupid, and it doesn't matter if he has 10$ in his bank account or 1,000,000$, due to the fact that he's the one talking to every girl in the place, not you.

    you're insecure, believe it or not - you are, otherwise you wouldn't need to remind yourself how "high value" you are, nor would you compare yourself to other guys, nor would you feel the need to compete with them, trash talking about them in your head. I hate using the word "alpha", but just for you I'll make an exception - alpha males don't put other people down, they lift them up, don't confuse an alpha male who's having fun, with a guy who's standing at the corner of the club with a war face on. I sense some narcissism in you.. If you see a guy like that (you know, this so called dumb*ss) with a ton of girls with him, don't put him down, admire him - observe him, learn from him.

    You lack a lot of social skills, I once advised you to check out Vin Di Carlo Conversation Cure (CC), if you haven't done so - do it now, doesn't matter how much material you've read on PU and how many people have answered your questions on this forum - CC will help you a lot more than anything up until this point, believe me. I would rate it 10/10 for those who struggle with improving their social skills, no one-liners, no gimmicks - pure development of natural game from square one.

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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Alergy View Post
    for the record - the whole money thing which you compare to value, doesn't make much sense. 2 Guys walk in to a club,
    1st guy - you, walking in alone, lacks the courage to start a conversation with anyone because he knows he lacks the social skills to hold someone's attention for more than 15 seconds, needs to reassure himself of his "value" reminding him about the money he has in his bank account, most likely stuck in his own head.
    2nd guy - the so called stoner guy you see, has girls rapped around him, isn't stuck in his own thoughts, obviously makes the girls feel good about themselves otherwise they wouldn't walk around with him, and the "stupid shit" he says obviously isn't so stupid, and it doesn't matter if he has 10$ in his bank account or 1,000,000$, due to the fact that he's the one talking to every girl in the place, not you.

    you're insecure, believe it or not - you are, otherwise you wouldn't need to remind yourself how "high value" you are, nor would you compare yourself to other guys, nor would you feel the need to compete with them, trash talking about them in your head. I hate using the word "alpha", but just for you I'll make an exception - alpha males don't put other people down, they lift them up, don't confuse an alpha male who's having fun, with a guy who's standing at the corner of the club with a war face on. I sense some narcissism in you.. If you see a guy like that (you know, this so called dumb*ss) with a ton of girls with him, don't put him down, admire him - observe him, learn from him.

    You lack a lot of social skills, I once advised you to check out Vin Di Carlo Conversation Cure (CC), if you haven't done so - do it now, doesn't matter how much material you've read on PU and how many people have answered your questions on this forum - CC will help you a lot more than anything up until this point, believe me. I would rate it 10/10 for those who struggle with improving their social skills, no one-liners, no gimmicks - pure development of natural game from square one.
    The stoner guy didn't have a bunch of girls around him, he was part of a group of a few guys surrounding one girl... And he wasn't talking to every girl in the place...

    I have no problem starting a conversation about basic things...

    Business and money is my passion...

    Money feeds babies, smoking pot doesn't...

    Plus, walking in alone IS courage...

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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    And you're missing the fact that I don't give any money to anyone...

    Money is earned through hard work... As opposed to a lazy stoner...

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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    I am putting obsessive amounts of energy into fixing this area of my life... I don't want to be seen as the forum troll.... I did not go out tonight, but I will pose my questions for the day....

    1. How do you ask for sex? At some point, it is necessary to physically, verbally ask a girl to have sex with you. Who are they guys on here that get laid regularly? How do you ask? What words come out of your mouth?

    Do you just straight up ask... do you want to have sex with me?

    Can you describe the last time you've done this?
    Today I did it on an instant date, always do that in day game after 10 mins start screening the logistics so why are you here what re you up to today... Go for the pull if you see it. I saw it but I was short, the girl was the issue I was on point with my day game.

    You have to kino escalate in a proper way and touch her without really making it a big deal and push and pull, say something like you know what I like about you she'll say what you say nothing.

    Put out your hand and see if you have physical compliance, if she takes it it means you do. Be the first to end the kino as well. She needs to get comfortable with your touch.

    Then you negate sex, you tell her something like don't think you're going to kiss me after we pay the bill, and then work up from kiss to sex. Talk about sex !! don't ask for it. She'll know it's what you want. Plus, if I say don't think of a pink elephant you'll think of a pink elephant because the human brain does not work in negation!! Say that you're shy say that you don't know how to talk to women by now she'll know that is just bull shit and she'll laugh as you say these things.

    Keep in mind I did it today to a muslim girl who said she has a lot of intimacy issues and that a guy she was with told her he was shy and stuff like that so every time I did it she laughed but said you're lying, but she couldn't help but feel it... In the end she resisted the kiss but told me she liked me, tomorrow I'm going to grab a beer with her and normally I should be able to pull her to my place!!
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Today I did it on an instant date, always do that in day game after 10 mins start screening the logistics so why are you here what re you up to today... Go for the pull if you see it. I saw it but I was short, the girl was the issue I was on point with my day game.

    You have to kino escalate in a proper way and touch her without really making it a big deal and push and pull, say something like you know what I like about you she'll say what you say nothing.

    Put out your hand and see if you have physical compliance, if she takes it it means you do. Be the first to end the kino as well. She needs to get comfortable with your touch.

    Then you negate sex, you tell her something like don't think you're going to kiss me after we pay the bill, and then work up from kiss to sex. Talk about sex !! don't ask for it. She'll know it's what you want. Plus, if I say don't think of a pink elephant you'll think of a pink elephant because the human brain does not work in negation!! Say that you're shy say that you don't know how to talk to women by now she'll know that is just bull shit and she'll laugh as you say these things.

    Keep in mind I did it today to a muslim girl who said she has a lot of intimacy issues and that a guy she was with told her he was shy and stuff like that so every time I did it she laughed but said you're lying, but she couldn't help but feel it... In the end she resisted the kiss but told me she liked me, tomorrow I'm going to grab a beer with her and normally I should be able to pull her to my place!!

    My recent kino escalations are just hand shakes when I introduce myself and say my name and ask theirs.

    What do you think of that? It's a start anyway.

    Also, do the girls you talk to know your last name at any point? Do they ask for it right from the start?

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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    handshakes are the best way to kill attraction

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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by upperhandy View Post
    handshakes are the best way to kill attraction
    According to who? It's best to be careful who you get advice from... it's an introduction of physical contact....

    What would you suggest that I do?

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    Default Re: How do you ask for sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    According to who? It's best to be careful who you get advice from... it's an introduction of physical contact....

    What would you suggest that I do?
    look man... when was the last time you gave your gf a handshake..... handshake is something you do with your bro's or in a professional non-sexual encounter

    take a look at the attached image.... once you've initiated contact and started talking.... you move out of the stranger category and into the acquaintence category... once you've got the convo going and have established rapport and attraction i'd say you fall more into the friend category....

    there's no point in initiating physical contact unless you have rapport and attraction.... if you do it's just creepy

    the ok zone here is from the hands up to the shoulders and the upper back.....

    so a great way to do it is at some climactic part of a conversation you punctuate it with a touch....

    you :"... blah blah .... you know what i mean?" <reaches over and touches the wrist for 1/2 to 1 sec>

    there are a million variations on this

    you: .... that's bullshit... shut up (humorously)..." <give her a gently shove on the shoulder>



    BTW BROSEPH

    y don't you stop being fake and come correct about who you are and what you want.

    no fucking way in hell have you slept with 30 women

    if you just level with us it'll be so much easier to help you

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