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    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
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    Default How do you get over one-itis?

    I had this girl I was talking to in February that I can't get out of my head, but the reason is because she is rich (and hot).... she is 19, and when she turns 21, she is inheriting something like $20 million...

    Her dad owns over $5.5 billion of real estate....

    This is a rare scenario... and it has nothing to do with her personality that sets her apart... her personality is similar to everyone else's....

    I see every way that I messed it up and I have improved so much since then, but I still can't get her out of my head....

    Is there a way to get over this?

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    Default Re: How do you get over one-itis?

    You say "you've improved so much" but you haven't improved enough if you haven't been with a bunch of other girls since her because you would have gotten over her if you had. I believe you only get one chance, if it didn't work it won't work and move on, learn from your mistakes to be better and better. Also oneitis is extremely destructive, it's very difficult to attract a girl you're head over heels for because girls don't want easy guys they want difficult guys, not ones that fall into their laps. I'm guilty of having oneitis on quiet a few girls and it's extremely bad for you, it led me to being depressed and just not wanting to do anything, you live once and our time here is short so having a girl that doesn't even care about you stuck in your head is retarded both for you and for her if she knew what you were thinking, thinking that your whole world and happiness depended on her being with you....she wohld be freaked out and would want nothing to do with you.

    Turn oneitis on its head. If you're butt hurt about messing up with a girl. Use that butt hurt to get yourself in the gym, work out extremely hard pushing yourself to your limits everyday, get jacked, be outgoing, go to bars with your friends and meet new people, be alpha, have your hobbies if not get some hobbies that make you happy and excel at them. Girls will then gravitate to you, even girls you messrd up in the past with will be wanting you when they see you in public with other girls who are all over you.

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    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
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    Default Re: How do you get over one-itis?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bluenose10 View Post
    You say "you've improved so much" but you haven't improved enough if you haven't been with a bunch of other girls since her because you would have gotten over her if you had. I believe you only get one chance, if it didn't work it won't work and move on, learn from your mistakes to be better and better. Also oneitis is extremely destructive, it's very difficult to attract a girl you're head over heels for because girls don't want easy guys they want difficult guys, not ones that fall into their laps. I'm guilty of having oneitis on quiet a few girls and it's extremely bad for you, it led me to being depressed and just not wanting to do anything, you live once and our time here is short so having a girl that doesn't even care about you stuck in your head is retarded both for you and for her if she knew what you were thinking, thinking that your whole world and happiness depended on her being with you....she wohld be freaked out and would want nothing to do with you.

    Turn oneitis on its head. If you're butt hurt about messing up with a girl. Use that butt hurt to get yourself in the gym, work out extremely hard pushing yourself to your limits everyday, get jacked, be outgoing, go to bars with your friends and meet new people, be alpha, have your hobbies if not get some hobbies that make you happy and excel at them. Girls will then gravitate to you, even girls you messrd up in the past with will be wanting you when they see you in public with other girls who are all over you.
    I know. I already used the mistake to improve. I want to show her my ripped triceps. I want to show her all the hot girls I now know and the social that I didn't have back then. I'm about to become partial owner of an apartment complex and she has no idea. We don't share any social circles. She will not know unless I tell her.

    I have a theory that there is a reason for one-itis and that is that it selects girls that you want something serious with. Something like children and marriage, or at least something more than a fling. Some girls are worth more than others, otherwise we would all just go get homeless crackheads.

    And this girl at one point offered me her virginity, but I messed it up.

    And if I go fuck the hottest girl in the world... that still doesn't help me wit that $20 million she's inheriting... there's a very good reason that she is "special," and it's only that she is rich. I would like to show you who her dad is, but I won't say it on the forum. I'll tell you in private if you care.

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    Default Re: How do you get over one-itis?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    I know. I already used the mistake to improve. I want to show her my ripped triceps. I want to show her all the hot girls I now know and the social that I didn't have back then. I'm about to become partial owner of an apartment complex and she has no idea. We don't share any social circles. She will not know unless I tell her.

    I have a theory that there is a reason for one-itis and that is that it selects girls that you want something serious with. Something like children and marriage, or at least something more than a fling. Some girls are worth more than others, otherwise we would all just go get homeless crackheads.

    And this girl at one point offered me her virginity, but I messed it up.

    And if I go fuck the hottest girl in the world... that still doesn't help me wit that $20 million she's inheriting... there's a very good reason that she is "special," and it's only that she is rich. I would like to show you who her dad is, but I won't say it on the forum. I'll tell you in private if you care.
    Sure you can talk to me privately through pm.

    I know you still want her but oneitis just isn't healthy and it's not alpha. I don't know if this girl is causing you stress because you want o be with her, but if she is then that's another reason not to pursue her. If a girl you're not able to get with is causing you stress for that reason then it's more reason to cut her out of your life.

    I get oneitis myself pretty easily. If i'm attracted to a girl and it doesn't work out I get bad oneitis. Like the last girl i was hooking up with but it didn't work out, she was my type, of girl looks wise and she was a cool chick. Obviously i'm not gonna get oneitis over a girl who isn't my type and doesn't have much going on in her life and isn't that cool of a chick. We usually really desire what we can't have and that's why we need to better ourselves so we can have them.

    Would you get oneitis over a girl who wasn't attractive and was easy because she just wants any guy who will be with her? Or would you get oneitis over a hot girl who you had something going with and you were really excited about f closing or starting a relationship with this hot chick, and you slipped up because you don't have enough game? I think the latter.

    With this girl just reach out to her and ask her on a fun date doing something exciting, if she's not into seeing you again then forget her.

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    Default Re: How do you get over one-itis?

    The only thing special about her is her money. She is hot, but there are better looking girls any night you go out.

    How many times am I going to meet a girl whose dad tried to buy the Empire State Building? Pretty ridiculous.

    I haven't even talked to her since February. That's when it all ended. She probably has a boyfriend by now anyway.

    And that lucky son of a bitch is going to get all that money she's inheriting.


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