Gentlemen, signed up just now for some progression advice. Just found the courage to ask a Co worker out on a potential date. I engaged her with a bit of small talk then lead to saying "hey when your schedule frees up a bit let's go out sometime"
She responded by saying yea sure but says she works most nights (implying that it would be tough) I then kind of nervously said cool let's chat about it over text. We parted ways after that. I find it hard to tell whether that was being Dodgy or just being realistic. Would you guys still try and text her the next day to see how her week is looking like? Or should I leave the ball in her court?
I don't want to come off as too pushy.
Mind you she's fairly shy and introverted so it's really hard to read her but we've had some slight flirting here and there but I find it somewhat tough to establish rapport with someone like her. Any thoughts would he appreciated.