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    Default Help with side chick

    TLDR; returned from 2weeks with LD LTGF and side chick doesn't want to hang anymore

    in a very long term relationship (15+yr) that has become long distance in the last 2 years. introduced to a girl via my personal social network who was moving out here for work. we started hanging out and hooking up (she is aware of my LTGF). just got back from 2weeks with LTGF and side chick doesn't want to hang out (being very aloof).

    best strategy? thinking of cold shoulder for the time being....

    need more info ask....

    THANKS!

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    Default Re: Help with side chick

    just bumping the thread to get some eyes on it... thanks

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    Default Re: Help with side chick

    Quote Originally Posted by upperhandy View Post
    TLDR; returned from 2weeks with LD LTGF and side chick doesn't want to hang anymore

    in a very long term relationship (15+yr) that has become long distance in the last 2 years. introduced to a girl via my personal social network who was moving out here for work. we started hanging out and hooking up (she is aware of my LTGF). just got back from 2weeks with LTGF and side chick doesn't want to hang out (being very aloof).

    best strategy? thinking of cold shoulder for the time being....

    need more info ask....

    THANKS!
    How can you be in a 15 year relationship with someone and not have any kids?

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    Default Re: Help with side chick

    I'd agree, upperhandy.
    If you've been texting her with no response (or one word responses) just let her be for awhile, and let her come to you.
    In the meantime, keep interacting with other women, don't sit around and wait for her.


    If you wanna turn up the heat, after you've let it cool down for a week or two (i'd go with two) just shoot her kindof a "ping" text, highlighting something cool that you're doing, that you're not inviting her too.

    Just go with something like "Hey, I'm at this really cool bar, having a kickass time (or whatever, tell her something neat about the bar, the bartender is really knowledgeable about whiskey, whatever you want. Just insert a cool little detail), hope you're well, I'll drop you a line soon."

    Most guys in your position would invite her out because they would miss her.
    The fact that you're just dropping her a line to tell her about something cool that you're doing (without her) and that you hope she's well, will drive her bonkers if she has even one tiny bit of interest in you.

    And if she's not interested anymore, she's not interested anymore, time to find another side-chick. You seem pretty savvy though, shouldn't be very difficult!

    I got that from Kezia Noble's How to text a girl Youtube video, btw. Some of her info is really good, some of it is kinda weak.


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    Default Re: Help with side chick

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    How can you be in a 15 year relationship with someone and not have any kids?
    You don't come inside her when she's ovulating

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    Default Re: Help with side chick

    Quote Originally Posted by JayBee View Post
    I'd agree, upperhandy.
    If you've been texting her with no response (or one word responses) just let her be for awhile, and let her come to you.
    In the meantime, keep interacting with other women, don't sit around and wait for her.


    If you wanna turn up the heat, after you've let it cool down for a week or two (i'd go with two) just shoot her kindof a "ping" text, highlighting something cool that you're doing, that you're not inviting her too.

    Just go with something like "Hey, I'm at this really cool bar, having a kickass time (or whatever, tell her something neat about the bar, the bartender is really knowledgeable about whiskey, whatever you want. Just insert a cool little detail), hope you're well, I'll drop you a line soon."

    Most guys in your position would invite her out because they would miss her.
    The fact that you're just dropping her a line to tell her about something cool that you're doing (without her) and that you hope she's well, will drive her bonkers if she has even one tiny bit of interest in you.

    And if she's not interested anymore, she's not interested anymore, time to find another side-chick. You seem pretty savvy though, shouldn't be very difficult!

    I got that from Kezia Noble's How to text a girl Youtube video, btw. Some of her info is really good, some of it is kinda weak.


    Hope that helps!
    Thanks Jake. Shit is clear as mud when it's me...LOL.

    Other folks no prob.

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    Default Re: Help with side chick

    Quote Originally Posted by upperhandy View Post
    You don't come inside her when she's ovulating
    Then what holds something together for 15 years?

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    Default Re: Help with side chick

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Then what holds something together for 15 years?
    you have a narrow minded view of relationships if you think that longevity is predicated on reproduction....

    I keep it going....

    the constant act of seduction keeps it going....


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