Re: Help with side chick
I'd agree, upperhandy.
If you've been texting her with no response (or one word responses) just let her be for awhile, and let her come to you.
In the meantime, keep interacting with other women, don't sit around and wait for her.
If you wanna turn up the heat, after you've let it cool down for a week or two (i'd go with two) just shoot her kindof a "ping" text, highlighting something cool that you're doing, that you're not inviting her too.
Just go with something like "Hey, I'm at this really cool bar, having a kickass time (or whatever, tell her something neat about the bar, the bartender is really knowledgeable about whiskey, whatever you want. Just insert a cool little detail), hope you're well, I'll drop you a line soon."
Most guys in your position would invite her out because they would miss her.
The fact that you're just dropping her a line to tell her about something cool that you're doing (without her) and that you hope she's well, will drive her bonkers if she has even one tiny bit of interest in you.
And if she's not interested anymore, she's not interested anymore, time to find another side-chick. You seem pretty savvy though, shouldn't be very difficult!
I got that from Kezia Noble's How to text a girl Youtube video, btw. Some of her info is really good, some of it is kinda weak.
Hope that helps!
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