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    Default Can someone help me fix this hole in my game?

    Part B of this equation is missing almost entirely....

    Part A - introduce myself to a girl with confidence and with masculinity.... get the basic facts out of her like her name, where she's from, her age, what she does for work/school...

    Part B - ????

    Part C - having sex with her and giving her orgasm after orgasm so much that she will come running back for more and tell her friends how good I was. I have confidence in my sex game. I might not be the biggest, but I have great stamina and can and will eat a pussy like a monster. So, unless she's a size queen, I can satisfy her.

    My guesses as to what is missing in Part B? Obviously, the physical escalation and some comfort building. Is this where I should be doing two steps forward, one step back?

    I think maybe I need to polarize and be a little offensive, edgy at times? Maybe I need a "don't give a fuck," attitude, but not to the point of being reckless or breaking the law or seeming like a loose cannon.

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    Default Re: Can someone help me fix this hole in my game?

    reminds me of the underwear gnomes from southpark....
    step 1 get the underweat
    step 3 make money!

    seriously tho.... what are your sticking points....? it helps to be able to read attraction and build on that

    also everything doesn't have to be a full close..... get numbers ... go on dates seal the deal on date 3.... works pretty good usually.... that gives you time for part B.... could be you are rushing things?

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    Default Re: Can someone help me fix this hole in my game?

    Quote Originally Posted by upperhandy View Post
    reminds me of the underwear gnomes from southpark....
    step 1 get the underweat
    step 3 make money!

    seriously tho.... what are your sticking points....? it helps to be able to read attraction and build on that

    also everything doesn't have to be a full close..... get numbers ... go on dates seal the deal on date 3.... works pretty good usually.... that gives you time for part B.... could be you are rushing things?

    Sticking points:

    1. still a bit of approach anxiety, but that is waning quickly... I just approached the hottest girl in the club last week and she seemed interested to talk.... no one else even approached her....

    2. getting the conversation from boring "getting to know you" topics to more deep or whatever... I don't know what should come next and this is probably part of the problem....

    3. being sexual without being creepy.... I one time rubbed a girls inner thigh and she paid my bar tab.... I would prefer to be directly sexual and fuck them on the floor of the club, but I don't think that's too likely...

    4. hate to say it, but I have a criminal record and if they ever Google me, they will find it.... I have changed since then and am considering changing my last name to avoid having to deal with this....

    5. I haven't gotten far enough into conversations and getting to know someone that I can identify further sticking points yet... I would think that narcissism might be one but I haven't reached that point yet.... I spend a lot of time thinking about money and often ask girls what they do for a living and how much they make... perhaps I should stop that, but I don't know what else to talk about.... I've been told I have "no" personality... or very dry at best.... I think I come across as angry and/or depressed without even knowing it....

    Other than that, my main sticking point is just not getting out there and trying enough... I have only been out maybe 3 times in the past few weeks....

    I think lack of empathy maybe? But I might just be thinking too hard and reading too much into this....

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: Can someone help me fix this hole in my game?

    Hey man, I wrote a long answer to the thread we were chatting on before, idk why it didn't post...
    This gives me more details as to your problem, though.

    It sounds like you're not flirting.

    You're pulling facts out of her. Girls hate that.
    Men love talking about facts. EX: Football stats, prices of everything, "Can you drop the front-end two inches?", "what's your favorite food?" etc.
    Women on the other hand, are much more emotional. They want a man to make them feel good.

    How do you do that?

    Flirting.

    Teasing her in a playful way, talking about ridiculous things, asking her silly, ludicrous questions.

    Here's a good opener that I use often that serves as an example for teasing her.
    Me: "Hi, my name is Jake, what's your name?" <See how easy an opener can be?
    Her: "Hi, I'm Kelly." <Has no idea she's about to get her socks charmed off
    Me: "Hey Kelly, I have a very important question for you."
    Her: "What's that?"
    Me: "What do you think is worse for you, weed or alcohol?"
    Her: (She says either weed or alcohol, doesn't really matter)
    Me: "Are you serious?! You are such a (pothead/alcoholic), (weed/alcohol) is so much worse for you!"

    So you just playfully disagree with her, make sure all of this is said in a playful voice, with a little smirk on your face. And you can just play with that for a minute.

    But you can't be ALWAYS flirty, I used to have that problem.
    If you're always flirty, it just ruins the vibe, it kills the tension.

    So after a little banter (like above) you can come back to getting to know her.
    "If you could go one place in the world, money was no object, where would you go?"
    "Oh, cool, I love traveling too, but why would you choose Ireland over ANYWHERE else in the world?"

    Then take it back to something more flirty/silly
    "I bet it would take about 3 velociraptors to bust through that window, what do you think?"

    Then you take it back to something normal.

    Then you build some tension.

    "If you had to have sex in just one position for the rest of your life, what would it be?"
    Go back and forth on something like that

    Then you drop the subject, while accusing her of only thinking about sex! Haha, this is one gets me laughing every time.
    "Jesus, girls only think about one thing...let's talk about something else."

    Build more tension by putting her hands on you.

    Put HER hand on YOUR leg.
    Tell her to bite your neck if you're getting close, or dancing with her.

    Then, playfully push her away.

    This will drive her crazy.

    Hope that helps, brother!
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    Default Re: Can someone help me fix this hole in my game?

    Quote Originally Posted by JayBee View Post
    Hey man, I wrote a long answer to the thread we were chatting on before, idk why it didn't post...
    This gives me more details as to your problem, though.

    It sounds like you're not flirting.

    You're pulling facts out of her. Girls hate that.
    Men love talking about facts. EX: Football stats, prices of everything, "Can you drop the front-end two inches?", "what's your favorite food?" etc.
    Women on the other hand, are much more emotional. They want a man to make them feel good.

    How do you do that?

    Flirting.

    Teasing her in a playful way, talking about ridiculous things, asking her silly, ludicrous questions.

    Here's a good opener that I use often that serves as an example for teasing her.
    Me: "Hi, my name is Jake, what's your name?" <See how easy an opener can be?
    Her: "Hi, I'm Kelly." <Has no idea she's about to get her socks charmed off
    Me: "Hey Kelly, I have a very important question for you."
    Her: "What's that?"
    Me: "What do you think is worse for you, weed or alcohol?"
    Her: (She says either weed or alcohol, doesn't really matter)
    Me: "Are you serious?! You are such a (pothead/alcoholic), (weed/alcohol) is so much worse for you!"

    So you just playfully disagree with her, make sure all of this is said in a playful voice, with a little smirk on your face. And you can just play with that for a minute.

    But you can't be ALWAYS flirty, I used to have that problem.
    If you're always flirty, it just ruins the vibe, it kills the tension.

    So after a little banter (like above) you can come back to getting to know her.
    "If you could go one place in the world, money was no object, where would you go?"
    "Oh, cool, I love traveling too, but why would you choose Ireland over ANYWHERE else in the world?"

    Then take it back to something more flirty/silly
    "I bet it would take about 3 velociraptors to bust through that window, what do you think?"

    Then you take it back to something normal.

    Then you build some tension.

    "If you had to have sex in just one position for the rest of your life, what would it be?"
    Go back and forth on something like that

    Then you drop the subject, while accusing her of only thinking about sex! Haha, this is one gets me laughing every time.
    "Jesus, girls only think about one thing...let's talk about something else."

    Build more tension by putting her hands on you.

    Put HER hand on YOUR leg.
    Tell her to bite your neck if you're getting close, or dancing with her.

    Then, playfully push her away.

    This will drive her crazy.

    Hope that helps, brother!

    Thanks for the advice.

    I think I should go out and make PHYSICAL CONTACT with a girl before I get back to the forum.

    I hope the people who have been following me on here have noted the change in my attitudes since I first got on here.

    I was all like.... I hate women, I love money.... now I'm more chill...


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