Re: Friendzone yet after she ask if I'm faithful in love (opinions, tips?)
I feel you boss. You really liked this girl, she's probably extra sexy, and now she's flakin' on you like Pilsbury Grands.
I'm gonna suggest something similar to the advice i lent our buddy Upperhandy, who was a similar position.
First, I get the feeling that you might have been trying a little too hard to hang out with her. You say you went on a few dates, how many times per week did you ask her out? Did you ever make her come to you, and ask you if you wanted to hang out? Were you the one initiating all (or most) of the texts? Did you take time to kick back and give her a good amount of space?
See what I'm getting at here, champ?
Ya gotta make her come to you sometimes. And you gotta give her some space, especially if she's a busy woman.
So what to do now?
You have 2 options.
1. Just let her be, don't text her or call her, go get with some other chicks, and essentially forget about her.
Eventually she'll see you out in the city with some other girls and get jealous, then you'll get the text a month or so down the line, "Wyd?" haha.
2. You can let her cool off for 2 weeks exactly. No calls, no texts, no facebook contact, nothin'.
Then after 2 weeks, one day when you're out with your boys, text her something like Just go with something like "Hey, I'm at this really cool bar, having a kickass time (or whatever, tell her something neat about the bar, the bartender is really knowledgeable about whiskey, whatever you want. Just insert a cool little detail), hope you're well, I'll drop you a line soon."
A text like this is going to drive her crazy because you're doing something cool without her. And you're not trying to be an asshole about it, you genuinely wanted to share a little bit of your good time with her, you're wishing her well, and letting her know you'll contact her again sometime. You're essentially keeping the line open here.
Hope that helps, brother!
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