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    Default How to get texts from women (which you know)

    I have some (hot) female friends, but if I talked to them by texts it is because I text first.
    What is the best way to make them text me first? When i have text conversations with them it isn't boring, I can talk with them and have some fun but even after that they won't text me first. (I'm talking about women around 18-20 years, my age)

    Is this just al girly thing? They only text their bff or is something wrong with my text game?

    Cocotuiri

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    Default Re: How to get texts from women (which you know)

    I'm pretty busy, but to put it into laymans terms, don't text them until they text you. Simple as that. If that doesn't work, then hang it up buttercup, they're not worth it.

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    Default Re: How to get texts from women (which you know)

    Also, yes, it's a girly thing, but not as much as it is a power trip to get you to text first. You text them first and it gives them more importance over you. They text first, it means you're in control. Period.

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    Default Re: How to get texts from women (which you know)

    Yo Cocotuiri,
    Text game is tough. The biggest reason it's tough is because guys make it out to be this huge aspect of game...when it should be BY FAR the smallest part of your game. Period. (No matter what age you are)
    What is the best way to make them text you first?
    Pretty simple: Don't text them first. Go a week without texting the girl you like. If she doesn't text you, send her a "Ping text" ex: "Hey, I'm out doing someting cool with my friends and oh, here's a really cool detail about what we're doing. Hope you're well!"
    Also, your face to face interactions have a huge impact on weather or not she texts you first. If you haven't built any sexual tension between the two of you, she's not going to text you first.

    Having texting conversations? They're INTERESTING?!
    Stop, dawg. Stop having text conversations. You know what that tells her?
    You're her friend. You're available to her. You're not a challenge.
    You know who doesn't have text-versations with her?
    The guy she's fucking.
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    Default Re: How to get texts from women (which you know)

    Well, i see you are just a friend for now, doesnt mean you cant be friend with benefits ha, i recommened you to find some material about how to get out from friendzone before you start something.
    Greetings.

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    Default Re: How to get texts from women (which you know)

    Quote Originally Posted by JayBee View Post
    Yo Cocotuiri,
    Text game is tough. The biggest reason it's tough is because guys make it out to be this huge aspect of game...when it should be BY FAR the smallest part of your game. Period. (No matter what age you are)
    What is the best way to make them text you first?
    Pretty simple: Don't text them first. Go a week without texting the girl you like. If she doesn't text you, send her a "Ping text" ex: "Hey, I'm out doing someting cool with my friends and oh, here's a really cool detail about what we're doing. Hope you're well!"
    Also, your face to face interactions have a huge impact on weather or not she texts you first. If you haven't built any sexual tension between the two of you, she's not going to text you first.

    Having texting conversations? They're INTERESTING?!
    Stop, dawg. Stop having text conversations. You know what that tells her?
    You're her friend. You're available to her. You're not a challenge.
    You know who doesn't have text-versations with her?
    The guy she's fucking.
    hey jaybee, you are completly right. I had made sexual tension with them face 2 face, but I had a girlfriend back then, so I didn't do anythiny with it and know I want to do something with that tension, but i'm figuring out that i'm too late.. And also you are right about the interesting conversations, that is why I'm often in the friendzone. I have had too much of those interesting conversations..

    Thanks for your tips, you are confirming my thoughts!
    No more text conversations with girls for me!

    do you have some few tips how to build sexual tension (when it happens, i don't do it conscious and i want do it consciously!)

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    Default Re: How to get texts from women (which you know)

    Quote Originally Posted by bojan.95 View Post
    Well, i see you are just a friend for now, doesnt mean you cant be friend with benefits ha, i recommened you to find some material about how to get out from friendzone before you start something.
    Greetings.
    True my friend, i'm in the friendzone. I'm too nice and too available. But thanks for your post!

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    Default Re: How to get texts from women (which you know)

    Alright, I'm going to pull a bit of dick card here but:
    Quote Originally Posted by JayBee View Post
    Having texting conversations? They're INTERESTING?!
    Stop, dawg. Stop having text conversations. You know what that tells her?
    You're her friend. You're available to her. You're not a challenge.
    You know who doesn't have text-versations with her?
    The guy she's fucking.
    I 100% disagree with this. In fact, with all the replies. Not texting them because they won't text you will get you nowhere, you haven't been friendzoned if you've had limited interaction, and it's not some kind of a power trip.
    I'm not dismissing these guys as not knowing but given the question you asked I don't see how any of these make sense.

    Credit where credit is due though:
    Quote Originally Posted by JayBee View Post
    Yo Cocotuiri,
    Text game is tough. The biggest reason it's tough is because guys make it out to be this huge aspect of game...when it should be BY FAR the smallest part of your game. Period. (No matter what age you are)
    What is the best way to make them text you first?
    Pretty simple: Don't text them first. Go a week without texting the girl you like. If she doesn't text you, send her a "Ping text" ex: "Hey, I'm out doing someting cool with my friends and oh, here's a really cool detail about what we're doing. Hope you're well!"
    Also, your face to face interactions have a huge impact on weather or not she texts you first. If you haven't built any sexual tension between the two of you, she's not going to text you first.
    This is good!


    I don't understand why so many guys are so quick to dismiss text game!

    Yes, you want to keep things short of a "conversation" but how else do you interact with these girls between seeing them? Call her every afternoon or night like you've got nothing better to do? Not talk to her for a week and then start blowing up her phone trying to get another date and wonder where all the attraction you built has gone?

    Go anywhere that has a whole bunch of people hanging around and have a look at what the majority of them have in their hands and what has their attention.. their phone!

    I'm way too busy to be making phone calls all night after work. I finish at 5, go to the gym, home around 7, shower, cook dinner, get my shit ready for the next day, and I'm in bed. There's no time to make phone calls in there but I can fire off 40 texts during that same period.
    If I'm out with friends, it's the same deal.. I'm not going to pick my phone up and get caught up having a long conversation and ignore the people I'm hanging out with but I can fire off plenty of quick texts in between.

    Don't get me wrong, texting alone is not going to get you laid! But do it properly and it'll come close. Go and read just about any thread started by T-Mal, that guy is the king when it comes to that shit! I can't remember the last girl I actually spent time on the phone with that I hadn't been seeing for at least a month or more.


    Back to your original question; there's really way too much to fit into a single reply. You haven't built enough attraction, there's 100 guys texting the same girls all day, your text game is weak, you're coming off needy, etc. etc.

    Check this awesome thread out for starters: Proven Techniques to increase attraction with the girl you're dating <-- these work brilliantly with what you're trying to achieve. Then go and search the text threads. Again, anything by T-Mal will set you in good stead.

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    Default Re: How to get texts from women (which you know)

    Hey brother,
    For that sexual tension thang, I made a video.
    It's under Genreal Questions - How To Create Sexual Tension [Video]
    If you want some specific ways you can really amp up some sexual tension so a girl grabs you by your shirt and demands you to rip her clothes off, check out the blog Creating Sexual Tension | Jake Berreth Dating

    Also, one quick tip for your text game:
    When you're done typing out your text, look at it and go "How can I say the same thing with the LEAST words possible?" "How many bullshit words and phrases can I delete from this text?"
    Challenge yourself to say things in 7 word or less. 5 words or less.
    When you shorten texts like this they can actually sound MORE WITTY and MORE FUNNY. But you're still giving off the right subcommunications.
    Short texts tell her you're not investing all of this time and effort into texting her. That you have better things to do. And it can entice her to invest more time and effort in texting you in order to gain your validation, ya dig? Of course you do, you're sharp as a tack.

    Hope that helps, brother!
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