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    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
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    Default How do I bring them that excitement?

    I was at a bar this morning (not drinking, it is a restaurant too)... and the bartender was just saying that she was bored...

    I'm sure there are 1,000,000 bartenders that are bored every day and if I could figure out a way to bring them some excitement... I could be successful with them...

    Obviously, sex is exciting, but you can't ask someone for sex right off the bat....

    I don't know how to bring that excitement at this point, I need to get my energy directed in the right direction...

    I KNOW that telling them about my business isn't going to do it... I've tried that... maybe if I drove a Lamborghini, I would stick out of the crowd (not joking, some girls love cars, especially the 9s and 10s)....

    Other than that....

    The best I could think of was to try to think of some conversation that no one else was bringing up...

    I said.... "doesn't it amaze you how many people drink this early in the day?" and it started a little conversation about her drinking habits (which I didn't actually like because she said she drinks regularly)....

    She said goodbye to me by name..... (which she got off of my debit card)... so that is better than nothing... I am starting from scratch here...

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    Default Re: How do I bring them that excitement?

    glad you're making progress - but if you want to make them excited you yourself have to be excited/exciting, if you're feeling down you're most likely not going to make her excited.. you always seem to make boring/factual conversation, I recommend you saying something silly as often as you can to make you more comfortable in conversation. If she says she's bored, suggest to make a bet with her that the guy having breakfast with his girlfriend isn't going to pay for this meal or whatever. Anything will do as long as you keep it interesting, if she's already bored, asking/stating more boring factual stuff isn't gonna' make her jump up and down from excitement

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    Default Re: How do I bring them that excitement?

    Quote Originally Posted by Alergy View Post
    glad you're making progress - but if you want to make them excited you yourself have to be excited/exciting, if you're feeling down you're most likely not going to make her excited.. you always seem to make boring/factual conversation, I recommend you saying something silly as often as you can to make you more comfortable in conversation. If she says she's bored, suggest to make a bet with her that the guy having breakfast with his girlfriend isn't going to pay for this meal or whatever. Anything will do as long as you keep it interesting, if she's already bored, asking/stating more boring factual stuff isn't gonna' make her jump up and down from excitement
    You're right... I do have to be excited/exciting and in good spirits... no one will want to be with someone who is boring or depressed...

    I remember that I did try to make a joke... I asked her if I could have my food for free because there was a hair in it.... but I forgot to put my hair in it... Lol.... maybe the joke would have went better if I put my hair in it....

    It sucks that a lot of the stuff that makes me excited IS factual, such as real estate investing and money... you can talk negatively about money all day long, but I bet if I pulled up in a Lamborghini, that would get people excited..... nothing like wing doors opening vertically to get those pussies wet... (maybe I'm wrong, I have no idea, but worth a try)...

    Alergy, I don't want to come across as combative, but did you say you were a virgin in a different post? I don't remember if that was you or someone else.

    But when all is said and done... it's that SEX that is going to excite them.... other than, it would be a disappointment for them... they have plenty of platonic friends already...

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    Default Re: How do I bring them that excitement?

    Talk to her like you've known her for years. Simple answer. Be comfortable around her. Pretend like she isn't even attractive, and don't let her see that you want to score her. Just be a friend for 2-4 weeks and results should start showing without you even knowing it


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