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Thread: Jealousy.....good or bad???

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    Default Jealousy.....good or bad???

    Hello fellow PUAs so I have been talking to this HB9 for about a week now. And the first few days she has given me so many IOIs (Asks for my number, passes compliance test, strong eye contact, let's me touch her hair, opens me, etc etc) but the last two days have been a bit peculiar. She's seen me hang out with other girls, me with girls in pics I put on social media and that sort of thing. Ever since then she has been a bit cold towards me. She won't open me unless I open her. And sometimes doesn't reply. But when we are having a convo she seems to really enjoy it. I don't know what mistake I made. I really want to perhaps date her or something, I just don't know from what angle to approach the situation, is it too late? Any advice will be appreciated, thanks!

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    Default Re: Jealousy.....good or bad???

    I've haven't yet been in such a situation where a girl is behaving indifferent towards you due to your connections with other girls, but honestly I advise you to keep running your normal game, keep doing what you were doing, don't apologize for seeing other girls - you're not dating, if you're totally sure about wanting to date her - you can knock down all of her assumptions of you being a player by simply inviting her and your other female friends (best if they're the one's from your picture) to hangout together and treat her as if she was your girlfriend and the other girls as if they were but your friends. But if you're not so sure yet, you can be unapologetic about it, tease her about being insecure, personally I'd flip the script and call her a player and a heart breaker telling her that she's trouble and that I should be careful.

    DISCLAIMER: as I've stated before, I haven't yet been in such a situation so this time my advice isn't based on personal experience, this is but an explanation on what techniques I'd bet my cards on to get the best results,

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    Default Re: Jealousy.....good or bad???

    I see where you are coming from since we aren't dating. But she did have a thing with a guy before (they weren't dating either) and cut him off because he slept with some other girl.

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    Default Re: Jealousy.....good or bad???

    So u want to date a crazy, extremely jealous chick whose gonna befriend a dude she's not even dating because he's living his life?

    OPEN YOUR EYES!

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    Default Re: Jealousy.....good or bad???

    You could simply ask her if anything is bothering her. Don't assume anything and act on the assumption. Play dumb. If she says everything is fine then don't push. If she continues to act cold you could try this line, " Look, if something is bothering you then I'm willing to talk about it. If you choose not to tell me then you're just going to have to get over it." Obviously say this with a slick smile.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Jealousy.....good or bad???

    I've been thinking and maybe there is no attraction in the first place. Is that a possibility? And thanks to all who replied really appreciate it as I am still learning and improving my game.

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    Default Re: Jealousy.....good or bad???

    To test a woman's attraction to you simply give her a compliance test. It's not exact science, but it gives a rough idea how much attraction she has for you.
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    Default Re: Jealousy.....good or bad???

    compliance is good, yet I find kino escalation to be the best way for testing someone's attraction level for you.

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    Default Re: Jealousy.....good or bad???

    Girls have stuff going on in their life that has nothing to do with you. There's a very good chance she's being cold because of other reasons. The best way to figure out if she likes you is to hang out with her and make a move. Don't complicate a simple matter. Try to hang out with her and when you do make a move. It's that simple.


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