Re: How do i keep it at Friends with Benifits?
This is what I always used to do and because I believe in it it's not really lieing even though I know the turnout.
Tell her that you need to see someone for 6 months before committing to them. That you have trust issues and just want to make sure to choose the right person. The turnout is that they never last 6 months and usually either lose interest by then or you are interested in taking it further and she's ready.
Now if you're just trying to not see her all the time or spend all your time with her just do what women do. Tell her you want to take things slow. Yea it'll bug her, but she'll get over it. Unless she's a crazy person that will drive off a bridge with you in the car O_O (Vanilla Sky)
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