repressed emotions are always the strongest ones, and when they finally get exposed they're almost impossible to control. With that being said, what are the best ways to diminish the girls need to oppress such desires as being sexual, without being overtly sexual at first yourself (I've noticed it can be counterproductive). It would be best if you'd give examples that are more related to being indirect and the unconscious, not only what you talk about but also what behavior/traits usually arouses them and vice versa.

all responses are highly appreciated.