Re: Mystery Method is outdated?
That information is irrelevant for a girl to hear and can be harmful to you if you tell her this about you. It can go against you in either one or both of these ways...
Originally Posted by redstar1324
It will either come off as bragging and unattractive or she will put you in provider frame because she is a gold digger.
If she asks you what you do, instead of qualifying yourself, make her guess or break rapport and tell her you do something ridiculous so she knows you're joking, and then start qualifying her.
If you break rapport, and she still asks you what you do, then you can give a short answer and casually say you work in real estate, and continue qualifying her so she starts investing towards you. And when she does find out how successful you are, it will even be more attractive because it's not a big deal to you.
The less information she knows about you the better. It creates mystery, which is attractive and you're making her chase and invest towards you by her telling more information about herself.
Think about how a CEO acts when interviewing someone for a position. Who is asking who questions? Who is qualifying themselves? A man of high-status doesn't qualify himself. Check out my post on why you should stop qualifying yourself.
It's funny, I used to think that the more great things about myself I told to a girl, the more logical reasons she would have to want to be with me. I realized over time that attraction was an emotional decision, which can be triggered by your sub-communication and having her work towards you.
If she's spending so much time with you and telling deep personal information about herself, then she will subconsciously become more attracted to you. She'll rationalize that she must like you if she's putting all this and spending all this time you.
When she's spent the whole night with you, investing and talking about herself, she won't just ditch you for some other guy that comes up to her, even if he might be better looking or more successful than you. She put enough work into you that she wants something at the end of the night. Investment solidifies attraction and she will want a return on that investment.
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